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    I went to school for business and a trick they taught us was to slightly nod as you ask the customer to buy... "I would love to dance another song for you....would you like me to keep going? (slightly nod while asking)" Subconsciously it triggers the person to agree....Try it you'll be surprised!

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    I do this and it DOES work!
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    I do that and it works, but I only do it if they seem like they want to but are debating it in their head.

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    Must remember to try this

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    The technique is called a Silent Tie Down. A hypnotist friend of mine refers to it as an ARCing Statement (Affirmative Response Conditioning). The concept was actually invented by a hypnotist back in the 50s and was later implemented into sales not long thereafter. Hypnotists use this technique all the time, particularly in stage shows where it is referred to as Hypnotic Amnesia when used in the opposite format.

    For example, a hypnotist has a subject on stage run around like roadrunners or something and then he snaps them out of the trance they are in. The first thing you will see from most good hypnotists is that they will ask the subject if they remember doing anything of what was happening a few moments earlier and they will always say "no." The reason is because they create immediate hypnotic amnesia with the subject and the way they do it is they look them right in the eye and say, "You have no idea of what you were just doing, do you?" and while they say that, they shake their head very boldly in a "NO" pattern. It's magical to watch the subject look right back and say they didn't have a clue what they were just doing.

    So once this system was created, some people started using it in the other direction to get positive responses out of people as a means of selling and hence the technology was created. Many best selling authors on sales have been talking about this for decades...it's great stuff!

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    Wow, neat. I've read a lot about all kinds of sales technique's (a lot of which, I can't remember), but I'll be trying this at work - TONIGHT.
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    ya i do this and it works but i reiterate the word SUBTLY! if you full out nod, consider the sale lost.

    Love it!

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    You want to spend all your money on me......LOL! I wish it were that easy!

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    I will be trying this at work for sure.
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    Nice... (you should have seen me actually trying this right now) lol

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    ^^^ I've actually been looking into the mirror trying this so that I won't look like a bobble head doing this at work.
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    Lol, I love this trick. I've used this one on my boyfriend for years. Haven't had a bad hairday since, lol. But really, you don't have to nod for a long time, and it HAS to be at the right moment. If the guy is on the bubble about getting a dance, that's when you pull this bad boy out. But like chrissy68 mentioned, please.be.subtle.
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    Uh, I've been telling girls to do this on here for ages. Of course it works. Does the info have to come from a "sales course" or a class to seem legitimate?


    Add to the nod a slightly revised wording of your question, and it becomes very hard for guys to NOT say yes. "I can dance for you now?" Instead of "can I" or "do you want". It's more like a statement - add it to the nod and it's some powerful stuff.


    I don't do it subtely or at any "right time". I do it all the time, every time, and it's fairly obvious. Of course I'm not nodding like a bobble-head as I'm asking for the dance, but it's not exactly subtle. Depending on my mood, my nod is sometimes very emphatic. It WORKS.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Uh, I've been telling girls to do this on here for ages. Of course it works. Does the info have to come from a "sales course" or a class to seem legitimate?
    Who, anywhere in this thread, said anything about a sales course or a class? SHEESH...cool your jets woman! This technique was taught decades before you were born in a wide variety of formats outside the "sales course" environment. It's awesome you teach this system...so have others for many years before you. All I did was explain a bit of the history behind it.

    And to affirm what you said, I use the technique the same way you do which is how I was taught to do it some ten years ago. I'm very bold about it and not subtle about it in any way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth View Post
    Who, anywhere in this thread, said anything about a sales course or a class?
    Quote Originally Posted by BaileyBanksNBiddle View Post
    I went to school for business and a trick they taught us was to slightly nod as you ask the customer to buy
    the OP did. I personally thought it was common sense, but maybe I learned it somewhere.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    the OP did. I personally thought it was common sense, but maybe I learned it somewhere.
    Fair enough. I didn't catch that. My bad and I appologize Bridgette. They do teach the technique a LOT in sales seminars now though because of it's effectiveness. I believe the actual people behind it were Grinder and Bandler who were the founders of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) or perhaps Milton Erickson who was who they studied under in the development of NLP.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Uh, I've been telling girls to do this on here for ages. Of course it works. Does the info have to come from a "sales course" or a class to seem legitimate?
    Sometimes it nees to be drilled into our heads!

    lol. I do this the same way you do, boldly! If anyone notices ( 1-2x ever!) i act puzzled.... "I was?!? that's so silly, maybe I've got a kink in my neck."

