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    I was just wondering...has anyone had a regular who had spent lots and lots of money with you and then, upon truly realizing you were never going to sleep with/date/meet otc/etc., tried to "get even" or something? I ask because my regular seems to be getting a little irritated and more in tune with the reality that I won't EVER date him. And he seems really attached. At my old club I got my tire slashed, and that kinda freaked me out a bit. I didn't have any enemies...as far as I know. Maybe I'm just worrying too much? Anyone have anything?
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    Tires slashed? At THE old club or...???


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    I once knew a dancer who was sued by her regular. He must have spent at least $20,000.00 on her alone (he had other favorites that he spent on as well). He was laughed out of court.

    I knew of another club that had a problem with a regular of one girl. He blamed the club for kicking him out (so he couldn't see his fave girl) and put a fertilizer bomb in the owner's car, and slashed all the tires of the staff and dancers at the club. The funny thing is everyone affectionately called him Psycho-Dave because he was an extreme-sports kind of guy. The name ended up being very fitting in the end. Now Psycho-Dave is sitting in prison.


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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    Tires slashed? At THE old club or...???
    Yep...that would be the one! It wasn't that bad though - just one tire.

    Ya know, I guess I'm not that worried, just curious if my slight worry is justified....if that makes sense. I guess I'm wondering how to break it off delicately if he gets too needy. I mean, if he expects more for less. Because I realize that all regulars end. I've had a lot of patience up to this point, but I'm tired of saying "No, I will NEVER see you out of here." And I've been that blunt at times. I just don't want to end it on a bad note where he might get a little crazy. You know?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FemmeFatale View Post
    Yep...that would be the one! It wasn't that bad though - just one tire.

    what... the... shit.....


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    I had a regular freak out on me in the club, he was an old fart, in his late 50s. When I went out to my car, one of my back windows was shattered and in the back seat, there was a hammer on the seat. Someone threw the freakin' hammer thru the window. Never knew for sure if it was him, but oh well. I had some other guy pay for the damage!!!

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    What's wrong with people???? Leave the cars alone goddamit!!! Grrrrrr!

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    Im currently in the same sort of situation as well.. I met my regular about six months ago and he used to spend obscene ammounts of money, and its starting to dwindle every week.. its getting quite annoying... i would hope this guy would never try to do something like fuck my car up....

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    The title of this thread scares me. I worry about this too. There are a lot of mentally unstable people who have lost touch with reality out there and a lot of them are just the type who will turn out to be a regular.

    My regular recently told me that he will never leave - ahhhhh how creepy is that?
    I was hoping his expiry date was up soon coz I'm sick of smelling his rotten breath.

    Are you sure it wasn't another dancer who slashed your tyres tho?

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    My regular recently told me that he will never leave - ahhhhh how creepy is that?
    I was hoping his expiry date was up soon coz I'm sick of smelling his rotten breath.
    You can always send him someone (or a few) who you think he will like better his way so he can attach himself to her (or them) and thus relieve you of him. Yes you loose the money however in the end you have to ask yourself whether you are still perpared to entertain this customer or would rather the break (permanently or temporary).

    Plus since he is attached to another girl you don't have to worry about him going psycho on you or anything.


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    I would say dont freak out at this point, not yet at least. I have seen more than once a drunk custy gets kicked out of the club and just fucks up cars at random. If it happens again to your car, then there might be cause for alarm...if not just chalk it up to strip club mishaps from beligerent customers.

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    I hate to bring this up, but over the years more than one NYC area dancer has been found dead in a dumpster ! There are always 'psychos' out there.

    If a dancer deliberately encourages / allows certain customers to assume there is interest in a 'personal relationship' outside the club if only the customer continues to persevere (and continues to spend large amounts of money), and then that dancer abruptly dispels the customer's incorrect assumption when the demands start closing in (i.e. rubbing the customer's nose in the truth regarding what a fool / sucker he has been), it shouldn't come as a total shock that some guys will react badly with vengeance in mind.

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    ^^^ I just keep it a rule that I don't go out with custies.. (I have in the past) but they don't need to know!
    I have had a few angry customers tell other customers or dancers that I was a bitch or married, unfortunately a few actually believed them, but if you are dumb enough to believe what anyone tells you, you're too dumb for me anyway.
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    Once I worked in a club where a guy came back at opening the next day and keyed every car in the lot. He was (rightfully) pissed at one dancer (not that being pissed makes it okay to key her car anyway); didn't know which car was hers. So he did every one.
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    I'm careful. I don't meet people outside the club and I'm careful leaving the club. And I'm aware. If I didn't think about all the bad things that might happen I wouldn't have written this post. That being said, I realize it's always a possibilty. Oh, by the way, the tire incident was a long time ago and at a completely different club, so I'm not particularly worried about it happened now. I just know how the car is the easiest target as others have attested to. Thanks for all the advice and stories. I guess I should keep being direct (maybe even more now) about how it will not go outside the club. It's hard though when they spend so much time inside with you, and you're providing entertainment and making them feel like you really like them. It's hard for them to realize that it's still a job. And you're not genuinely interested. Oh, and if it does get out of hand I don't think I'll have a problem dropping him, especially if the money goes down as I think it is little by little.

