Seeing guys outside the club is not an option for me and something I really don't want to do...with that being said how can I keep good customers coming back to see me? I have one really good regular who is a gem, he is a very high paying customer and is nice to be around...he's asked me out but accepts that I am "too busy" to make dates outside the club..besides he's married so I guess he just doesn't push to hard. I talk to him on the phone once in a while for a little bit and that seems to keep him interested. There are a few other guys who are great who spend decent money and those who I wouldn't call exclusive regualrs to me but who when the see me get dances. I all appreciate them but I'd idealy love to have a good guy available every day I come to work like I see some girls do.
But I don't want to be able to rely JUST on him..I'd really like to make other guys regulars but they always seem to get pissy when the catch on to the fact that I won't date them or go have sex with them for moneySome girls may do that fine, I'm not judging others but I am a dancer and want to make money dancing and entertaning at the club. I'd love to cultivate more regulars but sometimes it just seems impossible. I have some really good guys come in for a while but then they are all "Ok this is the last time I'm coming in here" or "Let's cut out the middle man-I'll take care of you outside of here" or something like that. Now I'm a smart girl..I know the game "Oh maybe when I know you better.." "Maybe when I get some free time.." "I have to see how my schedual goes.." But this only can keep them going for so long...I always call them the next day and thank them for the great evening if they spent a substantial amount of money on me in VIP..and try to keep up with them and let them know I'm working via phone but they always seem to get sick of asking me out pretty quickly and then I'm back to hustling the floor. I have no problem hustling but in this slow time when less and less guys are coming in the club it is almost like you NEED regulars.
How do you guys handle this? Any advice????



Some girls may do that fine, I'm not judging others but I am a dancer and want to make money dancing and entertaning at the club. I'd love to cultivate more regulars but sometimes it just seems impossible. I have some really good guys come in for a while but then they are all "Ok this is the last time I'm coming in here" or "Let's cut out the middle man-I'll take care of you outside of here" or something like that. Now I'm a smart girl..I know the game "Oh maybe when I know you better.." "Maybe when I get some free time.." "I have to see how my schedual goes.." But this only can keep them going for so long...I always call them the next day and thank them for the great evening if they spent a substantial amount of money on me in VIP..and try to keep up with them and let them know I'm working via phone but they always seem to get sick of asking me out pretty quickly and then I'm back to hustling the floor. I have no problem hustling but in this slow time when less and less guys are coming in the club it is almost like you NEED regulars.
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