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    Angry Dirty Girl....FINALLY HAPPENED TO ME!

    I had a most pleasureable experience today.

    Today I had the pleasure of working with a new girl(and when I say new, I mean new to the club I work at. She's been dancing for 3 years)

    So let's just start with this... at the club I work at ... they are very strict. There is not touching of the customer, and the customer cannot touch you. No touching at any time. Well, the girl I was working with starts off the shift by playing with the customers loose belt flap..(pulling and tugging like she's jerking him off) and then rubs her nipples all over his face.

    Our bartenders are also our security...sooo...bartender goes over(after the custy has left) and politely says .... "I know you're new, but has anyone explained to you that you cannot touch the customers?"

    Her... "Yes, they told me that...but I needed to hold on to him to hold myself up."
    Him..."Ok, well from now on. I cannot have you touching them."
    Her..."Well I don't have another way to hold myself up."
    Him..."Ok, then you need to not do that trick because my boss told me he doesn't want any touching. Got it?"

    Her.... rolls her eyes. Stomps off.

    Ok...so this is the first hour of our shift together. Heh...

    So... (this all happened on a slow day shift btw) ...two customers walk in the door. She goes on stage... they tip her. One gentlman finishes his coffee and leaves. Leaving the one custy at the stage. Ok... my turn up. She asks the customer for a dance. The customer politey says no... then she says (as I am getting on stage) ..

    "Well, come keep me company. I'll buy you a beer." ... thus taking the only tipping customer away from the rack. Awesome.

    I understand that every customer likes and has opinions about diffrent dancers but seriously....... I'll buy you a beer?? WTF??

    Ok...so let's jump ahead to the next WELL TIPPING customer. She gets on stage...as she's leaving stage asks for a private dance. This man obliges.... now... our private dance area is small..and located right next to the stage. It has see through curtains and a few lights (really tiny) ... as I am on stage I happen to glance over and see her on top of the customer... facing away from him...knees positioned on his knees and he is basically fingering her.

    Let me say that I am a brand new dancer...(this is my fourth week) and seriously..all the girls I've met here so far are really nice and clean girls ...this club is VERY strict about their rules...sooo..I was completely shocked to see this.

    Oh and then to make things even better...after she finishes her dance she keeps the guy in the back with her... to tell him about her other job (works in a lingerie modeling shop) and starts giving him her number to her other job so he can come see her. So now officially I am off stage and have no chance of any tip from him(this is under the assumption he would have tipped me..but anyways) ..... this continued on my whole shift.

    I was completely frustrated. I walked out the door(after stage fee and tip out) with a whole whopping $15 in my pocket.

    She sold 5 private dances today. Meaning she left with over $100 in her pocket (which is AWESOME for a day shift where I work) .... And I saw her allow men to touch her (finger her) during three private shows. But, I'm guessing she was probably propositioning these men while she was on stage dancing.

    Seriously....this is my first truly frustrating day. I mean, it's bad enough when it's day shift and it's slow and you have a small amount of customers anyways... but to have them have to choose between clean and dirty? Most are taking dirty...obviously. I am so naive...I was watching her set at one point in the day(before I saw the touching in the private dance area) saying to myself ... (and this is me being catty and jealous that she's pulling in so many dances) .. "She's of average looks...and her routine is really, really sloppy...why are they buying dances??" (and more catty-ness) ..."Why does she keep singing loudly with the music?? It's not even the right words!!"

    Ok.... hehe...now I'm good and steamed.... did I also mention that when I got in (and I'm politely visiting with the bartender) she interupts me and says ... "I'm gonna dance to that CD with GS on it...and you can just dance to another one."

    What's so bad about that?? THEY WERE MY BURNED CDS THAT I BROUGHT TO DANCE TO.

    BLEH!! So frustrating!!!!!!!

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    she might be prostituting herself later to those customers who come see her at her modeling studio.

    id say tell on her ass! you dont want your club becoming high contact!

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    Tell me about it. That's all I gotta say. I have worked with a 'known' dirty dancer (she wasn't let customers finger herself... she was fingering herself in the shows and two separate dancers at separate times caught her out) at a club last year.

    The club knew about this dirty dancer yet did nothing about it. It was a commission/percentage club so naturally as long as the money was coming in and she was being discreet enough (she always chose the room where the cameras couldn't adequately see her fingering herself) they couldn't care less.

    So all the rest of us couldn't sell anything.

    She only "got hers" when there were actually dancers prettier than her (and I mean sort of pretty) at the club. Her income went down.


