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    Default What type of custies like you?

    This is not about what type of customers you approach.

    I'm wondering what type of customer approaches you or is an easy sell?

    The categories are (and feel free to add if I leave any out)

    (1) Age range: 18-25, 25-35, 35-50, 50+
    (2) Nationality: white, asian, indian, african american, european
    (3) Socioeconomic status: blue collar, white collar, rich
    (4) Single customer alone, pairs or guys in groups
    (5) Females
    (6) Male and female couples

    It would also be interesting to hear why you think that these type of customers like you in particular - ie. your looks, your personality or combination of both, you have something in common with this type of person etc.

    Another interesting point would be what customers don't really like you - don't approach you and usually will decline dances.

    My answers are:
    The type of custies I seem to attract are young white males between the ages of 18-35 (so a mixture of category 1&2) who are either alone or out in a group. I usually get approached to dance for just one guy at a time but occasionally for 2 or more of them. I think they wouold be blue and white collar. The younger ones are either students or tradesman.

    I think the reason that I attract these type of custies is coz I am around their age and I think it's predominantly my looks (coz these guys usually approach me). I think younger guys like my body type which is quite toned and petite whereas some older men like curvier women and men of other nationalities often do as well.

    Customers who don't generally like me:

    Asian customers. I am petite and brunette. I find that they usually like tall blonde dancers with big breasts.
    Older men - occasionally I sell dances to older white collar men but I think the problem here for me is that I am inpatient with my hustle and often these guys require a bit more time spent with them.

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    Default Re: What type of custies like you?

    Older men (35-50+) are my best customers. Also, Indian men often flock to me. I think both these classes of men are more likely to go for a 'womanly' type of woman. I have long dark hair, am slim but really curvy (hourglass shape) and very busty, look somewhat Mediterranean (my heritage is Eastern European, but I dye my hair black and that confuses people). I often have good luck with females and couples, I'm not sure quite why that is.

    I find I have the same situation as you with Asian men- they often go for the blondes and I'm very, very brunette. Younger men also, I find, tend not to want to spend money on me as often. And I rarely have good luck with groups or pairs, probably because I'm less comfortable in a situation where I'm outnumbered.

    In terms of socio-economic status, I presume that anyone who can afford to spend significant amounts of money in a strip club is not on the bottom rung.

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    I get approached alot by people from ALL groups. As for easiest sells, I'd say the 25-35 age group overall, with plenty of the later 30s as well. I make the bulk of my money from this age group. I can sell the younger ones very easily too but they usually don't have as much money to spend. I can sell older men also but they tend to be more careful with their money which often means they are less spendy and/or wear on my patience.

    Ethnically speaking, I make more money from white american men, simply because there's more of them in the clubs but if we're talking dollars spent per custy I make more from black, latin or english(UK) men on average. I mostly avoid women and couples.

    I do well whether they are alone, in pairs or in groups - although at times it can be easier to sell a single man on VIP simply because then I don't have to worry about finding a girl his friend likes and essentially doing double-selling to get both of them to buy (or one to buy for both). Some guys will go back and leave the friend(s) at the table, but many want to do the group thing for VIP and sometimes that can be a hassle.

    In short, there aren't too many I can't get money out of

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    Predominantly I get approached mostly by and have most customers of the 18-35 age group, mostly males but a fair amount of females too from wherever - all over the place. They would be mostly blue collar I suppose. I tend to go down really well with female crowds be they gay or straight but really the rest of my customers tend to be from all walks of life, all parts of the globe and all different age groups and so on.


    I dont seem to be liked much in the physical sense by Americans period and with Japanese people they either really love me or really hate me - I never know which reaction I'll get with Japanese people. (And yes Im specificly talking about Japanese, not SE Asian people.)

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    Omg Middle aged white guys!!!! I LOVE them. They usually always at least get a dance if I approach them. They usually middle class to upper middle class I would say around 40-60. Usually I make the most when I find a guy that is alone for the evening and wants to talk, have some drinks and flirt. I seem to really attract sensitive guys who are going through a rough time and needs an ear. I'm a pretty good listener and compassionate by nature so I've banked off of alot of guys that pay me to sit and talk and cuddle. Or guys that like to bullshit and joke around..I can be sassy too.

    Sometimes I do get approached by blue collar thirysomethings for some reason...I don't know like white guys that look like Huey Lewis...haha.

    Alot of Asian guys get dances from me too for some reason???

    Couples seem to love me too and I enjoy dancing for women..the women seem to feel very comfortable around me.

    Also this is werid but alot of guys that were totally into me and I banked off of happened to be the astrological sign Cancer. I'm a Libra so I guess we get along then.

