Ok, I admit it. I really want a boyfriend! But not just any boyfriend. I'm auditioning, and I'm being more critical than Simon from American Idol. There are TONS of guys I meet who want to date me (just like most of my fellow strippers) but I don't really want to date them!
I'm sick of the rats and super rats I meet in the club, and hate the bar scene. So I joined eHarmony.com, match.com, and divebuddies.com (I LOVE to scuba dive and it's a fun site for meeting other divers. Divers tend to be fun, adventurous people). Any other good dating sites?
I'm communicating with all sorts of nice guys, but here's a question... how do I tell them "self-employed" means "stripper" and not scare them off? I'm not going to be a stripper forever, and it would be really great to meet a NICE guy who can deal with it in the meantime. It seems like nice guys don't want to date strippers, and DAMNIT my job is the least important aspect of me as a person. I'm going to be finishing school soon and dancing will be a thing of the past. I don't feel like I'm doing anything "wrong" in my line of work, but most people don't understand that. Every important relationship I've had since I started dancing has been undermined by jealousy.
How do I tell them? When do I tell them? What should I say? I don't want to seem apologetic because I'm NOT sorry I'm a dancer, but I want to seem understanding that it is a lot for a significant other to handle.



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It's just depressing to meet a fantastic guy and he blows you off because of the connotations of your job.


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