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    For all the $$$ and "upscale" people there are in this state, that is constantly at the front of all the rich lists, and they sell movie theater rows of chairs for your home theater at the local mall, I actually feel bad for these men and their options!

    Is it the mafia? Why are the laws so draconian like that---and someone tell me, how do you sell dances that great when you are in a go-go bar? Can you even take yr clothes off during a lap dance? (I really do want the answer to this question!) And I worked in a nude one (only nudes and go-go's here) for a month, and it was just bad. In Bergen County too! Can't have a bar, and the only alcohol they can bring is beer.

    I checked out 5, yes 5 places this past week with my bf, and the one place was $10 a piece to get in, and $8 apiece at the bar--that is $36 for two ppl to buy some bottled water and see one misshapen female on her knees for 4 customers, and the smoke machine was CHOKING there was way too much.

    I decided I'll never dance in this state, altho I was considering it lately, since I work 3 days a week in NY and love it, but would like to spend 2 more days without the commute/parking tickets.

    Who here is from NJ that can honestly say they make a minumum of $500 a night (without having regulars) and where do you work? Sorry if that sounded sarcastic, I really do want to kno, altho u probably wouldn't say BC I still want to work here, but from those visits it doesn't look that way...

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    One of the very few good places is Bare Exposure down in Atlantic City, NJ. Weekend money is great, however the bad side is that the "great" weekend shifts are 10pm-6am, and the weekdays generally suck. Mostly people only go to strip clubs on the weekends down in AC. Even business in AC is going downhill lately. For example, last summer it was busier BEFORE Memorial Day, than it was AFTER July 4th(that's ass-backwards). Lace in AC is quite dead at times, but if you can hustle and establish regulars, the money can be very good there too(it's a bikini bar, they don't take money out of lapdances, just money out of VIP rooms).

    I agree that most places in NJ suck though, money-wise!

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    Alaska- the only consistent places for earnings in N.J. are GoGoRama and Delilah's
    Den- S. Amboy during the day. Any place that serves alcohol MUST be bikini although Hott 22 and Harem are byob.

    Btw- Anybody work at Titillations. PM me for some 411.

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    Thanks a lot guys--wow that's crazy about last summer in AC -- I went on a few occasions for poker. Lol I wonder if a) they'd hire me just for Sat/Sun...guess I'd have to give them monday, and b) if I could keep my gambling ego in check lol. Last summer was so f-ing hot too--that's strange as hell. But I live pretty far away from there.

    Eric sometimes I see you that you post a lot about NY clubs--honestly now. Would you advise against, given the "recently embroiled in controversy" stuff, or does it not matter. Hmm guess I'll talk to you privately and I'll never really know till I see for myself...

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    I was in NJ this past weekend, and it was quite an, um, experience. I wasn't in AC though, but DAMN it was just weird. Guys wanted way too much for their $$, after a while it got on my nerves.

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    Heh. Yea. Where were you?

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    I was featuring at Volcanic Eruptions. I liked the club well enough, but the lapdances were way too hands on for me. I had to be a kung fu stripper with more than 75% of the guys, and I hate having to do that.

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    Alaska Eric is right try Titallations. I have close friends who currently work there as have I and we all make $500 a night or more (Thursday thru Sat) working there.

    Also Hitching Post in Clifton, I have always made more that $500 a night working there day shift there is also good.

    Delilahs is a good bet also.

    I personally like North Jersey clubs. I have always had great luck at them getting wealthy clientele. There do go to the clubs and are very generous.

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    Alaska- If you're asking me about Scores- I'd recommend against it.

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    New jersey sucks. I find all the mgmt. to be unprofessional, mafiaso dickheads-- minus GGR but GGR will make you feel like a whore if you are not used to dingy clubs.

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    GGR--sorry. I dunno what u mean! I live near Newark.

