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    Default Finally started dancing!

    Ok ladies, so after all of the research and delaying I finally started dancing.
    Yesterday was my first night and I made about 685 dollars and walked out with 625 after tip out/fees!
    I had so many guys wanting a dance towards the end of the night that I couldn't get to them all.

    One problem Im having is them asking me for my #. I tell them Im not allowed and then I lose a dance. How do I handle this?

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    Default Re: Finally started dancing!

    Congrats on the new job! These guys actually decide not to get a dance because you won't give them your phone number? I'm embarrassed to be a male at this point.... If it was me asking, and you simply and nicely said " I'm sorry sweetie, we just met, would you give your # to a total stranger?" or "I live with a girlfriend who has a child so I really can't be giving the number out, but you can always find me here!", I would have no problem. If these guys are dilusional enough to think that every dancer is just gonna give them a phone #, it must be their first trip to a club or they are so full of themselves that they aren't worth bothering with. Don't be insulted, but are these guys like complete rednecks or something? Sounds like you have so many requests that you can afford to be abit choosy! Don't worry, if I was attracted to you enough to ask for your number, I'm coming back for a dance anyhow.... Good luck!

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    Default Re: Finally started dancing!

    The best way to combat the number issue is like Valk said, "I barely know you, and i've been burnt in the past, so let's start by getting to know each other here, and then we'll see where we are at." Put you in control, and you can say you are not comfortable with that. "I could get fired for that!" doesnt work so well to keep the money coming, as you saw. way to go on yoru first night! where are you working?

    Love it!

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    Default Re: Finally started dancing!

    Thanks for the advice! Yesterday was my second night and it didn't go so well. I was there for about 5 hours and made a little over 200 and walked out with 130. There were so many beautiful girls with great moves that I hardly sold dances. I did very basic moves on stage and although Im a newbie I need to learn some pole tricks if I want to make money like them. On my first night I dont know why I made so much more and now I not only need hustling tips (where I will discuss in the hustle hut) but Im not as confident anymore. In fact Im feeling uncomfortable. Im looking into striptease classes and would like to know if its worth it. Some of the girls at my club seem friendly however I dont know if they will help me at this point. Most of the friendly girls are new dancers themselves. Thanks in advance!

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