    I do agree that younger guys like the more petite, wholesome, girl next door types which I'm not. I work out and keep in shape but am tall and curvy and have hips ( Vida Gurarra's body type) and have a more exotic look..people always think I am indian or persian so I do very well with men of that heritage.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    I can sell older men also but they tend to be more careful with their money which often means they are less spendy and/or wear on my patience.
    I agree with this, when I started dancing girls would always say go up to the older rich looking guy. I have always found them to be (with a few exceptions here and there) the most careful with their money.


    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    In short, there aren't too many I can't get money out of
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    For me, I am in a rural redneck ghetto area, so take that in mind.....
    25-35 blue collar on night shifts..

    If I work day shift it is 35+ white collar, and these are the ones who spend more without thinking about it for our area...They are the ones too trying to get away wiht the most, or trying to see how "dirty" of a girl you are... Can ya say "YUK"
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    That whole issue of trying to get the most bang for their buck is partially what I meant about older guys being more careful with their money. They may have more to spend and they may spend more, but they WANT alot more for it. Or, they are just stingy fucks.

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    White/Blue collar, 18 to 70, white due to the area. Same thing down south only different ethnics white/blue collar guys. Sometimes women and Sometimes couples. Depends on the crowed I have danced for some bikers but they were not the "dirty biker type." Those guys never have the money to get a dance and if they do they go for the girl who will give them the most mileage, they do tip well on stage though. The blue collar guys are always cool, one time I met a tree trimmer who wanted to check the place out and I joked with him. I said "If you're not looking to get a lap dance thats
    the perfect outfit to wear." He went home, showered and changed his clothing and
    came back for dances. I found that very sweet.

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    I do well with the older guys of any nationality...if you are between the ages of 35-50. Younger guys typically dont like me because I am not going to just sit with them and "party" and I have found they generally like older dancers who are enhanced...(for lack of a better term)I do well with white men, asian men and indian men and the occassional black man. When it comes to the mexican guys its hit or miss, sometimes they are all over me and sometimes they could care less-its pretty odd. I can do ok with a younger guy if our styles mesh well, if I can get him with my musical knowledge its all over for him...I do horribly with the rap guys as a whole because I am not the ass shakin', pussy poppin' rap lovin' dancer and thats ok because they dont spend for shit in my club anyway and they usually just wanna fuck. Yep its old guys for me!

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    Hmm. I wonder if this is a "thing": Older guys spend more easily on younger dancers. Younger guys spend more easily on older dancers. Perhaps?

    I never really thought of it just like that before. Whatchyall think?

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    Half the time I don't think they have a clue what age we are.
    Girls that are 21 get told they are 30, Women in their late 20's
    get dubbed 23 to 24, I think it has to do with how well you have
    taken care of yourself and how well you take care of yourself.
    Hard drugs, Smoking, Drinking, Little Sleep is what a lot of
    younger girls are doing so it makes them look a lot older than
    they are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Hmm. I wonder if this is a "thing": Older guys spend more easily on younger dancers. Younger guys spend more easily on older dancers. Perhaps?

    I never really thought of it just like that before. Whatchyall think?
    I definately agree with that! I am not really that young in the grand scheme of dancers ages, but I LOOK really young. Older guys are always the ones that like me, and I generally do quite well with them. Younger guys never go for me, they always dance with the older dancers and usually the ones with enhancements.
    I think to the younger guys, I look to much like the girls they go to school with or a cuter version...
    Where as older guys, I look like the girls they went to college with...but that was many YEARS ago! haha

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    Asian customers. I am petite and brunette. I find that they usually like tall blonde dancers with big breasts.
    I'm tall and brunette, and lots of asian guys LOVE me. Though I have heard the blond/big boobs rumour re asian guys; in my observation, the asian guys around here tend to go first and foremost for slim & natural. I think they also prefer short and blond, but I squeeze by somehow

    Otherwise, I don't have a type...although I have a lot of trouble with young suits. I can't sell them to save my life.

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    seems I was an 'exception' to the general trend ...

    From a demographic standpoint, it was weird. Guys over age 40, and especially over age 50 seemed to gravitate towards me. But also very young guys in the 18-22 age range would seek me out as well (Oedipus related ???). I was never very popular with guys in the 25-35 range.

    From an income standpoint, it was also weird. 'Rich' guys and 'poor' guys seemed to gravitate towards me, but not so much where guys of 'average' means were concerned.

    From a nationality standpoint, Black guys and especially Asian guys would go nuts. However I earned far more money from the Asian guys than from the Black guys. But my main financial customer base was white professionals over age 40.

    In terms of couples, zilch. In terms of female customers, gangbusters. But the female customer interaction always - ALWAYS - turned out to be problematic.

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    I find older guys are more likely to spend money on me when they know how old I am. (Most people think Im much younger.) And younger guys seem to like me anyway whether I tell them my age or not...


    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Hmm. I wonder if this is a "thing": Older guys spend more easily on younger dancers. Younger guys spend more easily on older dancers. Perhaps?

