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    I was just wondering if anyone else got a little offended when a guy doesn't get a boner during a lapdance?? It's happened a couple times, not too often, but when it does it makes me think "what's wrong with me?" I did a couple of dances for this guy last night and I was giving it my all and....nothing. Afterwards he even complimented me and told me "wow that was incredible." I wasn't convinced. So like I asked, does anyone else get just a little offended?

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    Ugh I do same situation happened to me .I feel like they should get one dammit if not I feel like I did something wrong expecially if I tried or something .Maybe they have such a small dick we dont feel it?

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    I don't care either way, as long as they're polite, respectful and paying me at the end.

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    I could give a damn. I might not even know if he did have one...I'm not going to, uh, check. I *do* want him to have a good time, but as long as he's giving me other signs that he's enjoying that dance -- leaning back, relaxing, smiling, closing his eyes -- then we're good.

    If it really worries you, though, you should probably just ask the guy. First, pat down his lap like you're looking for a missing set of keys. Then give him a shocked look and say "Dooood, how come you don't got no boner?" You get extra points if you say it loud enough for his friends to hear.

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    Guys are unpredictable. You never know what's going to turn them on.

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    Hahah thats funny ^^^^ I think I wont feel offended later on since im still kind of considered "new" I need that one year mark.

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    You know what's funny? Any time a guy has NOT gotten a boner I automatically have assumed he's got something wrong with him (too drunk, impotent, etc.). I guess I'm just egotistical enough to believe that it has absolutely nothing to me if he doesn't sport wood. I'm awesome, baby, his lack of boner is HIS issue.
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    Sometimes I just think hes not going to want anymore dances if I don't feel one. But sometimes they are on coke, or too drunk, or just have little ones you can't feel, dont let it get to you

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    Geez, poor guys...imagine after six or seven dances, quite a few boners...he'de have to be a little..I dunno...sore? So if he doesn't sport one by the time you get to him, it could jsut be that his little motor has run out of steam? heheheh.




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    haha...he probably has a tiny little itsy bitsy boner.

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    I dunno, I mean a guy can have an orgasm and ejaculate without having an erection so just because he isn't sporting wood doesn't mean he isn't enjoying it.

    I had an older guy I danced for for yeeeeears (he was in his 70's) who loved me and always joked about bringing me home. He couldn't get hard (your usual medical issues; blood pressure meds etc) but he sure as hell enjoyed the dances.

    So yeah, don't sweat it.



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    The boner is what kills repeat dances for me. I hate it. I've noticed guys seem hot & bothered when I try to ask for a 2nd or 3rd dance...They want to either "cool off" or want another girl while they're worked up (IMO.)

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    I guess it only bothered me because I had given him so many dances and still no reaction. I know sometimes I try too hard to cater to these guys, but hell I just want them leaving and knowing they enjoyed themselves (not tooooo much of course!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalligirl View Post
    Sometimes I just think hes not going to want anymore dances if I don't feel one. But sometimes they are on coke, or too drunk, or just have little ones you can't feel, dont let it get to you
    That's what I sometimes worry about. But they usually still get more. I think some guys really are just too drunk or have tiny ones!!!

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    Yah, I wouldn't take it personally, lol. I would rather have that than a guy poking me with his giant boner, that can be seen from space and probably also by everyone else in the club.
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    LOL I totally can relate to this! I always wonder if I was doing something wrong if they don't get a boner. But you ladies have definitely given some good (and funny) reasons why they might not.

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    I work in a club which is pretty much an air dance club but I will try to think about it as if I could tell - I have only noticed a few times by looking.

    If a guys pecker is in the wrong position he might be sitting there in pain which will kill an erection.

    He might have a medical problem.

    He might be drunk or intoxicated.

    Some guys will get erections more easily than others. I have met a few guys who find lapdances more relaxing than erotic.

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    Some guys may have Erectile Dysfunction. I went to a club recently with a friend of mine who has that and got a penile implant years ago. The thing is, if he doesn't "pump up" the implant, he won't get a boner. So after we had a few dances with this dancer, my guy friend remarked on the way out to me that he felt like he was insulting the dancer because he didn't/couldn't get a boner. Sometimes it's just more than meets they eye, you know?

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    I think some of them are really nervous when they get a lapdance too. Possibly even think it's rude and sit there worrying about what you'll think of their upbringing if they're poking you with their thing.

    LOL. I always used to wonder about that, too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    I don't care either way, as long as they're polite, respectful and paying me at the end.
    This is how I feel. I know I'm an old school dancer but it still really surprises me when dancers care about this. Money and minimal sleaze are way more important to me than boner approval.

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    I don't care either, and am usually not thinking about that while I am giving a dance. just pay me, and see ya!

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    The boner is the lap dance barometer for me. In grind clubs, you do notice it. Usually I just think the chemistry between us is off if they are not giving other signs of enjoying the dance. I KNOW I'm a good lap dancer because I do actually care if he enjoys himself (especially if he's a gentleman). I don't understand how you can sell something effectively if you don't believe in the product you're offering.
    I don't need to think about money the whole time either - I already know I have it so I might as well try to enjoy myself during the dance as well!

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    I know I'm in the minority of guys who has never gotten wood from a dance but I swear it's by choice. There's a mental component to arousal for me and I purposely don't allow myself to get into that mind set. On the few occasions a girl is able to stir something in me, my mind immediately switches to thoughts of injured puppies or the distribution of my favorite sports team's salary cap dollars until the feeling subsides. I would think the best way to show a girl I enjoyed a dance would be to follow that up with another (and another) as opposed to getting a full hard-on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    I don't care either way, as long as they're polite, respectful and paying me at the end.
    I was about to post the same thing. I actually prefer they didn't have a boner personally. If they are too turned on they (the customers) can sometimes get embarressed and thus not continue the dances.... or just not continue because it was so damn good.

    I want them to come back and/or go for a long length of time. Boners work against me (well for me anyway).


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