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    So this guy again I've been casually dating for a few months he treats me so well everywhere we go and anything we do he takes care of it. He never wants me to tip or anything. He opens my door all the time.

    Except I dont show much affection and neither does he. We just both know we care about one another and thats that. He shows me he cares in other ways. Some info on him is that he is a bdsm lifestyler. He's a dom and I'm more like his respectful sub kinda of type of friendlyness to our relationship.

    I'm not one for showing affection and I think I might be selfish or something. I don't want it to seem like I'm using him because I want to show my appreciation for him. I was thinking of taking him to brunch, massage and bj after. That's sounds about right. More or less how can I be more affectionate and showing of how much I appreciate him on a daily basis or just something nice to do?
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    Default Re: Semi mushy

    I was thinking of taking him to brunch, massage and bj after. That's sounds about right.
    That would work for me...
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    Default Re: Semi mushy

    ^agreed^

    if you guys have a casual bdsm relationship, why not show your affection by doing little chores/favors/acts for him? open the door for him when you go out, sit at his feet while you watch a movie, fetch him another drink. stuff like that.

    and you can always ask him how he feels about the mushy factor (or lack thereof) in your relationship. if you're both happy without the touchy-feely bunnies & rainbows brand of affection, then so be it.

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