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    GGR= Go Go Rama. $20 for topless 2 way contact lap-dances.$180 for 1/2 hr. VIPS. Take a number system.If you can handle contact the money is very good.No real extras.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    GGR= Go Go Rama. $20 for topless 2 way contact lap-dances.$180 for 1/2 hr. VIPS. Take a number system.If you can handle contact the money is very good.No real extras.
    Please clarify "no real extras"?
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    Sophia- None in the lap-dance area. In the VIP cubicles there are cameras. Afaik there are no hj's happening.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    I had to be a kung fu stripper...
    you know that's sig-worthy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    I was featuring at Volcanic Eruptions. I liked the club well enough, but the lapdances were way too hands on for me. I had to be a kung fu stripper with more than 75% of the guys, and I hate having to do that.
    I remember that club! I cant believe its still there! The las time I was there the feature( I think it was the owners wife) did a show where she used a beer bottle as a dildo!

    and my husband had his bachelor party at Bare Exposure in AC. i've never danced there...but I tell you what...all things considered...I'm so glad I moved out of Jersey!!!
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    As an ex NJ native I have to say there are some slummy nasty ass clubs in NJ BUT there are also some very very good ones. If you are hot and know how to hustle AND are working at the right clubs you can make a killing. I know many sucessful dancer in NJ who own real estate and live very comfortable lives. It's just a matter of getting hired and and working at the better clubs. Granted there are only like a handful. There are over 100 stripclubs in NJ and only like 10 in my opinion offer excellent earning potential. I have met girls from all over the US and World working in NJ so the money can't be that bad.

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    I actually just went to Titillations this past weekend-seemed OK, I'm guessing the 500+ potential is from regulars?? Because I only saw one dancer take a customer for a lapdance/VIP the entire time. They said I have what it takes to work there-but I dunno, I think I prefer nude. I'm weird.

    To Alaska-I spent all of last year working at Hott22 in Union. Nude, BYOB, NO CONTACT at all-and I was regularly clearing 500+ a night. I haven't been there in over a month though (mental health break!), so I don't know how it is right now, plus the house fees are abnormally high for a NJ club and the shifts can be long. But I did good there, and might go back soon...
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    I’ve heard Titillations is not that good at all lately? I understand if you happen to be booked in a set without 2 or 3 all the rage dancers you might clear $200 - $300.

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    Alot depends on the day and how much you hustle. No hustle means no money, just like any other club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Valnice View Post
    I’ve heard Titillations is not that good at all lately? I understand if you happen to be booked in a set without 2 or 3 all the rage dancers you might clear $200 - $300.
    It all depends on who you talk to. I have some very good friends who work there and they have all been doing great (double to triple what you quoted). I wouldn't consider them the most popular girls there and they are doing fine. Money is right if you don't hustle you won't make money. I would recommend Tits to any girl only if you can hustle. Steady stream of loyal clientele who go there and get dances.

    A few dancer from some NYC gown clubs have been working there lately and aren't doing that good because they are not used to the Jersey style hustle. Definitly a club where you shouldn't act like a prima donna. Down to earth friendly and fun girls make money there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ebony View Post
    Down to earth friendly and fun girls make money there.
    Those are the ones I like to give my $$ to anyway I checked out Titallations a few weeks ago (when Eric mentioned it I had forgotten it was called that lol) and yea it seemed the way you described it...but damn it really must be hard when the atmosphere is a bar...I absolutely love working in NYC--you can be any way you want to be including very sarcastic and real and the guys love it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sugartaste View Post
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    Would you say that their website was exceptionally ghetto and not representative of the club? I know I really need to go check it out for myself but that website really scared me away...and the pictures of the dancers were scary as well--they looked "tired" to say the least.

    I dunno--it's between that, Delilah's or checking out Cheetah NYC. Tho the mgr at my place said they will be paying with funny money?

    Thanks so much guys--all really good posts/advice....

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    You NJ girls can do some amazing pole work and booty shaking. Makes me want to be a better stripper. Update us on what you learn. My last trip to AC sucked, but I'm sure there's better places out there.

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    Why does NJ suck so bad? I'll tell you.

    It's because too many clubs allowed extras; turning a blind eye as long as money was coming in. I should know; I'm a former GM and was pretty much forced to ignore it or quit. I chose to quit.

    Go into just about any go-go bar (not all, but most), and you can get a full service menu from at least 2 of the girls. Most guys around here want alot of bang for their buck and it seems to me that there is more bang going on than bucks these days.

    I've asked some custies about it and they feel that, since they don't get to see any nudity, they are getting ripped off. So they make up for that in the LD rooms.

    Sad but true. I can't tell you how many times I've stopped a lapdance while I was manager because I saw legs sticking out from under the curtains. (the girl was on her knees). Made me unpopular with plenty of customers but I had to protect my clean girls.

    You can make money if you're clean, but it's hard and involves tons of hustle. And repeat customers are few if you don't "up your game" to compete.

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