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    Let me say that it is "not allowed" for me to be downright rude/blunt to customers, otherwise I already would have been to this fella. The bouncers, however, can be...but this guy I'm going to rant about always comes in during the day when we have no bouncer (small dive bar):
    So this guy started coming in just over two months ago. He was dressed pretty nicely, older gentleman, went and sat at the table nearest the bar. At my club, these are usually the guys who don't always tip at the rack, but often get multiple private dances. I was ON IT. Had I only known how wrong I was about being a big spender!!! I chat him up for just a few minutes, he seems to like me, so I ask if he'd like a dance. He says, "Not right this minute." Okay", I reply, "I'm up next on stage, so I hope I see you up there!" Unfortunately he headed to the bar to get a refill on his drink during my set. So, I head back to his table (slow night) and ask if he's ready for that dance yet. No, he says. "What I really love is watching you spin around that pole!" Great, I figure he'll at least tip me on stage. Nope.
    After three sets with no tip from him (his eyes GLUED to the stage), I lost my temper and said "hey! thanks for the tip on that last set!" then walked away from him.
    And get this...he KEEPS coming in, at least twice a week! The other girls said that he has NEVER bought a dance or tipped their stage either! The bartender won't say anything to him because he buys drinks. During the day, dancers decide when we go up on stage. So, this guy comes in and we plant ourselves at the bar or with paying customers until he leaves. Sometimes he stays for an hour...just staring at me. Staring staring staring. When he leaves, he makes a point of interrupting my conversation to say goodbye, even though I have not even said hi/talked to him. What gives? How can we get rid of this guy? He drives me nuts!

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    Once at another club we had this guy start coming in for several days in a row, sit right at the stage, stare and stare and stare but would NEVER tip anyone. For hours he'd do this. He'd order his two beer minimum and nurse them FOREVER, and wouldn't even tip the waitress (who happened to be my friend) for his damn beer. Now of course the male staff wouldn't do a damn thing about this mutherfucker, because he bought his 2 drinks. This was when we'd just started opening earlier and hardly had any customers early in the shift - the guy would always come when we first opened so we couldn't just ignore him and deal with other guys. And the club had a rule that we HAD to do stage if there was even 1 dude in the place.

    After a few days we girls were all so sick of this asshole, we just wanted the fucker to GET THE FUCK OUT!!! I decided to take matters into my own hands. When it was my turn on stage I "accidentally" knocked his brand new beer on his lap when I brought my leg up doing a move. I made a big show of being really sorry while I was on stage and the bouncers were helping him clean himself up. Then when I got off stage I went right over to him as if I were going to apologize again, got in his ear and HISSED that if he didn't start tipping the girls I'd do it again, or worse. Then gave him the nastiest glare I could muster for good measure and walked away.

    He actually tipped a couple girls a whole dollar on stage after that, and we ALL clapped and hollered YAAAAYYY!! Then he left in a few minutes (before I went on stage HA) and didn't come back. hahahahaha!!!

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    ^^^ Damn thats a good one! *takes notes*. You never know when info like this can come in handy one day later on in my stripper career. Oh, B - the great!
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    NICE!!!! Bridgette. Too bad her guy sits at the damn bar though. Hmm maybe you could invite him to drink with you at a table--of COURSE he doesnn't have to buy a dance! Just come over I have to tell you a secret!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    After a few days we girls were all so sick of this asshole, we just wanted the fucker to GET THE FUCK OUT!!! I decided to take matters into my own hands. When it was my turn on stage I "accidentally" knocked his brand new beer on his lap when I brought my leg up doing a move. I made a big show of being really sorry while I was on stage and the bouncers were helping him clean himself up. Then when I got off stage I went right over to him as if I were going to apologize again, got in his ear and HISSED that if he didn't start tipping the girls I'd do it again, or worse. Then gave him the nastiest glare I could muster for good measure and walked away.