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    wow! thats tottaly not fair to you or to any of the other dancers at that place! maybe shes working there cuz she knows its a clean club.;.but plans to get MORE money by doing "extras" shesh! yah maybe u shud tell on her! or at least tell the bartenders jus to "keep an eye on her" so THEY can catch her in the act if they dont beileve u.

    plus, that was VERY rude for her to say she was gunna dance to YOUR burned cds - i mean what the fuck?!
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    What city do you work in?

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    I'm guessing Portland, Oregon based on her name. That totally sucks that she's stealing customers off the rack. At my club, that is frowned upon, and at many, its outright against the rules. You should find out if its against the rules to take a custy off the rack unless its for a private dance. I think she also may realize that you're a newer dancer and be taking advantage of you on purpose. You probably need to to it up and be a bit more bold with her, or she'll keep messing with you.

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    Since you're working in PDX (I assume) and also (I assume) at a small, mainly stage based club, definitely tell on her. Sounds like you're tight enough with the bartender and it's small enough that the bartender has pull. Or else tell the manger/owner. In Portland, especially in dance based clubs, that sort of behavior is very highly frowned upon... after all, we have lingere modelling shops so that girls at strip clubs don't do that, right?

    If you get in trouble/fired because you stood up for that, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS and go to one of the other very similar clubs in the area with day shifts. Good luck!

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    Wow! Is that girl a portland dancer? I danced in Portland- ok it was only for one night. It was a very clean club, like the one you describe. I got the feeling that the majority of the money you earn is from stage most of the time. How could she take a customer away from tipping? What is up with that? PDX is hard enough w/ the no contact thing, now dancers are buying customers drinks? You need to stand your ground. If the managers are anything like the managers at stars they will but her ass on the curb.

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    Yep, she is a prostitute hustling more custies...what you saw her do is kinda like the equivalent of FS at a high contact club I would say.

    Who buys a customer a beer? WTF?

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    So.....

    I really needed to vent last night and in my venting...I kinda left out that I did tell on her. That sounds bad, and seriously at first I didn't want to because I was afraid that I was going to come off as jealous... sort of like...I'm a new dancer and I'm wasn't doing well...so I was pouting or causing issues because She's more experienced..and just knows how to hustle...so um.. ok does that make sense??

    But, after getting on stage(my last set before I was off) and nobody is up at my rack...she's in the back...I see her talking to the custy, and getting her clothes back on and I hear here say, "you can touch it baby.." then see the custy extend his hand and do so...? It really just pissed me off. I finished my set...begrudgingly..heh...then went straight to the dressing room and ranted to one of the other dancers(that was going to be working with her later that evening) ... once again...I was pretty pissed and I believe I said something to the effect of "Well, good luck making any money tonight with her around. Because she's letting guys grope and touch her in the PD area." the other dancer was rather annoyed and shocked as I was... she said to tell Julia(the lady who books us) but I just went straight to the bartender.

    He was already on it though. He told me he couldn't see what she was doing, but it seemed very shady. He was also upset that (while I was in the dressing room) she was telling customers seated at the bar how they could get in contact with her at the lingerie shop. Sooo....him learning about the touching..and rubbing was not suprising. Heh...he told me he'd been trying to watch but the angle is hard to really get a good look.

    Then he apologized...and said that it wasn't fair to me or him...(him because he shouldn't have to worry about stuff like that on a shift) ... he also made a comment that he noticed she would really delay customers from going to the stage to tip.

    In the end ....he was going to call Julia...and was pretty sure she wouldn't be coming back for another shift(which coincidentally was scheduled for that night)

    Regarding the CD issue.... Yes, I was pissed and annoyed but...it was one of the cd's I don't dance to so I kinda thought.. "Fine. If she wants to be bitchy. I'll just let her dance to my seconds." But, one of my friends said she would knocked her out. Hehe...However, I'm not so violent.


    Sooo.... I don't really post a lot. But, I do quite often visit the forums and read quite a bit. I just figure you guys pretty much cover all of my questions so there isn't a need for my posting.

    I can't think of how many threads(rants) I've read here about girls preforming extras....and I'm always grossed out and disturbed by them... however...last night was just the first time I've gotten to experience how truly frustrating it is. And how completely unfair to everyone else.

    DOWN WITH THE EXTRAS GIRLS!!

    Hehe...

    Oh, even though this was already answered for me.... Yes, I dance in Portland. It's a small, small club. Was once a really pretty scuzzy place...which is why the new management is working soooo hard...to keep it clean and keep it that way. They've really put a lot of work into the place and so far the bartending staff and all of the girls I've met are nice girls. All of them like myself...fairly new to dancing. Honestly the most experienced girls there haven't been dancing longer than maybe 6-8months. But, so far none of them are jaded it seems...and I haven't ran into any drama or catfights. Hehe.. the dancers and bartending staff seems a unified front and it's kinda awesome... especially after all the stories I've heard.

