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    Hey Ladies,

    I am not sure if I shared with you all but last month ( January) i started working at the local club near my school, I tried the stripping scene but at the club i worked at i just didnt feel that the enviroment was safe- with that being said I have taken on a new task and that is being an escort. I signed onto the job today and I am " on call" so to speak, I am not sure as to what escorts really intail of and the lady whom runs the service said I just have to be a "girl friend" to some clients and I get paid for my time. I have heard that escort services are a fancy word for prostitution, is that true? I have made a comittment and I need to stick with it but in all honesty I do not know what the escort business consist of. If any of you ladies are or have tried the the escort service business PLEASE help me out, tell me what is required, and the general notion of the business. ALL help, advice and suggestions ARE welcomed. Hope to hear from someone soon.

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    As far as I know, it most certainly is true. Except for some high-end places where they screen you thoroughly make sure you are educated, beautiful, classy and a good entertainer to accompany men to social functions and whatnot. I may be wrong though-lets see what everyone else has to say...

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    Oh honey. Escort services by and large entail fucking your clients.

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    It's true, "escort" means "prostitute" 99.9999999% of the time. I would advise against doing this because it's definitely illegal and you risk destroying your entire life. Besides, if you didn't feel safe in the club surrounded by people, what makes you think it'll be safe when you're alone in a hotel room or whatever with a guy you don't know and who may see you as an expendable whore? I'm all for decriminalizing prostitution, but until we do I don't believe that it's safe. Please be careful.

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    Yes, it almost always is prostitution. If this is something you are not okay with, then break your "commitment." You don't owe those people anything especially when they were not forthright with you. They tend to be sneaky about it for legal reasons, but it's wrong to send a young clueless girl into such a situation. If you are okay with prostitution, be careful and be safe. Always keep some money aside in case you run into legal troubles.

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    Escort = Prostitute



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    Check out www.aspd.com (org?) to get a better idea of the norms/prices in your city and the reputation of the agency you've signed on with.



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    Default Re: Tell me its not prostitution

    yeah most likely, a fancy name for it

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    I don't understand why you feel you can't "break" your commitment... nor do I understand why you would take a job when you aren't sure what it all entails?
    Futhermore, if you don't feel safe in a club, how the hell are you gonna feel safe alone in some dude's house with him?

    Honestly, when someone orders an escort, they are expecting sex. They might flip the fuck out if you don't put out.

    Don't do it girl!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by DiamondAngel View Post
    I have made a comittment and I need to stick with it but in all honesty I do not know what the escort business consist of.
    1. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do.

    2. Escorts are generally prostitues... But there ARE a few out there that aren't. Use your instincts with the place you just signed to.
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    THANK YOU EVERYBODY!!! I truly appreciate all your comments. Friday i meet with the manager so she can see what i look like and what not- she had asked me if there was anything that I would and would not do but I didnt get a chance to answer her. Hopefully on Friday when we meet i will be able to get more information about the company as well as get my questions answered.

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    If you all are interested, on Friday after my meeting i will post back and let you all know howthe meeting went. Once again, Thank you

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    To me ,when I get offered a job i usually take it depending on what i will be doing but in this situation i am not sure- i will let you all know my final decision. If anyone wants to know about the company I might be working for feel free to PM me and i will send you the link to their website.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DiamondAngel View Post
    Hey Ladies,

    I am not sure if I shared with you all but last month ( January) i started working at the local club near my school, I tried the stripping scene but at the club i worked at i just didnt feel that the enviroment was safe- with that being said I have taken on a new task and that is being an escort. I signed onto the job today and I am " on call" so to speak, I am not sure as to what escorts really intail of and the lady whom runs the service said I just have to be a "girl friend" to some clients and I get paid for my time. I have heard that escort services are a fancy word for prostitution, is that true? I have made a comittment and I need to stick with it but in all honesty I do not know what the escort business consist of. If any of you ladies are or have tried the the escort service business PLEASE help me out, tell me what is required, and the general notion of the business. ALL help, advice and suggestions ARE welcomed. Hope to hear from someone soon.

    Thanks,
    DiamondAngel
    Well, there are two kinds of 'escorts' out there.
    1. Is a very expensive tour guide that also acts like a translator for foreign travelers or guide little old ladies around a strange city.
    2. Is synonymous with being a hooker.

    Not every customer wants to have sex with his escort, but sometimes it is expected. Sometimes it is just lap dancing and a dildo show, sometimes it is just conversation and a shoulder rub.

    If you are not comfortable with the fact that eventually you'll be expected to sleep with a client, then find another line of work.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Diamond- I got your pm but can't find the link to their website!! PM me again girlie!
    Sexy Jasmine after getting fucked over at work:

    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


    Quote Originally Posted by anomar View Post
    Perhaps you stopped spending money on her. Strippers need money to operate. They are like coin operated juke-boxes of love.

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    Yeah, like everybody said above, escort=hooker on most occasions. If you don't feel safe in a club, how are you going to feel safe in a hotel room or in somebody's home? Did this agency not tell you anything about what they do for clients?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    Check out www.aspd.com (org?) to get a better idea of the norms/prices in your city and the reputation of the agency you've signed on with.
    I think both those sites are wrong, warehousing site lol
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    It's aspd.net

    YES escort usually means prostitute. The people running the agency can't and won't tell you that because they don't know you, you could be a cop and they would be risking arrest if they told their potential new hires the truth. They HAVE TO say it's "just" this or that.

    But I think when the lady said you have to be a girlfriend to the clients, she pretty much said it right there. Girlfriend. Think about it...

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    If you have any doubts about it, don't do it. I don't believe that there is any legit escort service in the Richmond/Tri Cities area. I've never heard of any.
    Regardless of what they "expect", if you thought the club enviroemnt wasn't safe you'll be one on one with some strange guy with no protection at all. I seriously doubt that the company will provide the escort with an escort.

    PM me if you want me to try an find out any info on the company. I can ask around to see if anyone knows what's up with them.

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    I had a friend who wanted to be an escort but not a prostitute---the .00001% the ladies here are referring to where you just meet with the guy, give him a show/lapdances/conversation, etc. She got hired right away by an agency. They never ever said a word about sex. They said "companionship" and that you never had to do anything you didn't want to do. She had two weeks of great calls. Most guys thought they were getting sex and were disappointed, but accepted that they were only going to get a show. Until one day a customer got really pissed and called the agency. Later the agency called her and jumped all over her case and fired her.

    Yes, escort means sex. You can get away with not doing sex, but most guys and agencies aren't going to like that and you will be getting yourseld into potentially dangerous sitations with guys who expect one thing and feel hustled when they don't get it.

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    Gingerlee-
    the agency did NOT tell me what they do for clients, all they said was that an hour of my time is whats needed and I get paid for that.

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    Susan-Va,
    I will PM you the website. All help will be greatly appreciated

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    Ladies,
    Once again Thank You for all of your help wisdom- I do truly appreciate it.

    DiamondAngel

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    Quote Originally Posted by DiamondAngel View Post
    Gingerlee-
    the agency did NOT tell me what they do for clients, all they said was that an hour of my time is whats needed and I get paid for that.
    Just making sure you understand that they will NEVER tell you that sex is expected. To do so would be very risky on their part so they always give very vague answers regarding what you will actually do on your dates. But this doesn't mean that sex is not expected. It most certainly is. The reason it is expected is that's what is done 99.999% of the time - escort is most commonly a "code" for hooker in this context.

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    Bridgette,
    THANK YOU!!

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