Alright, I'm getting REALLY fed-up with customers accusing me of being stuck-up, or a snob, or a bitch. I'll admit, I don't hustle. I rarely approach anyone at all, and generally only talk to people if they approach me or call me over.
Last week a group of guys walked past me on their way out of the club and said something like "We've wanted you to dance for us all night, but I guess you're too much of a stuck-up bitch to talk to guys like us".![]()
I swear to God, I am so far from being stuck-up. I'm actually really nice once you come and talk to me. I'm just really, really painfully SHY. I have zero confidence. The reason I don't approach customers is because I assume that there's no way they'd want to talk to me when they could talk to someone better. When I get on stage I smile and laugh and dance up a storm, but when it comes to approaching customers and selling myself, I just can't do it. It's not that I think I'm too good for the customers... it's that I think they're too good for me!
Why do so many customers assume my shyness is actually snobbiness? Is it because I'm so lively on stage? It's really frustrating, I don't like it that everyone always thinks I'm some stuck-up bitch.
So my question is, when you guys go to a club and you see a somewhat attractive girl standing around not talking to anyone, do you assume she's stuck-up? If so, why do you think that?


Reply With Quote



. again, perhaps this isn't the right board for you. nonetheless, the smart thing to do is to create another username while you're still behind. historically, such retards eventually get caught.


Bookmarks