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    I got pissy and went home last night. Seasonal stripper-drift has brought a bunch of new girls into the club and for the most part I don't mind. But a bitch has shown up who has been in my way since the first day she walked through the door. She has a similar body type to me, customers have told me a similar personality, slow dance style onstage, we must have the same hustle strategy because she's everywhere I want to be. But she has two advantages: she's new and she has big fake boobs. So far three of my regulars have reeled in their spending with me to spend on her. And there's just not enough money to go around. My club is regular heavy and money has been tight lately. Short of calling in a hit or beating her up myself, I just don't know what to do. Sorry for the rant. But I HATE that bitch.

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    Ugh, I feel for you. A very similar thing has happened to me a few times. One time people were asking me if the new girl and I were sisters! Another time a girl showed up at my club and just managed to best me in every way possible: taller, prettier, bigger boobs, and a remarkably similar personality. It feels as though you're getting kicked out of your niche and it feels very terrible. All night I would sit and think "Get the fuck out of my club! I was here first!" You can't help but compare yourself and draw really self defeating conclusions.

    My advice: Do not think negative. Negative thought festers inside and only makes the situation worse. Negative thought is toxic. I'm not saying that you should be happy for the bitch but you can think more about your positive aspects. You're a unique and wonderful human being and though she’s similar to you, she isn't you and never will be.
    I don't know how much can be done about huge boobs but you can always better yourself. A little exercise can help you take out some aggression and tone up your already hot body. Plus the endorphins that it releases are great mood boosters.
    If she’s taken a few of your regulars just smile and get more regulars. Work on making new connections. Use this as an opportunity to play the field and build up a better base of new regs.
    You can work nights when she’s not working so you don't have to directly compete or if you're up to it switch clubs for a little while (it sounds like you need a fresh perspective).

    * Oh, and if all else fails: steal a few strands of her hair from her brush and make a voodoo doll. Hah!

    Good Luck!
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    I think it's way out of line to consider beating someone up because they have similar stripping styles to you? I assume you are just joking though. You just need to step up your game. I've had regulars switch girls, sometimes they come back. Did she do something particular to take your regulars or is she just the best stripper in the club and all the regulars want dances with her?

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    Seasonal "stripper-drift" already? What city are you in? j/c...
    "We all must suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons. In order to achieve what others don't, you have to do what others won't."


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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Jessica View Post
    Seasonal "stripper-drift" already? What city are you in? j/c...
    Los Angeles. January and February are pretty slow at most clubs here and girls tend to look for greener pastures. Most go to Vegas. Surprised this chick hasn't. She just wants to stick around and fuck me up, I guess.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NatalieFRPhilly View Post
    I think it's way out of line to consider beating someone up because they have similar stripping styles to you? I assume you are just joking though. You just need to step up your game. I've had regulars switch girls, sometimes they come back. Did she do something particular to take your regulars or is she just the best stripper in the club and all the regulars want dances with her?
    Beating her up was out of line but calling in a hit was okay? Yes, I was joking. Guess I'll go congratulate her for being the best stripper in the club now.

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    I don't mean this to be preachy, but this is one of the many reasons I don't like to depend on regulars. If she's moving in on some of your regulars, you'll just have to find new customers. You could also try working different shifts from her, and calling in your regs for YOUR shifts.

    But the one thing you CANNOT do is dwell on her presence. You will only worsen your own mood and hurt your own game. Perhaps your regs have noticed your attitude shift and are spending less on you because of that. Forget about her and get happy again!

    Or, tell your regs she has cooties? Slip in convo about her many kids and jealous thug babydaddies? Visine in her drink? LOL j/k

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    You could try and befriend her and do the double-dance thing.

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    My advice: Do not think negative. Negative thought festers inside and only makes the situation worse. Negative thought is toxic. I'm not saying that you should be happy for the bitch but you can think more about your positive aspects. You're a unique and wonderful human being and though she’s similar to you, she isn't you and never will be.
    I don't know how much can be done about huge boobs but you can always better yourself. A little exercise can help you take out some aggression and tone up your already hot body. Plus the endorphins that it releases are great mood boosters.
    If she’s taken a few of your regulars just smile and get more regulars. Work on making new connections. Use this as an opportunity to play the field and build up a better base of new regs.
    You can work nights when she’s not working so you don't have to directly compete or if you're up to it switch clubs for a little while (it sounds like you need a fresh perspective).

    I agree with this.^^^. Did she do something to deliberately ursurp your business (backstabbing you, for example) , or is she just good competition?

    If it's the former, I could understand why you'd be angry with her. But if it's the latter...it may be best for you to ignore her, and step up your game. You have to remember that you, too, have your own special qualities that make you you, so focus on yourself and don't let her presence make your blood boil. Customers may be able to sense your resentment toward her which won't make you look more desirable either.

