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    Wow, interesting thread. Don't know why it got so heated, but perhaps a more appropriate title here would have been "Appearance Isn't Everything".

    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    Anyway..the point is, he bought a dance from a less than attractve girl because he liked her personality. He refused a dance from a very attractive girl because she acted like she didnt want to be there.
    Since some of you are already deconstructing Kaylinn's "experiment" here as flawed because the more attractive dancer approached while she was present while the less attractive one approached while she was absent.

    I think another thing that has to be considered here, is that you gals tend to have a far more critical eye for beauty than we men do. Perhaps in the eyes of Kaylinn's BF, the discrepancy in appearance wasn't as steep as she's implied that it was. We only have her testimony to go on after all. Also there's nothing here to suggest that the more attractive dancer's hustle would have won him over had she not been present.

    The fact is, we men will trade a few points (and I stress a FEW) in appearance for a gal who looks to be more fun. There's nothing in that statement of course that says a dancer can't excel in both departments.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    I'll bet that if you put 2 dancers side by side, one hot and one not, but BOTH are friendly with great attitudes, you'll pick the hot one, won't you?
    All other things being equal, most certainly. The thing is in a real life SC experience, that scenario of side-by-side rarely presents itself. The fact is that because a bombshell dancer has a broader appeal she is often more busy. Unless we get lucky and our timing is good, we often can't get to the bombshell. She's effectively unavailable, even if we can see her hotness from across the room.

    And since like any dancer she can only attend to one party at one time, naturally she's going to go after the ones whom are most lucrative to her. That means passing less lucrative ones up. Is that snottiness on her part? Not in the least, simply good business sense in managing her time. But to those whom she has to pass up, its going to be perceived as snottiness.

    I think there's the overachiever/underachiever apsect that hasn't been brought up. A gal who is a '10' learns in practice that because her looks give her a competitive advantage that attract big spenders, and therefore she doesn't have to hustle as hard. In fact its often not worth the effort to do so when 60% effort still results in 100% earnings. A gal like that can get in a habit of resting on her laurels which can backfire on nights when there are no big spenders.

    Meanwhile a less attractive dancer who knows she is at a competitive disadvantage is going to ratchet her charm and performance skills up a notch to compensate. The good thing for her is that since the bombshell is often unavailable to most customers, this frees them up for her giving time to show her personality, sometimes before the bombshell is even seen.

    Of course, several trips later when these customers have established some regularity with the less attractive dancers, they're enamored to those dancers to the point where on that night when the bombshell has to approach them, that they turns her down. By then, any attributes aside from appearance aren't so equal anymore.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    I think there's the overachiever/underachiever apsect that hasn't been brought up. A gal who is a '10' learns in practice that because her looks give her a competitive advantage that attract big spenders, and therefore she doesn't have to hustle as hard. In fact its often not worth the effort to do so when 60% effort still results in 100% earnings. A gal like that can get in a habit of resting on her laurels which can backfire on nights when there are no big spenders.
    And the really really smart strippers give whats expected (what you call 60%) when those big spenders are there, and also what is expected (what you may consider 100%) when it's a night that needs "more" hustle

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post

    I think another thing that has to be considered here, is that you gals tend to have a far more critical eye for beauty than we men do.
    Could not agree more and I'm guilty of it myself.

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    Ferfucksake. Why can't you guys just admit that appearance is still the biggest and/or first part of it?? If you choose not to frequent clubs where the dancers are ugly, then OBVIOUSLY you're taking appearance into consideration BEFORE anything else. Only AFTER you've gotten into a club where the dancers are attractive to you, do you start choosing based on their "personalities". Remember that stripper "average" is still a helluva lot better-looking than civilian "average"

    Geez guys. It's ok to admit you prefer hot chics. Really it is. It's natural. We REALLY don't mind!!

    Also doc, you (as all the blueballers love to do) talk about the "10" who doesn't put forth 100% effort because she can expend maybe 60% and still get 100% earnings. Well, what about those who like MORE earnings and therefore put out 100% effort to get 150% earnings??? huh? I get so tired of you guys always talking how the hot chics don't try, are lazy, etc Furthermore, there are PLENTY of less-attractive girls who are supreme lazyasses and horrible hustlers with shit personalities. TONS. Sometimes that's why said girls can be found sucking cock in the corner for $60 OR sulking in the dressing room all night with $40 in their garters.



    Side note: Fucken-a doc!!! Where the hell have you been??? You almost had me worried dood.
    Last edited by Bridgette; 02-27-2007 at 12:20 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Also I get so tired of you guys always talking how the hot chics don't try, are lazy, etc
    If anything I have found the hottest chicks (I mean the real cream of the crop: the 9.5's and the 10's) to also have the best personalities and to give the best dances. Also for some odd reason which I don't fully understand yet, they also seem to be the ones most willing to hook up OTC. (Would love to hear some conjectures on why that may be...)

    So nowadays I stick exclusively to the super hot ones. (Hey, one's time in a strip club is (hopefully) limited. Best to play the odds as best you can.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by AndyI View Post
    Also for some odd reason which I don't fully understand yet, they also seem to be the ones most willing to hook up OTC. (Would love to hear some conjectures on why that may be...)
    LMAO bwwwwwwwwaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh


    Well if you are half as charming in the SC as you are on SW who could resist

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    Hmm...Maybe a better title to this thread would have been "Personality is Important"
    I didnt mean personality was EVERYTHING, literally, and that if you were butt ugly and had a great eprsonality then you would still sell a lot of dances, I just meant, that if your lacking in looks, a pleasing personality may help close the gap a little and help sell more dances.

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