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    Default How do you give a naked lap dance? Help please!!

    Okay guys-

    I am contemplating working somewhere that offers fully nude lap dances. How the hell do you give a nude lapdance? Not to be gross, but it just seems like you would end up rubbing your kitty on some guys jeans the whole time? I know there must be something I'm missing here, but I have never given a dance like this before and wondered... does anyone have tips??

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    Default Re: How do you give a naked lap dance? Help please!!

    Well, yah, if you're doing a grinding lapdance... you can be sensual, can't you? I mean, eye contact, smile with a bite of the lip, run fingers along his chest as you slide up his body and arch your back... and not even grinding yet.

    If you're a grinder.. put a towel down.


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    Get a small towel or bandanna to place on the guys lap if you want to grind.

    I give air type lap dances nude though... hover over the guy.. rub my body against his.. lift my leg above his head and he can see my kitty etc... its pretty much like a topless dance only nude.

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    Thanks guys! Yah, I was told these were fully nude contact dances....dan dan dan... I'm scared, eee!!
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    Default Re: How do you give a naked lap dance? Help please!!

    You really aren't rubbing your pussy on the guy even if you're lapdancing -- it's your ass that touches his lap, not your cooch. Unless you're feisty that way in which case I second the recommendation for a towel.

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    If I were facing away from him, I'd just grind with my butt. If I were facing forward, nothing would touch him because of the way I was sitting, or if he had more "lap" than usual, I'd put my hand down as a barrier until I could turn around again and then not go back into that position.
    You can also sit/stand sideways and grind with your hips/thighs.

    FYI - a high contact nude club does not always mean just 'more grinding'. Be prepared for further advances to be made.

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    Default Re: How do you give a naked lap dance? Help please!!

    when i worked at a club with nude dances, i would do half the song just topless and do my normal thing, then air dance when i took my thong off.

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    Default Re: How do you give a naked lap dance? Help please!!

    Thanks for the advice guys... I do grind with my butt/very low back, but for some reason I was getting freaked out about giving a LD without my panties on...I'm not some nutso crazy grinder, either, lol, I do the standard lap dance you get anywhere in America...I'm going to follow Britt's advice and only give contact when I have my bottoms on. Thank you! I'll let you all know how it goes...

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    Default Re: How do you give a naked lap dance? Help please!!

    I was in a place this weekend that I had to give nude contact dances (I didn't get a choice) and it was actually uncomfortable for me. I second using a towel if you're going to grind facing him.

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    *oops
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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    If I were facing away from him, I'd just grind with my butt. If I were facing forward, nothing would touch him because of the way I was sitting, or if he had more "lap" than usual, I'd put my hand down as a barrier until I could turn around again and then not go back into that position.You can also sit/stand sideways and grind with your hips/thighs.
    Yeah, old thread revival because I needed some advice.

    This is my solution as well when I got caught without a towel on me for a nude LD. Who knows what's on those jeans already, so I'm thinking the whole time about making sure my precious bits are never making contact. I'm not a heavy grinder (nude or not) for a really simple reason: my skin would get too irritated, so I focus on the sensuality of a neck nuzzle and running my hands over his neck, hair, arms and chest especially.

    Anyhow, sitting sideways and using my hips helps, as does planting one foot on the floor between his knees and another resting on his shoulder: I'm easily a foot and more away from his face, which makes me feel protected from a quick stealth move, but he's getting an eyeful.

    I think a bandana is more subtle than a towel though (thanks to whomever came up with that in a thread somewhere - in this one?), especially if I can loop it through my purse.

    Has anyone ever had a guy offended? I don't want to compromise my safety, but I don't want to piss off a customer either.
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    Okay this is a little paranoid but is it possible to transmit stds if one stripper does a nude dance and gets her juices on the guys pants then you come in contact with those juices? anyone get any skin infections like this? I have never done nude dances either and this thread got me scared since I am planning on starting at a nude club soon

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    Default Re: How do you give a naked lap dance? Help please!!

    You said it was a FULL CONTACT dance VegasPrincess? Meaning they can touch everywhere? I would be worried about that.
    The club where I work is fully nude but they can't touch our boobs our pussy. We put the towel/rag down so there is a barrier. Some dancers keep their thongs on. I always start with my back to them. I'm very slow and sensual. I make them take off my panties bending over so they get a peek. Then I turn around and rub my hands on myself. If there is a table or anything you can sit on that so they look at you and never have to sit on their lap. Maybe sit on their lap for a minute and show off more!

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    Default Re: How do you give a naked lap dance? Help please!!

    ^^

    Wow old thread lol!!! By full contact I meant we can touch them but they can't touch us.... I did't know that was the wrong way to put it lol.....
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    Default Re: How do you give a naked lap dance? Help please!!

    My club does fully nude dances, but we can't touch the customer without bottoms on. I take of my undies, show off kitty for a minute and then put them back on. It's rare that guys complain.

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    How did I miss this thread the first time around? Anyhow, hoping the advice helped you VG. Care to share the details?

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    Hahaha! Sure. I didn't do it lol. I was planning on moving home a year ago and was thinking about working at Silk Juneau but stayed in Vegas til Sept and then haven't danced....

    I know, lame....now that the Weather's nice we must go check out scores!
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    Perhaps you stopped spending money on her. Strippers need money to operate. They are like coin operated juke-boxes of love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by msonyxorb View Post
    Okay this is a little paranoid but is it possible to transmit stds if one stripper does a nude dance and gets her juices on the guys pants then you come in contact with those juices? anyone get any skin infections like this? I have never done nude dances either and this thread got me scared since I am planning on starting at a nude club soon
    Disclaimer: I think there is such a thing as too much caution and too much worry. I'm guilty of both.

    That said, yes, you could get an infection that way, as the article below seems to indicate, but not necessarily from a previous dancer's LD specifically. You don't know what was on the person's jeans or hands before you showed up (which is why the bandana idea is a great one), and that's true for a regular LD with bottoms on. Technically, you could get a skin infection from rolling around on a dirty stage if you already have a cut or otherwise compromised skin.

    Article excerpt:

    In a letter published in the Annals of Emergency Medicine in January, he reported treating a lap dancer for MRSA infections on her buttocks.

    "She relayed that other lap dancers at her club had similar problems, considered a known occupational hazard by the women," he wrote.
    I would think that's pretty rare, actually, but it helps to wipe off with a baby wipe and to use antibacterial soap.

    ETA: Friday will be my first day stripping while getting my period. Let's hope for no humiliating accidents.


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    We do them here, but we don't grind. Even just for sitting on his lap though, I like a towel or cloth. We all use the booty towels here. Once you're used to them, it's weird to imagine not using them.

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    So true! Now that I'm used to using my bootie towel I can't imagine working without it! I didn't use to use it for the first few months, but once you go bootie towel, you can't to back! hehe I even have one with diffrent texture on both sides so I always sit on the same side...otherwise it can be quite pointless.
    I have custies asking me about them, I just laugh and say : "I don't want to put my bootie on every one else's ! giggle giggle" That usually shuts them up.

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    We have this type of club. A lot of girls still keep their g-string on and just pull it to the side at some point, and when grinding commences it gets back in place, if ya know what I mean?
    Guys love, LOVE love love when I slide between their legs, knees on the grind, with my breasts near the crotch like I'm breast fucking them. Look 'em in the eyes and think to yourself..I know you wanna fuck me. Works everytime, without fail. You will get at least one more dance.
    Then again, guys love my eyes so me just looking at them gets em all horned up.

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