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    for making stupid, stupid choices!! the worst part was that i knew it was stupid and i did it anyway! when i first started at my new club i met this guy, we talked a while, and hung out a few days later. i was absolutely wasted when we hung out (i had just worked a double and had been drinking for 14 hours, the last few of which were spent in the champagne room) and we slept together. no biggie. but neither one of us talked to the other afterwards, i didnt stay over because britt=psycho when im that drunk. so anyway, no big deal.

    cut to last night at work, where by the way, i did one lap dance. *one*. i made exactly enough for tipout. grr. so the guy was in there again, and i get the impression that i am not the only girl hes hooked up with from my club. so at first it threw me off and i wasnt going to talk to him because i was kind of desperate to finish the night with some money, but i ended up going over anyway. long story short, i went home with him, this time with the rule that i couldnt leave, i had to spend the night(his rule, not mine). this was stupid mistake number one. i know better!

    stupid mistake number two was thinking to myself "hmm, i could get used to this..." when i know he's just a sweet talker! but when i havent so much as kissed a guy in the last 2 months, its nice to have somebody that wants to cuddle and say nice things and wake up in the morning and lay in bed for 2 hours just goofing off and cuddling! someone please talk some sense into me.

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    NO NO NO! Naughty! No guys from the club! When I get down there I'm gonna kick your ass. Seriously, I sound like a dork, but try online dating. There are some good ones out there! Plentyoffish.com. Try it. Are you always up this early?

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    im up this early because i just got home from his apartment shut up

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    The "walk of shame" and now you're home early.

    You'll get enough straight-talking "girl, don't do this to yourself!" commentary from the ladies. I'm here to say: Forgghetaboutit. You acted out because you were drunk and lonely. Everybody does this--maybe SHOULD do this--a few times in life. Don't beat yourself up about it too much.

    Meantime, Natalie gives you fundamental advice that you should write down and put up on your fridge with magnets: No guys from the club!

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    Live learn move on .

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    Trust me, 99% of the people that post regularly on this site have had a drunk hook-up of some kind. It doesn't make you a bad person, but don't get into the habit of it. I know that it feels really good at the time, but later, you'll probably end up feeling empty and lonely. It's a very self destructive behavior, and since you've recognized it, it's time to nip it in the bud before it gets out of hand.

    Take it from someone who learned the merits of going home alone and waking up alone the hard way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chicagoeditor View Post
    You'll get enough straight-talking "girl, don't do this to yourself!" commentary from the ladies. I'm here to say: Forgghetaboutit. You acted out because you were drunk and lonely. Everybody does this--maybe SHOULD do this--a few times in life. Don't beat yourself up about it too much.
    hmm, i like that. maybe everybody should do it every once in a while. it made me feel better for the time being, i guess...

    my problem isnt so much the drunken hooking up or the one night stands, its the fact that i am lonely right now and so i kind of latch on to these guys and think i like them. in reality, i know they arent exactly top notch dudes, but i guess my thinking sometimes is its better to have someone than no one...

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    my problem isnt so much the drunken hooking up or the one night stands, its the fact that i am lonely right now and so i kind of latch on to these guys and think i like them. in reality, i know they arent exactly top notch dudes, but i guess my thinking sometimes is its better to have someone than no one...
    Funny, but that also happens to be one justification we custies have for visiting strip clubs.

    Glad you've got some perspective on your wee stumble. Chin up!

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    You haven't lived until you wake up in someone elses house, naked in their bed, after having sex,you don't know who they are, and your last memory is two hours before closing. Good times. That happened twice in my twenties. Thank God they were always Women! Ha!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    You haven't lived until you wake up in someone elses house, naked in their bed, after having sex,you don't know who they are, and your last memory is two hours before closing. Good times. That happened twice in my twenties. Thank God they were always Women! Ha!

    I am so glad I haven't lived, then.
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    Sheltered soul. Live a little.

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    Calling a kink queen sheltered. Best. Joke. Ever.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    Calling a kink queen sheltered. Best. Joke. Ever.


    I must be "sheltered" too.

    sometimes is its better to have someone than no one...
    No!!! No no no no no!! You are so much better off alone than with some sub-standard idiot who is just using you. Believe me, that's what they are. Please be safe.

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    Quick, Alexxa, let's go be nuns!


    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    No!!! No no no no no!! You are so much better off alone than with some sub-standard idiot who is just using you. Believe me, that's what they are. Please be safe.