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    yep, I have known many girls who have intentionally led guys on and had the guys go all stalker on them, not fun.
    then again, there are guys that think that just because you smiled at them you should be going out with them. Or if they bought a dance they own you. In can get a bit hairy out there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Once I worked in a club where a guy came back at opening the next day and keyed every car in the lot. He was (rightfully) pissed at one dancer (not that being pissed makes it okay to key her car anyway); didn't know which car was hers. So he did every one.

    I used to drive my Corvette to work, and quit doing it because I was afraid somebody would fuck with my car and I would have to hurt 'em. Now that I'm featuring I have a 'travelling' car that I go to bookings in. That poor car made it 3 bookings before somebody keyed 'bitch' into the top part of the trunk. Hopefully whoever did it thinks that Taurus is the car I use all the time.

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    I worked at scarlett's in south florade (hallendale) for a few weeks last summer. I had an amazing regular there, and because he came in 7 nights a week, I did too. Then, on the day before I left, I told him I was driving home tommorrow, and he flipped out!!!!! He threw a wine glass at me, it shattered, and I got cut. He was really really hurt!

    And he'd given me so much money over those 3 weeks, I just couldn't bring myself to press charges. But it was fucking scary! now I never tell a desperate or needy guy if I'm not going to be back or in for a while!

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    Uhh, I would be MOSTLY concerned about how the hell these people knew what kind of car you drove? What the fuck?

    This is why I never register my liscence plates to my address!! Scary
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    The interesting thing is that there are some completely legal ways for a regular customer to screw over a dancer he is dissatisfied with. For example, there are two dancers I know who used to work with each other and thoroughly detest each other. Since one of them is my ATF, I have avoided the other one at her request. However -- it has occurred to me that if she ever really pisses me off, what I could do is show up at her club (where she is expecting me to show up and spend a lot of time and money with her), tell her that we are through, and as I am leaving tell her that I am heading to the club where the other dancer works to see that dancer. In that situation, the only person who would risk any legal trouble would be my former ATF dancer when she attempts to kill me.

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    I had a guy drunkenly shove me after I turned him down for a date- the punchline was when I told another dancer what happened (to warn her, ostensibly) she assumed I made it up because she was a pathological liar & SHE would make up little stories like that.
    The moral is, if things go bad, don't tell girls in the club, they'll use it against you somehow.

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    sorta, i had a call from an old reg;s wife about what we were doing being wrong. and i tried to correct her and say that there was no Doing going on.. but.. she wouldn't hear it. Emily told me i should have jsut told her "im a stripper and your dumbass husband gave me a shitton of money for nothing. blame him not me." but i dont think in that way. i politely hung up the phone and claimed that he and i were only friends and nothing more. but he DID give me all sorts of cash before she called and literally the week before i told him that i was not interested in dating him and while he assures me he didnt sic his wife on me purposely, i have my doubts... now that was scary. i have a high spending reg now that im afraid to tell i wont date him, we will see how that goes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaviyd View Post
    The interesting thing is that there are some completely legal ways for a regular customer to screw over a dancer he is dissatisfied with. For example, there are two dancers I know who used to work with each other and thoroughly detest each other. Since one of them is my ATF, I have avoided the other one at her request. However -- it has occurred to me that if she ever really pisses me off, what I could do is show up at her club (where she is expecting me to show up and spend a lot of time and money with her), tell her that we are through, and as I am leaving tell her that I am heading to the club where the other dancer works to see that dancer. In that situation, the only person who would risk any legal trouble would be my former ATF dancer when she attempts to kill me.

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    My reg tells me everyday how much he loves me and how he just wants to marry me so that my bills will be paid.

    Yeah, its annoying.. i just think... do these guys realize that we always have the need for MORE money.

    ^^^ just read that and wow... I need a Vacation.. Im getting really bitchy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinful333 View Post
    My reg tells me everyday how much he loves me and how he just wants to marry me so that my bills will be paid.

    Yeah, its annoying.. i just think... do these guys realize that we always have the need for MORE money.

    ^^^ just read that and wow... I need a Vacation.. Im getting really bitchy.
    hehe... i feel ya!sometimes it's like no matter how much money men give me/i earn, there's always more money SOMEWHERE that someone needs to hand over.

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