    This is one of the reasons why you need to mind your own business in this industry...you need to focus on how you can be the best you can be and not measure yourself with other's measuring sticks.

    The reality is...it is the customer's call as far as who s/he wants to spend their time and money with. Yes, it is annoying when new girls step in and customers want to spend time with her instead. But don't let your jealousy of this girl bring you down. Let it bring you up. Is there something about yourself that you would want to improve? I'm assuming that you don't have implants. Do not forget that a lot of women with implants get turned down for dances because the guy prefers natural breasts instead, even if the natural breasts are smaller.See? You already have one advantage.

    Think positive girl, because when you think negatively you lose your power & energy. Soon the girl will be old hat and you'll have spent so much time and energy improving yourself & your attitude that customers will notice and want to spend their time and money with you again.
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    Maria Callas said it best: "When my critics stop hissing, I shall know I'm slipping."

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    Always remember boobs mean nothing, there is more to a girl than boobs, yes boobs help but I have found from dancing with and without implants that there are men that
    don't like boobs, they are an ass man or a leg man or like petite women.
    If you let this mess with your confidence no wonder this girl is messing with your
    money and your regulars. Regulars like to try out the new girl it's like driving a
    new car to these guys. Most always come back to their favorite in the club.
    I also think the comment above about befriending her is a good idea as well
    talk to her, does she even know these were your regulars?

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    Ignore her and say "om tare tutare ture mama ayurpunye jnana putin kuru svaha," Miss White Tara.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    Ignore her and say "om tare tutare ture mama ayurpunye jnana putin kuru svaha," Miss White Tara.
    Like the Dalai Lama says, "Anger comes." I'll chant. But I still hate her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WhiteTara View Post
    I got pissy and went home last night. Seasonal stripper-drift has brought a bunch of new girls into the club and for the most part I don't mind. But a bitch has shown up who has been in my way since the first day she walked through the door. She has a similar body type to me, customers have told me a similar personality, slow dance style onstage, we must have the same hustle strategy because she's everywhere I want to be. But she has two advantages: she's new and she has big fake boobs. So far three of my regulars have reeled in their spending with me to spend on her. And there's just not enough money to go around. My club is regular heavy and money has been tight lately. Short of calling in a hit or beating her up myself, I just don't know what to do. Sorry for the rant. But I HATE that bitch.
    I have a similar situation. I've been at my club for over two years. This new one looks nothing like me. In fact, some people might say she is better looking and ironically, I would agree to that. She is tallish, platinum blond, thin, pale with fake boobs. Me: tiny, just over 100lbs., natual small but cute breasts, tanned, long highlighted, natual, loose curly hair. She looks like a porn actress, I get compared to Jennifer Anniston or when doing heavy make-up, Shakira and on a good day, Jessica Alba (minus the boobs )

    OK...this woman looks like a porn star. Good for her. Why is she putting out her energy to compete w/ me and antagonize me....when there is no reason to? I have nothing that she could possibly want!!

    She is however, after my regulars. I actually don't mind this. But the funny thing is, they are not buying it. They are just not gravitating towards her. This makes her pissed and confused, given the oppisite way we look

    So she picks on me: the way I dance, (she poses, I'm a pole junkie), my hair (she said she thought I was one of the "black girls". In my book , that is NOT an insult)...et.

    Finally she sat at my stage, while there was only one guy there, and proceeded to talk to him and not even have the decency to tip or take him elsewhere.

    That was it!! I took her aside in the dressing room and told her THAT was NOT a good thing. She said some stupid shit and then said "Wel, it's not my fault he didn't tip you". I just let it all out. I told her that normaly I am not a confrontational person and it wasn't about one stupid tip, just common curtesy(sp)? and that I am sick and tired of being picked on because I'm tiny and f(**king cute, so don't push me! Then I walked out and slammed the door.

    She didn't bother me anymore yesterday

    My advice: If this dancer is not bothering you or literally coming up to your regs while you are talking/dancing for them, just let her be and try something different to make yourself stand out.

    The thing is , if my regs were going for Miss Blondie Porn and she was still a nice person, I would just take it in stride and try to meet new people. But she was a bullying bitch.

