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    i've been taking the advice of veteran strippers to heart in the sense that i shouldn't spend time with customers who aren't spending on me.

    last night i was the first dancer to approach a customer who told the taxi driver to take him to the most upscale gentlemen's club in the city. i sat with him for five minutes or so. he said he wanted to settle in for a bit. i said okay and that i'd come back. when i got back about 10 minutes later another girl had him and i later saw them make their way upstairs to VIP.

    the night before i was expecting to go into VIP with a customer, then i had to go onstage. when i got back another girl was there and he ended up taking her instead.

    i was crushed/infuriated.

    so how much time do i spend with a good customer in order to get a VIP with him? i feel that if i stayed longer i would have been in there and not the other girls.

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    Default Re: time/when another girl swoops in

    You can't fret over losing someone when you were on stage. Nothing you can do about that.

    However if you feel a guy is VIP material - ie, he said he told the taxi driver to take him to the most upscale joint in town, he just got there and wants to chill for a bit - then spend more than 5 minutes with him. Maybe he just wasn't interested in VIP with YOU, but more likely he really just wanted to chill for a bit first. I will spend maybe 3-4 songs with a guy in a situation like that. Most really don't want to go right to VIP within 10 minutes of arriving, and if you've gotten good vibes from him, it usually pays to stick it out a few extra minutes.

    Like any other rule, there are exceptions to the rule of not spending free time with custies.

    It's one thing to sit around half an hour with a guy who's been in the club a while and is stalling. It's entirely another to spend 10 extra minutes on a guy who just arrived and has expressed interest. Ya know?

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    Default Re: time/when another girl swoops in

    yes. i'll remember that tip for next time.

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