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    Angry Drunk female custy taken advantage of...

    This has been bothering me all day. Last night we had two girls come in with theyre boss and the owner of the restraunt that they worked with. One girl that I talked to was very uncomfortable and didnt want to be there. She said she didnt really know the other people very well. So her boss paid for a VIP dance and we just sat there because she didnt want the dance and I wasnt going to push it on her.

    Well through out the night they pump her full of shots and drinks and are constantl telling her that she needs to loosen up. Well she did! And the next thing I know she is up on stage with ten guys atleast pulling her clothes off and stripping her down to her underwear and her pants down to her ankles. She is so drunk she has really no idea whats going on.

    These guys start touching her and groping on her. One time the bouncer stepped in only because a guy had his hand up in her and thought it was funny. That same guy was trying to get all the other custys to go up there and touch her. I got furious and said something to all the guys and they got her off stage.

    Well its almost closing time and they get her up there again. Same as before but this time shes stumbling around very disoriented. I left there was nothing I could do the bouncers wouldnt step in and she was surrounded on stage.

    I feel this awful guilt like there was something more I could have done. Who knows where she ended up last night or what happened to her. I think Im going to go by the restraunt that she said she worked at and see if shes okay. I just dont know how to feel about this. I dont even want to go back to the club. Its amazing what men will do when women let theyre guard down.

    Disapointed yet again in the male species.....

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    wow.. im surprised your club didnt do anything. my club wouldnt let some random girl get up on stage like that, much less allow that behavior out of the guys.

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    WHY the hell was her boss taking her to a strip club in the first place?!

    That's terrible! She shouldn't have been drinking, and your bouncers suck.

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    ^^^ why do people alwyas try to make their club seem better ? not jus on this post, but others. like if the orignal poster is complaining/ranting about a problem that makes them feel uncomfortable,angry,annoyed and what not - somebody will be "pff so glad i dont work there, my club is.bleh bleh bleh"
    (shesh so mean!)

    anyways,l thats pretty crazy! thats nice of u of thinkin of going 2 the restuanto see if shes okay...(if she remebers u..LOL the nite mite of been a huge blurr to her!)
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    I guess I'm the only one who is going to say she shouldn't have been a drunk bitch in the first place. Plenty of people put shots in front of my face that I don't drink. Now, we've all done things we regret, but if she got that shitfaced then I almost have to think she was a willing participant.

    In any case, I am surprised that your management didn't intervene. Unless, of course, men putting their fingers in women is standard practice in your club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Windy View Post
    like if the orignal poster is complaining/ranting about a problem that makes them feel uncomfortable,angry,annoyed and what not - somebody will be "pff so glad i dont work there, my club is.bleh bleh bleh"
    (shesh so mean!)
    I don't have a club. And I think it's pretty reasonable to be appalled that something like this was allowed to happen.

    I assume the bouncers at your club wouldn't let customers do that to the dancers, so it sucks that the security in the club didn't fend the men off from sexually assaulting a drunk civilian customer.

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    it's sad to say this, but i have seen something similiar to this at my old club. the management and bouncers ignore it if it means that they are making money. if a custy that spends a few grand comes in and tries to finger a girl, the GIRL gets penalized and the guy goes unpunished.

    another reason why I am not there anymore.

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    yeahhh i wasnt saying my club was better, i was just saying that i think it's unusual for a club to allow that to happen because of what i've experienced at clubs ive worked at.

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    Quote Originally Posted by destiny2980 View Post
    Well through out the night they pump her full of shots and drinks and are constantl telling her that she needs to loosen up. Well she did! And the next thing I know she is up on stage with ten guys atleast pulling her clothes off and stripping her down to her underwear and her pants down to her ankles. She is so drunk she has really no idea whats going on.

    These guys start touching her and groping on her. One time the bouncer stepped in only because a guy had his hand up in her and thought it was funny. That same guy was trying to get all the other custys to go up there and touch her. I got furious and said something to all the guys and they got her off stage.

    I feel this awful guilt like there was something more I could have done. Who knows where she ended up last night or what happened to her. I think Im going to go by the restraunt that she said she worked at and see if shes okay. I just dont know how to feel about this. I dont even want to go back to the club. Its amazing what men will do when women let theyre guard down.

    Disapointed yet again in the male species.....
    F*ck, this made me sad. I think she felt like she needed to play along to what her boss was asking to help her stature at the workplace. Who among us hasn't worked in an environment full of pig-ass males?

    I hope you'll stop by to see if she is OK...& I hope she does something to get back at her boss. We're quick to judge her because we work in bars, but you have to remember what life is like for young women trying to make it in the straight world.

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    Hand in girl? Oh my, that's awful.

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    What the hell was the boss doing taking her there anyway? That's creepy and no wonder she felt so uncomfortable.

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    I dont think she should have been drinking and yes she put herself in the wrong place at the wrong time. But it just seemed by the way she was acting that she was slipped something.

    It just made me sad for her.

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    did you check on her?

    she needs help. anyone who gets that drunk needs to not drink. people put themselves in bad situations, and while it's sad that others take advantage f them, they need to keep themselves safer then that, by nt getting so drunk.