    Sorry so long.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WhiteTara View Post
    Los Angeles. January and February are pretty slow at most clubs here and girls tend to look for greener pastures. Most go to Vegas. Surprised this chick hasn't. She just wants to stick around and fuck me up, I guess.
    I'm in LA too. We just got a bunch of newbies. Most are good-looking. Ironically, money has been better. I dance topless though, so I know that it is still not much compared to nude dancing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WhiteTara View Post
    I got pissy and went home last night. Seasonal stripper-drift has brought a bunch of new girls into the club and for the most part I don't mind. But a bitch has shown up who has been in my way since the first day she walked through the door. She has a similar body type to me, customers have told me a similar personality, slow dance style onstage, we must have the same hustle strategy because she's everywhere I want to be. But she has two advantages: she's new and she has big fake boobs. So far three of my regulars have reeled in their spending with me to spend on her. And there's just not enough money to go around. My club is regular heavy and money has been tight lately. Short of calling in a hit or beating her up myself, I just don't know what to do. Sorry for the rant. But I HATE that bitch.
    Okay, so you got pissy and went home from your shift and you're blaming someone else for your drop in income?? Grow up!

    It sounds like you need an attitude adjustment.

    Oh, and news flash, big fake boobs don't make money, good attitude and good hustling skills do.

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    whenever i read this stuff, i think these stories are so weird...it has never occured to me to follow behind another dancer and try to "steal" all of her customers--no matter how much i disliked her.

    whenever there is someone is very similar to you in the club, the most you can do is just work different days than her--join forces until she leaves--or just suck it up and find more customers.

    i used to work with a slender, leggy redhead (like me) and we used to tag team on custys all the time...i was newer, so i may have stolen her thunder a teeny bit, but i highly doubt it. Now there's 4 new redheads at my club...oh well, thats the game!
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    Had it happen to me too, a girl started working there a couple of years ago and we were the spitting image of eachother. Personality and all....so we turned it into a gimmick and it worked really well. She probably knows that she looks liek you, and she has probably had guys compare her to you as well.... Trust me, especially if you have been there a while, so she is most likely wondering how she can set herself apart too!

    If I were in your spot, I would put on my grown up pants and go talk to her, see what kind of girl she is and see if there was a way the two of you could make it work to your advantage. It's money, not a popularity contest.




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    yup, put your big girl panties on!
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

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    Well, I'd say the only thing she has on you is that she's new. Let the guys get their dances from the new girl and wait for things to blow over. Work when she's not working.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    Oh, and news flash, big fake boobs don't make money, good attitude and good hustling skills do.
    Guess you never read a certain thread in Hustle Hut then by chance?

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=46281


    enter: E3167322D9 for your 10% discount

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    Okay, so you got pissy and went home from your shift and you're blaming someone else for your drop in income?? Grow up!

    It sounds like you need an attitude adjustment.

    Oh, and news flash, big fake boobs don't make money, good attitude and good hustling skills do.
    Not sure why you're so rude, but if you'll read my original post I didn't blame her for my going home. I said my regs were spending less with me so they could dance with her. I know this because they TOLD me that was the case.

    Oh, and I also didn't say that it was because of her big, fake boobs. I said, all other things being equal that and being new gave her an edge. Maybe not much of one depending on the customer, but they don't hurt!

    One of us here needs an attitude adjustment, but I don't think it's me.

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    Did you ever think looking at her you might just want to upgrade your chest?

    Not to be rude, but you see someone that looks a ton like you and has big
    fake boobs... do they look fake or honestly do her big fake boobs look good?


    I hate hearing implants called big "Fake" boobs, there is nothing fake about
    them, the new implants that are silicon look, move and feel real if you don't go
    too big for your body and allow proper healing time before you go
    back to dancing. There is nothing fake about augmented breasts it's
    not like we glue or bolt them on.

    Can you afford to take some time off it could just be your spending too
    much time at the club and not giving yourself any time to relax.

    All else fails find another club to work at until this chick bounces.
    But I would really take a good look at why you hate this girl
    so much it seems like it's more than money and customers.


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    Guess you never read a certain thread in Hustle Hut then by chance?

    I haven't and wouldn't have, because it was started after I got my implants.

    I have worked with many very successful non-augmented girls, that's where I'm getting my info.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WhiteTara View Post
    Not sure why you're so rude, but if you'll read my original post I didn't blame her for my going home. I said my regs were spending less with me so they could dance with her. I know this because they TOLD me that was the case.

    Oh, and I also didn't say that it was because of her big, fake boobs. I said, all other things being equal that and being new gave her an edge. Maybe not much of one depending on the customer, but they don't hurt!

    One of us here needs an attitude adjustment, but I don't think it's me.
    Okay, I was just going off your OP, in which you called her a "bitch" said that she was "in my way" and that you "HATE" her.

    I'm still wondering why it's her problem that you're not making any money. Have you tried some of the tips the other ladies offered? Or perhaps take this as an opportunity to expand your regular customer base.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    big fake boobs don't make money
    Oh yes they do.

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