I have a bit of a dilemma.. This morning at 8:00 am (actually it started around 7) my upstairs neighbors were stomping around in heels (very loud and woke me up), this happens often, but it seemed to go on forever today.
I went upstairs asking them to please stop since I went to bed at 5 after getting off of work at 3:30 and I wouldn't have said antthing but I have to work again tonight. Instead of saying sorry the girl I spoke to told me she was leaving soon anyway and that she never complained when I made noise at 5 am.. Apologizing myself, I told her to come anytime to let me know about any noise violation since I had no idea what she could hear up there and accepted that she didn't know what I could hear. She ignored my apology and pretty much just rolled her eyes and walked away.
Now, my question is, should I feel bad that I made all this noise in the past and write a note of apology. Or should I be a bit pissed that instead of telling me this, she was passive aggressive and decided to take it out on me only when I complained about her heels?
I have only lived in this APT for less than 4 months, but in this time I have had the washer and dryer fixed (dryer twice), put a note to keep the front door unpropped (secure building), had a container for "junk mail" placed by the mailboxes, and ALWAYS pick up after my dogs. She knows all this since I thought we had a good neighbor thing going. I have always told her that I appreciate her being so quiet and to let me know if I am not.
I don't know, I couldn't go back to sleep after the talk and now am torn between angry and mild embarrassment..
What would anyone else do?



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