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    She shouldn't have been at a stripclub with her boss, that's inappropriate. I also can't say that I've ever been so drunk (and lord, I have been every shade of drunk you can imagine) that I would take my clothes off and let a guy stick his hand in me. What was her boss doing during all of this? That's a really disgusting situation so I can see why it bothers you... But it's not your fault. I would also probably go to the restuarant to make sure she was okay... other than that, she's just going to have to learn from that experiance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Windy View Post
    ^^^ why do people alwyas try to make their club seem better ? not jus on this post, but others. like if the orignal poster is complaining/ranting about a problem that makes them feel uncomfortable,angry,annoyed and what not - somebody will be "pff so glad i dont work there, my club is.bleh bleh bleh"
    (shesh so mean!)
    Well, sometimes people say "my club is just like that". I think it's jsut because we think about the situation and go, "well, I can't exactly put myself in her shoes because that is just off the wall"! Really, you think security would have done something! It's not okay for the strippers to go onstage with a bunch of guys and get fingered, so why would they let some random girl do that?
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    I think she may have been taking the drinks because she was so uncomfortable she felt it would loosen her up. She just didn't know when to stop. Hopefully she is OK. Honestly I don't think clubs should be letting anyone else but the dancers on stage. It would be a nice gesture to check in on her and see if she's alright, but it also might make her feel uncomfortable like she was in the beginning.

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    Men can be such pigs....women are not FINGER PUPPETS!!!

    Female tippers at my club tend to get stripped down, but at least our bouncers and management make sure they are not being touched, and are brought off stage after a few minutes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Windy View Post
    ^^^ why do people alwyas try to make their club seem better ? not jus on this post, but others. like if the orignal poster is complaining/ranting about a problem that makes them feel uncomfortable,angry,annoyed and what not - somebody will be "pff so glad i dont work there, my club is.bleh bleh bleh"
    (shesh so mean!)

    anyways,l thats pretty crazy! thats nice of u of thinkin of going 2 the restuanto see if shes okay...(if she remebers u..LOL the nite mite of been a huge blurr to her!)
    Well......this is StripperWeb. Of course when we read about any situation when working in a stripclub, we're going to say, "I wish my club would be a little more like that" or "I'm glad I don't work there, my club does things this way".

    Anyway....I can't believe there are clubs that actually let female custys on the stage on their own. That would piss me off. I would go check on her where she works. Hopefully she remembers you!

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    Okay, first of all, it sort of angers me that I read so many responses saying, "well, she shouldn't have been drunk." or "It's her fault."

    While perhaps this girl was intoxicated beyond recognition, that does not make it acceptable for her to get finger banged by a group of men. I don't care if she was wasted, ripping he clothes off while moaning and masturbating, it is NOT OKAY for someone to touch her like that.

    I furthermore feel that the club took advantage of her.... obviously, the management was sober and I don't think it's very cool for them to put some horribly drunk girl on stage to be violated....

    Really. That "it's her fault because she did X,Y, or Z" attitude is so disgusting to me. That is what gets rapists off all the time, "Well, she was in a bar by herself, she was just asking for it." Or, "Why did she take him home late at night, of course that implies that she wanted sex."

    Furthermore, who of us can honestly say that they've never stupidly put themselves in a bad situaiton. I know I have!! That doesn't mean that it makes it allright for someone to sexually assault you...

    And everyone is right, she should NOT have gotten that drunk. But maybe she WAS drugged. I know I was once drugged while bartending, of all things, and while I did learn damn quick to always watch my drink, it was a horrible situation that I did not anticipate nor deserve. Thankfully nothing awful happened to me. And even if she did just get super drunk, maybe she never drinks, didn't realize how strong the drinks were, or was just plain using poor judgement. Maybe she skipped lunch or took some cold and flu medicine. Again, I think we can all say we've had a night where we couldn't figure out how we got so drunk.
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    I'm confused. Why are girls saying this event was her fault? How is the vicitim at fault here?

    It doesn't matter what context this event occured in. The girl was obviously too inebriated to consent. Sure, she made a bad decision in having too much to drink.

    But, she was assaulted, period.

    destiny, you really should have a talk with the managers/bouncers of your club. You should go check on that girl too, if possible.

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    I don't think people are saying "It's her fault." but more, "It wasn't a good decision to drink that much."

    Everyone here feels bad for her, I'm sure! (I'm personally sickened by it!!)

    But I definitely agree that she shouldn't have had that much to drink in the first place. Regardless of the situation, it's not a wise decision.

    Personally, I would have called the cops so that the situation would have been on record. And definitely tell management about how the bouncers just sat there and allowed the assault.

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    Oh god thats awful. Shame on your club for not stepping in!

    Im surprised at how many people are trying to blame the girl here too. NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO VIOLATE YOUR BODY PERIOD REGARDLESS OF WHAT STATE YOUR IN!

    I think it would be nice if you called in to her work to see if shes ok. Something tells me that her boss is an arsehole too.

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    She might try to sue your club. She was sexually assaulted. A bouncer who would be amused by that and not step in should loose his security licence.

    My club won't allow any one except a dancer to get up on the stage and for a good reason, we are the entertainers not drunk female custies.

    I am in no way blaming her for what happened but I fucking hate drunk females in the club they are a dam nuisance.

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    That is really awful. I would actually ask the bouncers to stop it because it was making ME uncomfortable. And her co-workers - not cool. I find it kind of hard to believe that not even one of them was all "Okay, let's take her home." I mean in a nice way, not in a "let's take her home and fuck her up the ass before she sobers up" way.

    I think people fixate on what she did "wrong" (because ultimately drinking too much is not immoral, and treating someone the way she was treated is, I choose to scare quote "wrong") because it gives us a sense of control - "these are all the things I wouldn't do so this wouldn't happen to me" kind of exerting control over the world.
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