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    ok... i feel like bad girl goes good and has no clue how..... right now I work at a club (i've posted about it a lot) that only has hard-grinding full nude 2 way contact bed dances. I've seen it all and lived to tell.

    however, money isn't amazing right now, (like... everywhere, as we're all posting about) and i also just moved a wee bit farther from my club, so I am trying out shifts during the week at another club... there's a really good opportunity, or so i hope, at a club under new management who practically begged me to work there after I MADE him let me swing around on their beautiful pole for a set... I had just come from my other club so I had all my stuff with me, the DJ had already happily hired me, but for anyone who read my "our pole is breaking!!" thread, getting to use a full ceiling to floor pole for the first time in my life was... lovely. plus it was oscar night, there was no one there, and i wanted to test drive the stage before i worked.

    i am thrilled at the idea of NOT GIVING OUT MY DANCE MONEY... !!!!!! of NO CONTACT..... of WAIVING STAGE FEE if ON TIME.... plus the club is gorgeous. heeeelllllz yeah. the only thing is.... ladies, i need your help. i am so used to straddling these guys for bed dances, lying down, etc.... wtf is an airdance on a leather couch (seated) any tips?? i feel like a whore going to church for the first time. hahahah

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    Default Re: How to give a sexy AIRdance.... (*ha.*)

    Wear more than usual clothing taking each piece off slowly. There is like a neck snuggle and sorta breathing onto the neck too. Lots of eye contact and smiles. I get as close as I legally can to them. Sometimes scratch their backs or run my fingers in their hair. Thats all I can think of for now.
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    ^^Good tips there. Also I will lightly run my nails up his arm, put one hand on his shoulder to lean in then stroke the back of his neck with my other hand and then run that hand around the side of his head/face and just under his lip then transition to another move. They almost always try to suck my finger by the time I've gotten to the part where my fingers are running just under his lip.

    Slooooowww. Do everything slow and with purpose. Breath on his neck/ear. Linger for a couple seconds. Hell, linger with EVERYTHING for a couple or few seconds.

    Turn around and bend over a little in front of him and turn your head to look back at him just as your ass is turned directly at him (at my club we can't bend over more than 90 degrees when naked). Sometimes I will also run a hand between my thighs as I do this, and maybe throw in a sexy lip-lick.

    Practice your bodywave. Any which way you can wave it, DO it. Make your torso kinda swirl. Guys really seem to dig my swirly movements - I'm sure they're imagining me doing that on their dicks.

    Run your hands along your body slowly. If you can squeeze your boobs, bend over so your cleavage is as close to his face as you can get away with, and squeeze/massage boobies a little.

    LOTS of eye contact. Look at his lips while licking your lips just a little - that's very flirty.


    Put a chair in the room with no other (regular) furniture, placed where you could see yourself in the mirror while dancing in front of the chair. Practice dancing in front of the chair like a custy is sitting there,


    I'm sure there's plenty more but I'm really sleeeeeeeeppyyy!!

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    Default Re: How to give a sexy AIRdance.... (*ha.*)

    Here's an analogy:

    contact dance :: sex

    as

    air dance :: masturbation

    Now don't get mad, I'm not saying you have sex with custys, or that you should masturbate for them! The difference between the two, though, is the difference between having sex with a guy, and letting him watch you masturbate. During an airdance, the guy wants to see you get all excited about how hot n' sexy you are. So rub your hands all over yourself, and look like you LOOOVE doing it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver View Post
    Here's an analogy:

    contact dance :: sex

    as

    air dance :: masturbation

    Now don't get mad, I'm not saying you have sex with custys, or that you should masturbate for them! The difference between the two, though, is the difference between having sex with a guy, and letting him watch you masturbate. During an airdance, the guy wants to see you get all excited about how hot n' sexy you are. So rub your hands all over yourself, and look like you LOOOVE doing it.

    hth!
    that was actually the perfect analogy. i totally get it!!! excellent tips here.... wow.... yeah, slow is definitely key, i am sure.... the thing about this club and the *new image* is making it more classy.... less booty-shaking "my milkshake" stuff and more traditional glamourous stripclub image... i am good with the *stare into your soul* while gyrating ever so slowly.... i just have to remember i can't let my pussy do the talking... hey, i like extra challenges. it WILL be hard at first when i'm used to using just that right move, touch, or position (or spread... ha) during a song transition to keep a guy there longer... oh well.... i'll figure it out! i'll probably watch the other girls for a bit first and see how the top earners do it. but these tips are giving me lots of good ideas.

    yes, head/neck/cheek fingernails aaaaalways work well... the illusion of intimacy sells so much better than booty shaking and pussy rubbing any day, because every girl will/can give that (well, i don't have a butt, but that's besides the point) but taking away loneliness and giving the certain je ne sais quoi allure... that takes a special dancer.

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    Default Re: How to give a sexy AIRdance.... (*ha.*)

    I wanna give airdances, too!

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    ya wanna practice on me?? you can give me some ideeeaz... *slaps wrist* bad girl.

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    Default Re: How to give a sexy AIRdance.... (*ha.*)

    Quote Originally Posted by Embyr View Post
    i feel like a whore going to church for the first time. hahahah
    Yeah, I know the feeling. Kinda odd transition going from high contact to ziltch. It's even harder going from airdancing back to hard or even medium contact.
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    You moved from E?! Congratulations!!!



