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    I'm 22 and I've been going to the same club for about 6 months now. There's this one dancer that I got a total of maybe 10 dances with over a 2 month period. I'm the type of customer who prefers to talk with the dancers than to get dances. About 3 months ago I completely cut off getting dances with any of the dancers including the dancer that I really like. Now for the last 2 months i've been going in twice a week and she always spends at least 30-60 minutes talking with me despite the fact that I don't tip her at all anymore since I find it akward to tip someone that I consider to be a friend. She's told me all about her life from her son, ex's, drama, drugs, interests, goals, etc. and despite her problems (we all have them) I really like her as a person. I can tell when someone has a good heart. She's told me her real name, where she lives, etc and I've had brief messaging back and forth on myspace. I've asked her a few times to go see a movie or dinner and she always says she's busy, which I do believe, but she seems to want to get together sometime. I want to know what you ladies think? Do you think she'll actually go out with me at some point? she's 20 and i'm 22. I figure there must be a reason why she's willing to spend so much time with me despite me not tipping.

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    Mwahahahahaha....

    I love these threads. Renews my faith that the fantasy still lives.



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    There's a million stories in the naked city.

    On this one, there is nothing magical in the story about the fact that she's a stripper and you talk to her/see her in a strip club.

    By 22 I had learned the lesson (more than once, unfortunately), that if a girl is "too busy" to go to the movies/dinner/whatever -- then no, she doesn't want to go out with you.

    Being a stripper has nothing to do with it.

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    If she wants to go out with you, she'll let you know.

    And sorry, but I call bullshit on that "awkward to tip friends" crap. I don't go hang around my waitress friends at work and demand free service. If you're going to hang out with her at work, then have respect for the fact that she is working and pay her for her time, or don't go see her at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    And sorry, but I call bullshit on that "awkward to tip friends" crap. I don't go hang around my waitress friends at work and demand free service. If you're going to hang out with her at work, then have respect for the fact that she is working and pay her for her time, or don't go see her at all.
    Haha...right on!

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    I assume she's fine with me not tipping since I haven't in months and she's the one who comes up to me and sits down. I'm not demanding any service. It's offerred. I've told her that I know it's her job and not to feel akward about getting up to go after some customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    If she wants to go out with you, she'll let you know.

    And sorry, but I call bullshit on that "awkward to tip friends" crap. I don't go hang around my waitress friends at work and demand free service. If you're going to hang out with her at work, then have respect for the fact that she is working and pay her for her time, or don't go see her at all.
    Hell yes! I'm long-time friends with my hair stylist and I make sure I tip her EXTRA well.



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    Quote Originally Posted by hardkandee View Post
    Hell yes! I'm long-time friends with my hair stylist and I make sure I tip her EXTRA well.

    Do you tip her on days when she doesn't do your hair?

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    What's wierd is she's told me she wanted me to come over and see her new place and she even asked if I'd mind if her son was there. I said I didn't mind at all. But she still hasn't invited me over.

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    You just want us to say we think it's ok for you to not tip her.

    we won't. you should tip her, or just chat via her myspace.

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    Have any of you had a regular that you sat with twice a week that never tipped you? I'm trying to figure out why she spends so much time with me, keeps the idea alive that we'll actually get together outside of the club, but then nothing happens.

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    The tipping issue is just something we'll have to agree to disagree on. I'm not interested in being her customer and she's known that for months now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Do you tip her on days when she doesn't do your hair?
    No, but I don't sit in her chair at her salon and take money making time away from her.

    How long has she been stripping? She's probably just young, new to the game and a bad hustler.



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    Quote Originally Posted by rooster470 View Post
    The tipping issue is just something we'll have to agree to disagree on. I'm not interested in being her customer and she's known that for months now.
    Um, this site is for dancers and CUSTOMERS!!!!



    troll.

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    I tip the other dancers on stage. She's the only one that I don't tip.

    She's been stripping since she turned 18 at multiple clubs. And from what I understand she does very well.

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    Default Re: Will she Go Out with Me?

    Since you won't even tip her at work, maybe she thinks you're a cheapass and won't pay for dinner either.

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    Then why does she spend so much time with me?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Since you won't even tip her at work, maybe she thinks you're a cheapass and won't pay for dinner either.
    hah! yep.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rooster470 View Post
    Then why does she spend so much time with me?
    she must not be that smart. or she sees you as a platonic friend. Not someone to date, otherwise this thread woldn't exist!!!!

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    Actually he's getting free dancer conversation and attention here as well. Pretty clever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rooster470 View Post
    The tipping issue is just something we'll have to agree to disagree on. I'm not interested in being her customer and she's known that for months now.
    Then don't go see her at work - how rude of you, you say u tip every dancer except her! That is nasty.

    As for your question about having a regular who doesn't tip NO the definition of a regular is a regular customer (ie. they tip) not a regular pain in the ass cheap ass.

    She doesn't like you, she doesn't wanna go out with you, she is just playing with you prob to pay u back for wasting her time at work.

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    ^haha. true.

    but i'm not wearing any makeup and im in my pjs, so it doesn't count.

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    That doesn't make any sense. How would her spending time with me where I don't pay be punishing me?

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    Wait, is this one of those brain teaser threads again?

    I think I've found the answer! She's really your sister.



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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Actually he's getting free dancer conversation and attention here as well. Pretty clever.

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    We talk about pretty much everything from her childhood to my school and her high school days. I know that she sees me as at least a friend based on what she's told me.

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