    I so agree with you on this. Beyond the Don't Shit Where You Eat thing.... I've seen some great people (my biological father included) become miserable because they opted for sub-standard dolts instead of being alone. Being alone can be great! No one will be there to gasp in shock when you pick your wedgies.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    Quick, Alexxa, let's go be nuns!
    Yes!! Let's do it!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244
    but when i havent so much as kissed a guy in the last 2 months, its nice to have somebody that wants to cuddle and say nice things and wake up in the morning and lay in bed for 2 hours just goofing off and cuddling! someone please talk some sense into me.
    You just said it...you hadn't kissed anyone in 2 months. Could this be at least in part due to working a crazy schedule, to the point that you don't have time to go out and meet guys? I've had this happen before to me. I would go for a period of time without "getting any," partly because of working a lot, partly because I didn't see many guys who were my type, and partly because some guys were assholes to me. These "dry spells" usually made me more prone to want to hook up with a hot customer. I'll admit, there WERE a few times that I hooked up with guys from work(LOL and I didn't necessarily meet these guys at work; sometimes I would run into a guy at work who I'd already met at a regular place or through friends before, but had always kinda wanted to hook up with). Although I've hooked up with a few "customers" and had a fun time with it, I understand that it is not the most professional thing to do. If I had already been dating/hooking up with someone, then I wouldn't have been nearly as likely to have gone with a customer. So my advice to you is, perhaps you need to set aside a little time(maybe allow one night per week to take off work and just go out with the girls to a bar or gathering to meet guys?) to meet guys so that you can get your physical and emotional needs satisfied, so that a customer won't be so tempting.

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    "Please yell at you?" "Talk some sense into you?"

    As long as the sex was fabulous, I'm about ready to give you a standing ovation.

    Was the sex fabulous? This is important to my continuing to encourage you.

    Look, there is enough loneliness and sadness and longing in your post to justify pretty much any healthy encounter that makes you feel better and has no long-term hurtful consequences.

    Beating yourself up because he was a customer is a waste of energy. The whole reason for the customer stigma is to keep it from becoming a habit, at which point it can breed ugliness, stalkers, jealousy and the kind of blistering drama you don't need.

    As an occasional recreational fling that makes you feel better? I'm having a hard time seeing the down side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    Calling a kink queen sheltered. Best. Joke. Ever.
    Being a "kink" queen and taking chances with a drunken hook up are sooooooo not related. After all in your "kink" it is a highly structured fantasy, with boundaries and safe words. Not all like waking up with no recollection of the sex let alone how you got into that bed.

    This is from my early twenties when I was 10 feet tall and bullet proof. Along the way i became aware of mortality and don't do these things anymore. But it sure was fun.

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    too, i wanna come to camelot!! i work in baltimore but i was told it's hard to get a job at camelot.. im sick of downtowm though.. totally off topic but that made me think of it..

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    You haven't lived until you wake up in someone elses house, naked in their bed, after having sex,you don't know who they are, and your last memory is two hours before closing. Good times. That happened twice in my twenties. Thank God they were always Women! Ha!
    Haha, I'm starting to dislike you less Army.

    Oh, I've hooked up with guys I've met at the club. And yes, all of them bought dances first! I still have rugburn scars on my lower back from one college basketball player with a perfect 6-pack. Its no big deal, you're young and can handle it. Be safe, enjoy the sex, don't expect anything to come out of it

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    katrine, thats my problem.. i always like them haha but yeah, army.. if i ever woke up and didnt know the dude i would freak out!

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    Evreyone eneds sum lovin every once in awhile! You made it home, right? So all's good! Be happy you had fun. : )

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    Being a "kink" queen and taking chances with a drunken hook up are sooooooo not related. After all in your "kink" it is a highly structured fantasy, with boundaries and safe words. Not all like waking up with no recollection of the sex let alone how you got into that bed.

    This is from my early twenties when I was 10 feet tall and bullet proof. Along the way i became aware of mortality and don't do these things anymore. But it sure was fun.

    I'm quite aware that they are unrelated. My boundaries and safe words will keep me STD free too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    I'm quite aware that they are unrelated. My boundaries and safe words will keep me STD free too.
    I don't think either of you are even talking about the same thing and I don't think ArmySGT is seriously bragging that having unsafe blackout sex is such a great thing to do. And Paige, I really can't imagine you being this "kink queen" when you get grossed out that your stripclub customers get hard-ons (another thread). But perhaps we just live in different worlds. I don't really have a fine-tuned taste for fetish, just prefer the straight-up nasty sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    And Paige, I really can't imagine you being this "kink queen" when you get grossed out that your stripclub customers get hard-ons (another thread). But perhaps we just live in different worlds. I don't really have a fine-tuned taste for fetish, just prefer the straight-up nasty sex.
    Kink and having to deal with customer hard ons have little in common to me. My kinks involve males being subservient, and not being allowed to let their genitals do as they please (yay for the CB 2000) LMAO. Yes, I get grossed out by the idea of touching strange, random hard on. The only time I will willingly do it, when my boyfriend is involved, is when I am causing genital pain. I don't want to grind on one, I don't want to sit on one, and I don't want to accidentally feel one in a place where genitals (usually) tend to be kept to one's self.

    But back to why I brought that up to Army... because I am not sheltered. What I do for a living (plural noun) really wouldn't let me be sheltered. So I found it quite funny.
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