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    alrght// club report!!!! so, for my first night @ new place, and it was a TWO-FOR 1 NIGHT... (*fuck that*) i took home over 300.... and apparently it was really slow. I also think that myself and this other girl were top earners. soooo.... for a first, slow, 2 for 1 night at a bikini club, i don't find that terrible at all!. especially considering how things have been recently/ girls were nice, cutomers very friendly, wide variety... i liked it! i'm going back tomorrow.

    lillith- leaving E?? nah.... i can't... when E is good it's REALLY good... and i'm still hoping the $$ will improve by next month, which makes dealing w/ the bullshit all worth it. and yes, they *rebolted* the pole 2 weeks ago, finally. fixed??? hahahaha never.

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    For transitioning, selling another song: I always go just a *few* seconds into next song, lean in close in some sexy way and ask "we can do another?" Worded like a statement. Works.

    My lean-in moves vary a little. Sometimes I'll breathe in his ear, sometimes shove my cleavage in his face, maybe play with a nipple just under his nose, maybe run my nails up his arm. You get the idea I'm sure.

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    exactly.... with man in vulnerable position and me in mid-gyration, i always say "mmm let's keep going!" i learned a while ago that if you stop a move, you stop the dance.

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    I did the tips last night when I was giving dances, and it worked great!
    Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    T(at my club we can't bend over more than 90 degrees when naked).
    Now, I'm wondering (and what with my sedentary lifestyle over the past couple of months, I really don't want to get out a mirror and check):
    What can you see when the chick is touching her toes that you can't see when she's bent at 90 degrees?

    And

    I can't help imagining a bunch of nuns running around with protractors - you know how you see in the movies at boy-girl dances?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    ^^Good tips there. Also I will lightly run my nails up his arm, put one hand on his shoulder to lean in then stroke the back of his neck with my other hand and then run that hand around the side of his head/face and just under his lip then transition to another move. They almost always try to suck my finger by the time I've gotten to the part where my fingers are running just under his lip.

    Slooooowww. Do everything slow and with purpose. Breath on his neck/ear. Linger for a couple seconds. Hell, linger with EVERYTHING for a couple or few seconds.

    Turn around and bend over a little in front of him and turn your head to look back at him just as your ass is turned directly at him (at my club we can't bend over more than 90 degrees when naked). Sometimes I will also run a hand between my thighs as I do this, and maybe throw in a sexy lip-lick.

    Practice your bodywave. Any which way you can wave it, DO it. Make your torso kinda swirl. Guys really seem to dig my swirly movements - I'm sure they're imagining me doing that on their dicks.

    Run your hands along your body slowly. If you can squeeze your boobs, bend over so your cleavage is as close to his face as you can get away with, and squeeze/massage boobies a little.

    LOTS of eye contact. Look at his lips while licking your lips just a little - that's very flirty.


    Put a chair in the room with no other (regular) furniture, placed where you could see yourself in the mirror while dancing in front of the chair. Practice dancing in front of the chair like a custy is sitting there,


    I'm sure there's plenty more but I'm really sleeeeeeeeppyyy!!
    Great tips! I've always worked in clubs that give air dances. I think they are WAY sexier and creative...the only problem is guys seem to be getting handsier in no contact clubs lately and I HATE when they mess up my sexy dance because I have to grab their hands and dance while I'm holding their hands!

    But yeah running fingernails along their leg..getting closer to their thighs like you might go in between their legs but you don't...

    use different height levels...at my club you can go down on one knee and I do that and lift my bended knee over one of their legs while I run my hands over their chest and gentley craddle their face in my palms affectionatley.

    Make sure you are giving front, side, and back views. Guys like to see a woman's body from different angles.

    I like what was said about air dances being like masterbation..because it is kinda like you are enjoying your body and sexuality for someone's pleasure so look at it like that way...like if your boyfriend asked you to masterbate for him...put on a show and act like his attention really is turning you on. Touch your body alot and make alot of eye contact so it makes the guy feel like you are enjoying having an audience and eye contact will make him feel like he is participating without really participating ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Now, I'm wondering (and what with my sedentary lifestyle over the past couple of months, I really don't want to get out a mirror and check):
    What can you see when the chick is touching her toes that you can't see when she's bent at 90 degrees?

    And

    I can't help imagining a bunch of nuns running around with protractors - you know how you see in the movies at boy-girl dances?
    hah, one club I worked at required breakaway thongs because you couldn't even bend over to take them off, and once nude couldn't bend more than 45 degrees at the waist! I suppose a girl bent over at 90 degrees is slightly more ladylike than one grabbing her ankles.

    I would like to add -- BIKINI AIRDANCES? I can see the point of fully nude ones somewhat, but shit, no contact and no nudity? pfft, if you can make $300 selling that, my hat is off to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Now, I'm wondering (and what with my sedentary lifestyle over the past couple of months, I really don't want to get out a mirror and check):
    What can you see when the chick is touching her toes that you can't see when she's bent at 90 degrees?
    It's the difference between getting a little flash of pink and examining what she ate for lunch

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