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth View Post
    Who, anywhere in this thread, said anything about a sales course or a class? SHEESH...cool your jets woman! This technique was taught decades before you were born in a wide variety of formats outside the "sales course" environment. It's awesome you teach this system...so have others for many years before you. All I did was explain a bit of the history behind it.

    And to affirm what you said, I use the technique the same way you do which is how I was taught to do it some ten years ago. I'm very bold about it and not subtle about it in any way.
    I don't care who invented it or how long it was taught. I ain't tryin to patent it It is something I just figured out somehow. I have never read a sales book or taken a sales class of any kind.

    I did notice THIS is the first time you ever acknowledged it as a legitimate sales method, even though I've said it on here countless times before. But, whatever. For the record I wasn't making a crack at YOU with my previous comment, was just wondering in general. I haven't bothered to say anything on here to or about you in a while. I don't have any special "thing" for you so perhaps you shouldn't flatter yourself so much.



    Anyway, I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who does it boldly and that it works for yall too (including YOU, DW). Because I think boldness is really the best way to sell anything. 'Specially T&A

    I have only had a few people comment on the head nodding and "statement-question" that I do. They admit that they are salespeople and compliment me on my technique. HA
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    Guys! It doesn’t matter who came up with it or who does it... all that matters is that you pull it off successfully! So if you did know Kudos… if you didn’t, you do now and that means we are all using this message board as it was intended - to help each other out :-)

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    Ehh. Sorry, just that sometimes I wonder why more girls don't seem to take perfectly good advice when it is offered. I realize some of my tactics are things that will only work in certain situations but simple things like the nod and statement-question work pretty universally. I didn't mean to make a big deal. I wasn't trying to claim ownership or anything like that. I think DW just got a tad overly defensive at my comment and I let it annoy me too much.

    I realize we can't ALL use the same techniques but we SWers only make up a small % of strippers....

    Now girls. Practice your nods and repeat after me:
    I can dance for you?
    I can dance for you?
    I can dance for you?
    I can dance for you?
    I can dance for you?


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    I subconciously did this while asking for dances & I didn't even realize it until my DF brought it to my attention (he's the club DJ). It does work! He used the technique working in the insurance business. I can't remember what they called.

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    I used to do this as a waitress. After i brought out their meal id have to check back with them. When i was really busy and had no time to do anything, id make sure their mouths were full when id ask "is everything ok here?" nodding. They would just nod back cuz they couldnt say anything with full mouths. Even if they did need something, they just nodded yes and i walked away... god i hated being a waitress.

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    I agree with Bridg about the use of a statement instead of a question when "asking" for a dance. I find it more effective as well. "Lets go for a dance right now" with a nod. "You are ready for that dance right now, aren't you?" with a nod and so forth

    Also, kinda along the same lines... mimic the other person's movements subtely. When the guy has a drink out his glass/bottle/whatever, a few seconds later you have a drink and so forth


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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    I don't do it subtely or at any "right time". I do it all the time, every time, and it's fairly obvious. Of course I'm not nodding like a bobble-head as I'm asking for the dance, but it's not exactly subtle. Depending on my mood, my nod is sometimes very emphatic. It WORKS.
    Lol I meant that theirs a time and place for everything...it would be pointless to nod at random moments in the conversation. I mean, I can drift away at points, and I would hate to come "back to earth" and have realized I just agreed with some off the wall request, lol. But I feel where you're coming from. I make a point for it to be seen, but not overstated. It's worked for me plenty of times
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    My personal favorite, "I can keep dancing, right?" Nods while pouting and smiling at same time. Like sad silly puppy dog...AWWW... who can refuse Princess??

    LOL!!!!
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