    He actually tipped a couple girls a whole dollar on stage after that, and we ALL clapped and hollered YAAAAYYY!! Then he left in a few minutes (before I went on stage HA) and didn't come back. hahahahaha!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alaska View Post
    NICE!!!! Bridgette. Too bad her guy sits at the damn bar though. Hmm maybe you could invite him to drink with you at a table--of COURSE he doesnn't have to buy a dance! Just come over I have to tell you a secret!!
    I thought she said he sat at a table near stage. No matter. You could do a variance of the drink thing. Walk by and accidentally knock his drink in his lap, make the apologetic show, then hiss threat in his ear. Better yet, call in some really big mean-looking guy friends when he's there, and do it then. Make sure the guy friends sit right next to him and stare him down all threatening-like as you're doing it, and then have them follow him out the door all threatening-like when he leaves. You might even motion toward your guy friends and say something like "my friends there don't like you". No threats from the boys, just really mean looks and following him out the door to make the point. hahaha

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    Bridgette, you so remind me of a girl i work with.. haaa.. she would have done the exact thing... Gosh, some people are just so clueless when it comes to SC etiquette.... U do not come into a club to sit and gawk... u come to buy dances, tip girls, and buy drinks..... i can understand if someone has a budget that they are trying to stick with, but this guy is just plain pathetic.....

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    OH, and aren't those always the kind of customers that complain that there are hardly any girls working. Yeah, asshole, if the dancers can't earn a living, then they HAVE TO go work somewhere else!

    Blaaaaah!

    Part of the problem is that Portland has so many tittie bars that this just might be the closest watering hole to this guy's home. He might not even be there to watch the dancers. If there was a big screen TV playing sports, he might just sit and stare at that if there were no dancers.

    Does your club charge a cover? That might weed out the guys just looking for a beer after work.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    OH, and aren't those always the kind of customers that complain that there are hardly any girls working. Yeah, asshole, if the dancers can't earn a living, then they HAVE TO go work somewhere else!

    Blaaaaah!

    Part of the problem is that Portland has so many tittie bars that this just might be the closest watering hole to this guy's home. He might not even be there to watch the dancers. If there was a big screen TV playing sports, he might just sit and stare at that if there were no dancers.

    Does your club charge a cover? That might weed out the guys just looking for a beer after work.
    That's another thing. I remember when I initially talked to him, he mentioned the neighboorhood he lived in, and it's a bit far from the club! We always have a game or movie showing, but he will literally just stare at ME! Grrrr...
    I really like the "oops" spilling a beer trick. I think I'll be using some variation of it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Once at another club we had this guy start coming in for several days in a row, sit right at the stage, stare and stare and stare but would NEVER tip anyone. For hours he'd do this. He'd order his two beer minimum and nurse them FOREVER, and wouldn't even tip the waitress (who happened to be my friend) for his damn beer. Now of course the male staff wouldn't do a damn thing about this mutherfucker, because he bought his 2 drinks. This was when we'd just started opening earlier and hardly had any customers early in the shift - the guy would always come when we first opened so we couldn't just ignore him and deal with other guys. And the club had a rule that we HAD to do stage if there was even 1 dude in the place.

    After a few days we girls were all so sick of this asshole, we just wanted the fucker to GET THE FUCK OUT!!! I decided to take matters into my own hands. When it was my turn on stage I "accidentally" knocked his brand new beer on his lap when I brought my leg up doing a move. I made a big show of being really sorry while I was on stage and the bouncers were helping him clean himself up. Then when I got off stage I went right over to him as if I were going to apologize again, got in his ear and HISSED that if he didn't start tipping the girls I'd do it again, or worse. Then gave him the nastiest glare I could muster for good measure and walked away.

    He actually tipped a couple girls a whole dollar on stage after that, and we ALL clapped and hollered YAAAAYYY!! Then he left in a few minutes (before I went on stage HA) and didn't come back. hahahahaha!!!
    Hee hee hee!!! I don't know why, I think this is hilarious!!! You are a funny girl Brig!!!

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    B, you make me smile. Every fuggin time.

    I have done a few things similar to the beer deal....it gets the point across real fast huh?!




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    [QUOTE=Bridgette;988068] I decided to take matters into my own hands. When it was my turn on stage I "accidentally" knocked his brand new beer on his lap when I brought my leg up doing a move. I made a big show of being really sorry while I was on stage and the bouncers were helping him clean himself up. Then when I got off stage I went right over to him as if I were going to apologize again, got in his ear and HISSED that if he didn't start tipping the girls I'd do it again, or worse. Then gave him the nastiest glare I could muster for good measure and walked away.
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    HAHAHA!!!!!! I LOVE that!!!!! Did he ever come back?

