So I have to say, Thank you Mr.Punk for being right again!
I duno why im posting this ever so long story but all I have to say is wow, and if you think something is off, you are most likely correct.
About 5 months ago I went to the SC for the very first time ever. It was so fun and relaxing, granted the first 3-4 times you go its like oooo this is neat, then it just turned into a nice place to hang out. So right when I started going I kinda got dances from like everyone of the girls just to "test drive" them all. Well one of them stood out and decided that she was going to be my ATF.
Shortly after going to the SC I came looking around on SW and reading some of the stuff and I was like oh whatever this stuff dosnt happen. Little did I know I was getting suckered into the whole entire mess.
I never really was a big spender or anything but back to the topic. My ATF turned out to be someone who had a lot of things in common with me so talking to her was always easy, she would come sit with me even if I wasn't spending money and we would just shoot the shit for hours on end. Well going every Sunday turned into going every Friday and Sunday to every Thursday , Friday, Sunday. Like I said I never really spent that much usely $25-$30 per visit I go there and hang out with friends or my ATF, thinking I was keeping her company.
So she told me this big story about how her "soon to be husband" broke it off with her 3 weeks before the wedding 2 years ago. How she was so heartbroken from it and just all kinds of sad stuff, I totaly ate that up like the dumb ass that I am. So a month goes by , was about November and she ended up wanting my number. I was thinking humm, well thats cool, I never really thought of her to much as a GF or anything but close friend shes a very cool person.
So we started talking on the phone on the days she didn't work then I learn about this very protective person that she lives with her and all kinds of stuff about her, surprisingly we talked just as much on the phone as we did in the club. Well about middle of Jan I lost my job and I told her I wouldn't be able to come in and see her anymore (I always felt bad going there with like $10 its just kinda wrong) She gave me the puppy dog face and said that I should come in regardless if im going spend $1 or $1000. Granted thinking about all this now its like wow....congrats on being blinded by this girl and trusting her....
So anyways yeah , that goes on, I learn more and more and more, she hurt her back and was still coming into work to see her regs, which was pretty much me and 2 other people which I made friends with so we could all sit together so she didnt have to go around to everyone.
Well about end of Jan something just felt like a really big miss. It didn't make scene to me anymore why she wants me around, I didnt think t was money cause really my whole $20 a night that important to her? So yeah Feb 13th was my Bday and I had money saved up for that night , I ended up getting an hour VIP with her and I got ht VIP couch so we could cuddle and stuff after the VIP , all that cool stuff. She gave me a very special Bday present (No it wasn't sexual! it was just something that ment something).
So there is a lot of things I left out here that just make this all so obvious and things she said / did to make me feel like she wanted more even tho I just wanted to be close friends but it got me thinking nunthe less. I find out Thursday from a friend that works there / putting the pieces together this week that she is married and has been married for 3 years to this person thats so "protective of her" that was her "stepbrother" so I was told. Sad its true, her best friend that works there thought I knew and couldn't believe that she lied about it still. She told everyone the entire time shes single and shes never dating again cause shes so heartbroken, and just all this complete and total bullshit.
Needless to say im not mad that shes not single, im just mad she lied, granted it was partly her job but to someone that called me a "close friend" seams pretty screwed to me. So yeah, hooray for that whole entire mess. No idea if im gonna go back or not, or if I even have a reason to be mad at her what so ever. I actually did consider her as a good friend but now eh its like high school or something all over again.
(It would be pretty Ironic if she read this, since she dosnt know I know yet.)



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Hopefully you learned something from this and will learn to go to the club, enjoy the fantasy, and then walk out and forget it all. Leave it in the club, just like dancers are told to do.
I lost my best friend to marriage, 
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