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    My dad pisses me off so much. All he cares about is his girlfriend's family and his girlfriend. He doesn't give a shit about what happens to my sister or I. He always goes to fix their cars, but if I ask him like a week in advance for him to check my oil or anything even simple he'll get all bitchy and anal about it. So even though my dad's a mechanic I take my car to Midas.

    His girlfriend always says mean little comments towards my sister and me, and he just ignores them. Even though she says things right in front of him. We've decided to just fight back and we say mean things to her now, and he gets all mad saying "why can't you guys just be nice to cindy?" and he refuses to aknowledge that she's mean to us as well.

    This year my dad didn't get me anything for my birthday, I don't carea bout presents, I'll buy myself whatever, but he didn't even get me a card. Cindy's sons birthday was this week and he took him out to dinner twice and got him lots of shit for his car.

    Whenever my sister and I move out (we've both moved in and out of his house several times,) he gets very shitty with us, and generally mean and makes mean comments. When I turned 18 and wanted to move out he was mean to me for a month until I actually moved out. He came to visit me once when I was away.

    He always talks shit about my mother. She cheated on him in the past and yes that's wrong but I still love her dearly and I have asked him not to talk about her the way he does. He gets all defensive. He is a hypocrite though because I know he cheated on his current girlfriend who he claims to love so much, and he goes onto sites still like onlinebootycall.com and shit like that. I would not say anything to his girlfriend because it's nto my place.

    There 's more I just don't feel like writing about it. I'm very sad today and I really want to move out but I can't afford it just yet. Things have goten to the point where I dislike him so much he will talk to me and I will just give him one word answers. We used to be really close and now I almost hate him. I know there is nothing I can do because it's his life. I just wanted to vent.

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    vent away nat, that's what we are here for! *hugs* go stay with the boyfriend for a bit, maybe then things will cool down.

    Love it!

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    awww girl! why didn't you tell me? i always bitch and whine about my family shit (along with everything else ) to you! you're moving to md soon anyway, right? then you don't have to deal with it. it sucks so much that he's acting that way to you but one day he'll realize his mistake when you aren't there anymore.

    you know i'm always here for you to talk to if you need someone

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    I once read a quote that said something to the effect of "God grants us friends to make up for family".

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    Sounds a lot like my real dad
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    Thanks for the support girls. Yesterday my sister's dog had puppies, they are half mine too because my male chihuahua got to her jack russel a week before he was neutered! So we had loads of people who asked for these dogs, but my sister and I decided it would be best to wait and see who the best people were.. Also we did not know how many puppies there would be so we'd be fools to promise dogs to everyone. Well in an effort to win over his girlfriends children he promised one of our puppies to his girlfriend's son's girlfriend. We only met this girl once. And Im very pissed.

    Before he met this woman he said he would never sell our family home. Now this woman has convinced him to start getting our house ready to sell so he can move in with her. He says she won't get alimony from her ex husband anymore, and he will *have* to pay her bills. Whatever, he never did anything for my mother.

    I feel like when I move out I don't want to ever talk to him again. I doubt he would visit me in Maryland anyways. When I lived in Philly he visted once and he never visited my sister, or when she lived in Allentown which is 20 minutes away.

    It's like every day there is a new thing that sets me off to make me dislike him even more.

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    i dont find myself to be mommy material, but natalie, if you were a bunny i'd spoil you rotten!

    i will say this makes me grateful that my rents are still together- almost 30 years!

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