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    I used to work in a club that had these tacky fake trees scattered around the bar. When there was someone sitting at the bar or at a table close to the stage who was seriously watching the stage and not tipping, we would take the trees and line them up directly in front of the cheap asshole so they couldn't see the stage. And then we would laugh and laugh as they got more and more pissed about it. Usually they would eventually stand up, kick one of the trees over, call us cunts or whores or whatever, and then storm out the door. Which only made us laugh more.

    Now I work at a different club and we're not really allowed to be rude to the customers, but I do it anyway. I usually start off nicely, and make a general announcement like "Welcome to [club]! Dancers work for tips only, so please tip if you're watching the show!" and obviously that's best for when there are multiple people watching and not tipping at once. Often that gets people to either tip, or stop staring at the stage so hard, but for the people who ignore me I'll sometimes go up to them after I get off stage and straight up ask them for a dollar. People seem to have a hard time saying no to this! But if they do say no then I'll be bitchy and say whatever's on my mind, usually something about how they shouldn't be hanging out in strip clubs if they're such cheap assholes.

    Oh and I live in Oregon too, and for those who are from somewhere else and don't know, stage tips are a MAJOR part of our income here (at least in the clubs I work in), and customers are required to tip while sitting at the stage, and expected to tip if they're watching the stage, regardless of where they sit.

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    All you can really do is ignore him.

    He is a regular bar fly. We have a few of these at my club. Some of the girls will say hi or even sit down and chat with them. I won't! What the fuck for? They never tip anyone or get dances so I wouldn't waste my time being nice to them.

    So just ignore them. There is nothing else u can do. If he is spending at the bar the club won't give a shit whether he is spending on the dancers or not - sad but true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Once at another club we had this guy start coming in for several days in a row, sit right at the stage, stare and stare and stare but would NEVER tip anyone. For hours he'd do this. He'd order his two beer minimum and nurse them FOREVER, and wouldn't even tip the waitress
    I had one of these at one club I worked at but he would sit in a booth right by the stage. He'd alway come in during the day when it was slow, he NEVER tipped.

    One day I got tired of it so when I got off stage I pulled a chair up right to his booth, sat down and stared at him. After a couple of minutes he laughed and asked what I was doing. "Staring at you and not giving you any money, how does it feel?"

    He left not long after that.

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    Eh, I don't know why you have to be polite if you are an independant contractor....

    Just say something like "Please don't stare at me on stage if you don't like me", then he'll say he does like you and you can say "no, if you liked me, you wouldn't make me work for free"

    he should get it, and you were still "polite"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    Eh, I don't know why you have to be polite if you are an independant contractor....

    Just say something like "Please don't stare at me on stage if you don't like me", then he'll say he does like you and you can say "no, if you liked me, you wouldn't make me work for free"

    he should get it, and you were still "polite"
    i've wondered just how appropriate it is to be rude to customers. if you're too rude they won't come in (not that that matters to people who don't tip)....i'm polite to people--is that the wrong way to go sometimes?

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    i dunno, being a bitch has made me far more then it's lost me. and i don't waste time taking shit, ever!

    being too nice will lose you major cash though!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan-Va View Post
    I had one of these at one club I worked at but he would sit in a booth right by the stage. He'd alway come in during the day when it was slow, he NEVER tipped.

    One day I got tired of it so when I got off stage I pulled a chair up right to his booth, sat down and stared at him. After a couple of minutes he laughed and asked what I was doing. "Staring at you and not giving you any money, how does it feel?"

    He left not long after that.
    LOL!! Love it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    i dunno, being a bitch has made me far more then it's lost me. and i don't waste time taking shit, ever!

    being too nice will lose you major cash though!!!
    TRUE TRUE TRUE TRUE.

    I cannot emphasize how true this is for me. I used to be all sweet and accomdating like a little southern belle. Fuck that. I make WAY more as a crazy bitch.

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