Okay so I finally worked up the courage to go and audition at a topless club thats not high end but also not the bottom of the barrel. I went in pretty confident since one of my friends who frequents the club well enough to even know the manager (although i didnt name drop when i went) had referred me and seen my outfit, informal audition, etc and said that i was good to go. So I went and went to the back office with the daytime manager where he had me take off my top then said he couldnt hire me because I had "too many stretch marks". Now granted I do have them (just under my belly button to above where hair starts to grow), I've had 2 kids one year apart and fairly recently (theyre 2 &3) and I do see them too but I didnt think they were enough to hinder me from dancing, esp since in clubs the lighting is darker and then theyre not that obvious. I mean I'm confident enough with them that last summer was the first since the kids that every weekend I was at the beach in a bikini! So I'm wondering is this a real problem, do you think it was just the club/ manager, should I try creams and working out more, or just give up till I get a tummy tuck to take care of it?? BTW, I'm 5'10" and 168lbs, thick still but mostly just curvy in the right places since this was a mostly latin/black club. Rejection sucks, esp when while i was waiting to audition two guys (after telling them why i was there) told me they wanted to be near the stage when i did....money lost wtf!![]()



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