Ok so I have had this regular for 3 years now, we are friends outside of work which is I am sure why he is still "my customer"... (thinks someday he'll get to date me) Anyhow, he comes in to see me every other Thursday and EVERYONE knows this and that he is primarily there to see me. I dont have a problem with other girls talking to him and I usually get him to buy some dances from girls who sit with us...I have worked in this club for 5 years on and off so I know everyone and they know me, they know I dont care if they sit with him, I dont OWN him after all. Well there are obviously other girls he has found attractive and he gets some dances but always said mine are way better so he gets the most from me. Let me restate that I DONT CARE that he gets dances from other girls, it doesnt affect the money he gives me.
Bit of a backstory, we both have "livejournals", a blog site, and he religously writes in his about EVERYTHING. This includes the trips he makes to the club, the dances he got, from who and who he talked to and sat with, kinda wierd I know. So a couple weeks ago when he came in, I was running late and I texted him to tell him so he wouldnt think I ditched out on him...I got there and got dressed and this *newish* girl was sitting with him, ok fine, I wasnt there bla bla. So I said hi to let him know I was there and then let them be while I went and worked the crowd a bit. I did a couple dances with other dudes then I went over there, she was still there but promptly left when I arrived on the scene. Ok that was wierd, no one does that with us usually because they know...the rest of the night went on without any more incidents.
So I went to his livejournal and was reading and he was talking about how much he liked this girl, she gave good dances and was nice to talk to but I still did better dances. Ok lovely.
Yesterday again I was running alittle late, I texted him to let him know and told him I was sure he could find someone to occupy his time until I got there. I get there again, get dressed and its the same thing, this girl is sitting with him. Ok. Everyone is all "Bla bla why is he getting dances from HER all of a sudden?" yeah no one really likes her, did I mention this? So he is sitting with her and another thursday regular and a big group of other dancers...well I am not an asshole, and I wasnt going to go over there and plop down on his lap while they were talking just to get her to go away. I sat with the group but across the table from my regular and the bitch, and figured she would get her dances and then go away. NO!!! This bitch would not fucking LEAVE! So I just kinda punished him by ignoring him, and after about 15 minutes he came over to me and started talking leaving her sitting by herself. She still didnt leave. So I didnt go over where he was either. He kept up with this back and forth crap until she finally left and then I went and sat with him like normal. After quite a while of me still not dancing for him, he asked for a dance and I gave him one. Just one. I knew he wanted more, but he was on punishment for being a fuckhole and I knew I would still get my money regardless. I went back to my chair, he followed me and then handed me the little red envelope (he pays me upfront whether I do that amount of dances or not) WORD. I got my money. Well I went on stage right after that and what do you know, when I get off she is back there AGAIN! I went to VIP and did some dances for this guy who approached me onstage and when I came back she was still there. This bitch basically sat there all the rest of the night, not even getting dances, just fucking sitting there.
Now here is my issue. I get my money regardless right, but this bitch doesnt know that. For all she knows, she sat with him all night and kept me from making money which is what would be the norm if he didnt pay me as he does. So she is trying to steal my freaking customer? I know he isnt "mine" but really she was sitting with him for hours and not making a damn dime! She couldnt have made more than $80 bucks off him all night, WTF??? So what do I do to let her know that this shit isnt going to fly? I am totally non-confrontational at work because it only leads to drama and crap I dont want to deal with, plus she is a total asskisser and attempting to woo the owner. I dont wanna get into it with her and then have her go cry to the owner and I get fired or some shit, so any suggestions? Should I just do what everyone said and say fuck it and plop on down in his lap and ignore her till she gets the hint and leaves? I dont wanna be really rude to her because honestly she has only been nice to me but I think what she is doing is disrespectful and why not fight fire with fire? Do you think she is doing it on purpose to try and cultivate my regular as hers or just simply being noobish and dumb?



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