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    Hey there everyone,
    A friend of mine and I were interested in dancin and decided to check out a clubs. We're in Southern Calis so we checked out a few in San Diego to Redlands. We went with Hustler Club in Redlands. We're shootin for toplees places for now. Well my friend auditioned 2 weeks before me and got the job.
    It was my turn yesterday. We got there and the manager wasn't there so we had to come back in an hour. We came back and he was there and the cocktail waitress informed him we were there. we sat for about half an hour until my friend had to remind the bartender that we were still there and could come back another day if today wasn't good. Well the manager called us back and he just looked stressed out and high..I guess he was ddealing with the beer machine...well he didn't even look like he wanted to deal with auditions..but he said well okay go and get dressed and come back and I'll take you to the DJ. Well i came back and he didn't even want to do that..he said well just go find the DJ..luckily my friend was with me and showed me everything. The DJ explained all the rules to me. One of the new dancers who was also about a month new to dancing said she would cheer me on.
    Okay so off I went on stage..and I felt I did pretty well..and it was actually fun..I went on a very slow day. Well then the rejection came...the high looking manager says "well you're not what we're rally looking for...we need some one with more experience and we have like 60 girls and I rather ease you into it and come back in tw months..he was trying to sound like he was doing me a favor. Itold my friend and she was shocked...the other dancer that cheered me on asked if i would be abck..I told here he didn't hire me and she was shocked..she said that i did very well and that that was a bullshit excuse cause there are many dancers that are new and have no experience just like her. Well i said well he looks stressed out..she said yeah he his actually he yelled at me earlier...A customer I saw said if I was coming abck and said no..he was like ican't believe they didn't hire you..I've been here a few times and some of the girls shouldn't be here..
    Both my friend and the other dancer had a different manager than me so they think it was hima nd that I should come back and audition for one of the other managers...Is that a bad idea?? Anway sorry so long..had to vent!!
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    Default Re: Aahh rejected...!!

    the "too many girls" line is a lie most of the time. If there were really that many girls, they wouldn't even let you audition. My impression is this....you are not physically the type he was looking for. A lot of times when there is an audition, whoever meets her will tell the manager. If he's busy, he'll ask what she looks like. If he doesn't get a good review, he's not going to go out of his way to meet you. While the club might not be busy with customers, there is still regular maintenance stuff to do. He might have knew he wasn't going to hire you before he even saw you audition but let you do so anyway because you waited so long.

    I would try a different club. If you have your heart set on this club, try back in a month or so.

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    Well thanks for the reply...I'm about 5'2'' and about 115 lbs, but maybe i wasn't the type..it's just a little disheartening...This is what my face looks like so I don't think I look to bad...but i do know that dancing isn't just about looks...If i do go bakc should i try another manager..that's what my friends and the other dancer suggest, but i may jus try another club.

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    Well I think you're beautiful!! The exotic look (as in: you) is a really nice asset for most clubs, either go to another club or try again later at this club. I know it's disheartening but I'm sure you could see for yourself that the manager was just waving you off cuz he was too busy (unprofessional IMO but, ya know). It doesn't seem like it even had anything to with your body or your face! I think maybe you just caught him on a bad day. Maybe he's always having a bad day, who knows. In which case, you don't want to be there anyway. Just keep trying! It's best not to wait too long before trying again cuz the longer you sit around feeling sorry for yourself, the less likely you'll actually go audition somewhere else. It really kills your confidence the longer you wait. Go try somewhere else immediately! You'll rock their socks off, bet you $20. lol.
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    i say wait a bit and then go audition for a diff. manager. i know for a fact that i probably wouldn't have been hired if i had auditioned for a certain guy at my club, he never was a big fan of mine. i don't think i've ever actually seen him hire any girls that he watches audition. plus, like you said, he seemed irritated.. give it a while and go back.

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    Well thank you ladies for the uplift and support..after that manager i don't know if i want to go back that club, but i may audition elsewhere!! Thanks!!
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    I would just go try at another club! You're very very pretty! The manager was obviously in a bad mood or having a bad day.

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    Thanks for the support!
    "There's still a negative attitiude in our society towards women who use a strength that's inherent - their feminity - in any way that might be considered seductive." -Demi Moore

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