and I hesitate to characterize it as a non-consensual humping - but I really wasn't into it.
Now - I have a dread of "making a thing" of things. I hate things, I hate making them and I hate (hate hate hate) having to tell people no, or ruining what is (or is ostensibly) intended to be a joke.
But - similarly - I hate being touched without permission by near strangers. I was sitting on a sofa pulling his tip out of my purse, and he says "Jenny, thank you, I'm really grateful, let me show you how grateful I am" and pushes me backwards saying "all these guys touching you tonight made me so jealous". Now this is ostensibly a joke, and I admit - I laughed (because I'm a wuss about confrontations) while pushing him off me, and just trying to hand him his money. But - I really didn't think it was that funny. The floor guy eventually came over and asked him for something (either because he really needed him, because he sensed I was uncomfortable or because he just thought it was not really appropriate) and it stopped.
Now - I do not think that I am acting in a way that would make anyone believe this is welcome. Leastaways - it's not like I get humped left and right by employees at every club I work in. People actually don't generally touch me unless they are brushing by me. Anyone got any completely wussy, non-confrontational ideas on how to handle this?
PS - I like the DJ, the DJ is fine, and nice and super, but I don't like guys touching me like that in public, and especially I don't like being touched like that at work.



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