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    This may be a self explanantory thing, but I want to know what guys we shouldn't give dances to. For example, my cousin's ex boyfriend came in the other night and wanted a dance from me. I gave it to him. I mean it's all business to me. Of course my cousin wasn't too happy about it. Was I wrong? Or what if the dad of someone I know comes in and wants a dance, etc...Is there limits on who we should and shouldn't give dances to?

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    Default Re: Who's considered off limits?

    I thinks its personnel choice but if you know the person otc just be prepared for the fall out and don't get upset if it bites you in the ass.

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    It definitely is all a personal choice and what you're comfortable with. There's nothing set in stone saying who you can and can't dance for. What you have to think about is this-how much does that 20 dollars or however much really mean to you? Is it worth causing a rift with a family member or feeling very uncomfortable around a friend's dad afterwards? I personally wouldn't have done it, but I'm just a weenie that way. If anyone I know in real life comes into the club they are off-limits. I'll talk to them or have a drink but that's it. No getting nekkid. Hell, I would even be embarrassed to go on stage!
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    it's on a situation to situation basis.

    I've danced for a teacher, but not a friends ex. I've danced for a platonic friend, but not a guy who used to have a thing for me. I just weigh it out, if there's going to be a possible issue later, I won't do it, but i will offer vip if they ask for a dance.

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    I did dances for a guy that turned out to be a guy I went to high school with's dad. And the dad KNEW who I was. I just didn't recognize him. What a perv.

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    Dancing for your cousins ex is out of line in my opinion... If it's a dad of someone your friends with, or at least in some way respect then it's pretty f*cked up to do a dance for them. (except in Pookas situation) Wow, I just kind of assumed this to be common sense. But whatever floats your boat!
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    Default Re: Who's considered off limits?

    Ya, it's not good to dance for any ex's..you sisters, friends, cousins, unless you don't mind people hating you.

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    Well as much as your rolled eyes are appreciated, Miss Jessica, I had no idea it was someone I knew's dad...I don't ID everyone I dance for, see....I know..what am I thinking? I didn't find out until days later when the dad told his son.

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    how fucked up that he told his son as well!!! ^

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    Your situation is completely different Pooka, that reply was not in anyway ment to be directed towards you hun. (I'm sorry if it came across that way!) You did not know, sh!t happens...
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    Thanks, Jessica. No harm done. Lola - I know, Pervariffic!!! He told his son (who I didn't know at all really just knew of, he was younger than me and still in school) And he told everyone. So it was double perv. So a few of the teachers I was close with emailed me and was like I heard that you were were working in a gentlemen's club and blah blah blah. UGH.

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    what an asss! I'd play dirty, call his hom and talk to the wifey!!!!

    I'm a bitch like that, I'vew even called brides to be when their intended asks me back to his hotel room.... she deserves to know that on the eve of her wedding, he's trying to fuck me!!!

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    It's definitely a personal choice. I choose not to dance for anyone that I know personally. I feel that it may give the "wrong" idea to someone in my personal life, even though I'd just be doing my job and they're paying for it.

    Years ago, though I recognized a custy as being my ex boyfriend's stepdad. He didn't recognize me, though. Anyway, ex boyfriend's mom was really mean to me, so I kind of saw it as revenge when her husband started buying dances from me and all my friends.

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    lola.. was it an old teacher of yours? i'd feel so weird!

    my friend's dad used to come in all the time to see the dancer he was sleeping with. (and cheating on his current gf with). i know he knew who i was but he always ignored me.

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    Okay let me explain this a little better. The ex of my cousin was from like ten years ago. She's married now. But I guess she and her ex still talk and he told her I did a dance for him. I thought he had looked familiar but didn't realize until he told me who exactly he was. As for the friend's dad, I was using that as an example as to who I should or shouldn't dance for, I have yet to see a friend's dad in there. But judging from the responses it's a no no.

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    Eh, fuck it, I'll dance for anybody who's polite about it. I've danced for friends, including my boyfriend's best friend (and that was one VERY high-mileage dance). I have a great time with lapdances. If they're paying, they want one, so why the hell not?

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    That's how I feel. I mean it's all business right?? The only reason I asked this was because of the whole cousin's ex scenario. IMO, she didn't really have a right to get pissed, she's married.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post

    I'm a bitch like that, I've even called brides to be when their intended asks me back to his hotel room.... she deserves to know that on the eve of her wedding, he's trying to fuck me!!!
    YESSS!!! I like to think I would be an upstanding stripper like you Lola when I start dancing. I would do the same thing. Strippers for a bachelor party is one thing, trying to fuck the stripper or actually fucking the stripper or ANYBODY for that matter, is totally different. Sadly, I doubt I would get any phone call from a friend or fellow dancer if my groom tried to get laid at his bachelor party. So sad . . .

    Where's the code of honor people?!?! lol.
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    Umm, okay, I think it all comes down to what you're comfortable with. Personally, I am really not comfortable dancing for a lot of people... definitely a friend's parents, no way... maybe if it was their older brother and we were cool like that... Basically, any situation that is going to cause embarassment or upset is not worth the 20-400 dollars I would make off giving those lap dances.

    For instance, my friend's fiance came into the strip club I was working at at his bachelor party. We weren't super good friends or anything like that, but when her fiance recognized me, I just sat down with the party for about half an hour and had a cocktail and pulled girls over to come dance with the group while I watched and acted like one of the guys.

    While they were in a strip club and obviously there really wouldn't have been anything wrong with dancing for these guys, I felt like it would be sorta rude for me to dance for them if that meant that for years to come Krista would have to hear stories about how I entertained the groom and groomsmen in a very naughty way the night before her wedding. That just seemed to close for comfort.
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    I'm with Glam -- if I'm going to have to see them in any other setting than the club I'm not going to do it. I think the closest I got was dancing for my sister's boyfriend's friend once and the puppyness that followed on his part was a little weird.

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    I don't understand. What is this eyerolling?

    It's money. Period. She didn't care, he didn't care...what's the problem? I don't understand why we have to put other strippers down for decisions that do not affect us or our money in any way.

    It's common sense not to dance for people you know? Why? Because our job is so dirty and horrible and we should be ashamed? I don't agree. You're always dancing for someone's dad, brother, mother, sister, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    lola.. was it an old teacher of yours? i'd feel so weird!

    my friend's dad used to come in all the time to see the dancer he was sleeping with. (and cheating on his current gf with). i know he knew who i was but he always ignored me.
    I'd had a class with him the past semmester, and I've since had another class with him. I didn't act differently, and neither did he. he was such a gentleman, it just didn't bother me.

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    I'd dance for your uncle, your father and your husband at the same time. As long as the dude is paying, he is eligible to be a customer.

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    It's a personal choice as to who you will and won't dance for. There are people I won't dance for, no matter what the price is. Family is more important than $$, which is why I don't dance for people that are in some way connected to them.

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    ^^^ I agree. If anyone is connected to my family or hubby I have made up in my mind that I will not dance for.
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