    I never really thought of it just like that before. Whatchyall think?

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    Geezers for me! I don't do well with the younger guys that keep asking me out, telling me how great the sex would be, blah blah...shut-it. Black guys seem to stay away from me..only right after having my daughter (had extra "junk in my trunk") did I make anything off them. Now I'm back in shape..oldies for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    IIn short, there aren't too many I can't get money out of

    That's about all I was going to say. Race, age, blue collar, white collar, it doesn't matter, I've cleaned out their wallets one-by-one and they've smiled at the privilege of giving it to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    (1) Age range: 25-35, 35-50
    (2) Nationality: white, african american, european
    (3) Socioeconomic status: blue collar
    (4) Single customer alone


    I adjusted your post to show my answers

    I think I attracted these guys because of my "dark,seductive, yet classy" look I was told I had. I have a good sense of humor and seem to be able to make especially lone men feel very comfortable. I also have always related better with people older than me. I stopped bothering with the young crowd once I found out they generally only wanted freebies (from experience) and only danced for them when they asked me. The older range of the young guy crowd group (21-24) always seemed to me that they were in their "hot shit phase" in life where if they got dances then they'd spend the whole dance acting like they were too good to enjoy it. Don't get me wrong, there were some sweeties in that age group, but not most.

    Another thing that helped me for that age range that I targeted was my music. I played a lot of new rock and alternative that even the older gentlemen seem to like so I get the two age ranges I mentioned in my answers, or if it's mostly the older side in the club, I'll go for some 80s rock that always seems to put a smile on their faces.

    Funny aside, for some reason black men were infatuated with me, LOL. One of them had me wear his cool military jacket all around the club with him to show off how hot and cool I looked in it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Hmm. I wonder if this is a "thing": Older guys spend more easily on younger dancers. Younger guys spend more easily on older dancers. Perhaps?

    I never really thought of it just like that before. Whatchyall think?
    I'm not sure I have thought of this too. I am 27 and there are plenty of dancers younger than me but I dance for more young guys than they do. However a lot of these guys think I am the same age as them and I do look younger than I am, probably about 23/24. So not sure. I do think maybe they don't go for 18 yo looking girls coz they can pick them up anyway.

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    Yeah sometimes I've noticed that when a guy has alot of money and are sitting in VIP wearing suits and such, they have the most stuck up additudes and are so damn cheap and try to wield money over you like they have this grand power and want to see how much they can get you to do for it.

    Sometimes the guy you would assume who is lower middle class or just your average joe with jeans and dressed very causual...is the most generous with his money and very respectful of you. Not only that they may be LOADED with money.

    Two great regualrs I've met were sitting on the floor dressed in jeans and I swear within a year he had givin me ALOT of money and became the best regular I ever had..not only that but when he would come to see me he bought numerous bottles of champagne and would tip the waitresses generously too. We would sit in VIP all night when he would come in. When I first met him just looking at him I never would have assumed all that but he said when I met him I treated him like a person.

    Another regular who was very generous with his money was sitting in a corner by the stage in jeans when I went up to him and he has a MBA and a VERY good job and likes to come in a blow a whole crapload of cash on me and a couple other girls when he sees us.

    So sometimes I find it hard to determine who has money and who doesn't so sometimes you just gotta give everyone a chance for your time.

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    I like the guys in metal band t-shirts. Because they usually seem to play video games and like anime and metal music, so I can impress them with my wealth of knowledge about Resident Evil and Silent Hill and Final Fantasy. And that usually keeps them in VIP for ages.

    I never do well with Asians. I've had maybe one or two good Asian customers in my whole 4 years of dancing, they just don't seem to like me. I'm quite tall though, and the Asians here generally seem to prefer the very petite, short, young-looking girls, or the blondes with huge boobs. Usually when I approach groups of Asians, they pretend they don't speak English so I'll go away. Lol.

    I suppose mostly I dance for middle-aged white guys. But it varies a lot, so it's hard to say.

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    I always always do well with Asians... simply because I speak Japanese, have a small knowledge of Mandarin (and then I play the 'cute dumb girl trying so hard to learn the language! teehee!') and overall have a large knowledge of various asian foods and even offer twists to recipes to make them spicier etc.

    Usually... Asian men - 50-60
    White men 60-80
    Geeks from conventions - 25-40

    ... I think I just realized something.. I never once danced for a black man! o.o; How weird. It's not like I don't approach them, either.

    Um... European men ROCK! I'm great with the Irish, Scottish and British, mostly.. they always spend a ton on me.


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    I usually do best with white guys in the 35 and older age group. Asian guys usually seem to like me too. Black guys don't buy dances from me very often-I think I've done dances for only 3 or 4 black guys in the entire time I've been dancing.






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    Well so far it's been the white guys in their 20's.
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