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    Thumbs up I am so proud of myself! :D

    So tonight was my first night back after Sat night so i felt really relaxed and refreshed. A lot of girls were on, around 30 which is a lot for our tiny club and it was QUIET! Everyone was sitting around moaning how shit the night was and I was surprised at how i didnt seem to mind at all. I just stayed in my chipper mood and Id only had one drink at the beginning of the night. It was past midnight and I was thinking Id go home at 1am if no one came in but then a rush of guys came in and I did my rounds, which i dont normally do! I dont normally approach everyone, but i said, tonight i will, no matter what i asume the outcome will be, ill go over anyway and guess what! I ended up making a little money despite it being a shit night! So i am very proud of myself cos a) i didnt drink, b) i didnt get pissed off, c) i didnt go home early and d) i approached everyone that i could. I only made £124 but I am really happy
    "Sex is currency. What's the use of being beautiful if you can't profit from it?" - Lily St Cyr (40's burlesque dancer)

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    Good for you! I hope I can remember your post on slow nights. It is so hard to really approach everyone, especially when a night starts out so bad.
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    you know i just got so sick of my own bad attitude. i got tired of being pissed off and frustrated and bummed out and going home with no money yet again and i figured, since all the other girls are sitting around bummed out, ill go make their money!

    i like how not drinking actually helped my hustle because i was focused enough to counter strike my opponents doubts, etc.
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    Good girl, u should notice the money start to increase now. Bad attitudes do nothing but hurt u.

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    Another thing I think about at work is "if youre not first, youre last". If I hesitate for one moment, another girl will get to the guy im thinking about first. So now, I dont think, I just go and get there first.

    The whole night if I started to flag I kep thinking about how proud I would be if Id tried everyone instead of thinking theyd say no before I even go there. I thought, even if they say no, at least I tried and thats better than nothing.
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    oh and i also thought to myself "i want to get to the point where i can say in a flirty sexy way -you want a sexy hot dance right now dont you- while smiling and nodding" so i went into each approach with that in mind and made sure the conversation stayed on target, worked like a treat!
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    Good for you! Way to stay positive. I TRY to do the same on slow nights, and one thing that sometimes helps is to think of it as "mellow" instead of "$%#@! dead!". I know it's just semantics, but it helps my attitude.

    There have been plenty of slow nights where the money is still flowing, if . . . uh, gently, where I approach it like, well, I'm just going to relax and take it easy a little, and set a MODEST goal. I'll approach everyone I can, try to have fun onstage, have one drink, text a friend periodically, and aim to get a couple of dances, and leave with a hundred or two. More often than not I end up making more than my original modest goal.
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