    Unfortunately on the downside... it's really hard to break $100 on all buy night shifts. I'm a new dancer though..so I figure I've got dues to pay. Hehe..

    Thanks for everyones comments!!

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    Wow, she sounds like a real treat to put up with. ... what a skank!

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    Just keep your head up and keep your cool. I haven't seen igrls like that last very long. Either they get tired of the game or mess up really bad and are let go. Just keep a positive attitude and things should settle back into place. <-- hopefully, heh
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    I think it's fine to tell, as long as you are not making anything up, or inferring anything that could possibly (even if it is a remote possibility) be wrong. Like, if you're saying that a customer is fingering her, there had better not be any other possible explanation for what was going on there. I say because in addition to all the bad, nasty high contact I've done, I've also done suspicious looking non-extras. Like at a club where you weren't allowed to brush them (either the face or their body) with your breasts, I would put a hand over my breast and just lean in and that that brush against their face. So far as I'm concerned it is within the rules (there was no nipple contact, so...) - if I'm told not to do it, I'll stop, but I'd be ticked off if someone characterized it as rubbing my boobs on the guys face, and I would appreciate a personal heads up, like "what are you doing letting your boobs touch that guy" and given a chance to distinguish my behaviour before I was branded with a scarlet letter. But that is just me.
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    OMG I know how frustrating this is... I don't know if it's being in the 'good ol south' or what but it is incredibly difficult to find a non-high mileage club. I have worked at clubs throughout Tennessee and Alabama and guys MAKE you practically beg for a dollar tip. I work with about 15 other girls and myself and two others are the only ones who work clean. I'm not saying that these girls just let guys touch them inappropriately... i've seen them having sex right in the booth. IT MAKES A CLEAN DANCERS JOB SO DIFFICULT... if I have one more scumbag come to stage and get pissed off at me for not showing him my pussy for a damn dollar I am going to kick him in the face! In this area, it seems as though men have learned to hold their money as long as possible to see how far they can get the girl to go... and after awhile most of them will cave in and give the custy what he wants.
    Now, don't take this wrong... I've worked in nude clubs before... and have no problem with working nude if that's what is expected... but if it is topless club only... follow the damn rules girls. Why whore yourself out for a few extra bucks... get some class and learn how to perfect your art and compete on a level playing field... just my two cents.
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    Oh... and when you speak to management what do they say? Ofcourse there are things that go on that we don't really like... but you have to put up with it to keep business... that's just the way it works. You wouldn't believe how many times I've heard this excuse. And I have never seen a girl in any club I've worked at be fired for doing 'extras'.... management just turns their head.
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    do u work at hawthorne strip?

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    Report her to management. Tell them she's letting guys finger her and stealing them off the rack. She needs to be fired.

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    So I finally had a chance to speak with managment about the incident today. As velour said... they basically turned their head. And, yes as I said I'm a new dancer but I was shocked at the response I got from it(as was the bartender, we worked together again today) ... When I was hired on...I was told... "This is a completely no contact club. This way we can make sure the customers understand that touching you is absolutely against the rules. And, you're safer."

    THAT is EXACTLY as I was told. So when I discussed it today... all I got was.. "Well, normally we'd let her go but I'm really short on girls right now. So we're just gonna try and work it out for her. She's also used to a club where that is allowed so she just needs to learn the rules."

    That isn't WORD FOR WORD of what was said..but pretty much it. And..I DO love the person who books for us.. she's awesome..and a dancer herself. But, I was still shocked that she wasn't firing her. However.. on the plus side she said she'd make sure to not schedule us together. Because it's not fair to ME.

    Well...personally it's not fair for anyone but..... hopefully she'll just mess up big down the line and she'll be fired.


    And to Sun Child... I don't work at Hawthorne Strip..but I was considering going down and auditioning for maybe a spot at two shifts a week shift perhaps... I have a friend who dances there.

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    I'd find another club. She might get scolded for breaking the no contact rule, but believe me, shes NOT going to stop promoting her other work! Even if the management tells her not to, they can't bug her conversations, so whats to stop her? The more she promotes, the fewer customers theres going to be. For example, if she'll jerk a guy off for $50.00 and tells a customer that, then thats $50.00 that customer won't be spending on a good clean dance.

    I have no moral objections to what this girl does to make $$$, but for gods sakes. Chicks like that should learn some tact, to know to keep the two businesses two very separate things. But her behavior shows that she won't.

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    Stars doesn't put up with that shit and you would make more money. They will let you jut try it out one day. The manager is actually on here (SW) somewhere...

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    Go to another club. If they will let one girl they will let everyone. This place is about to turn into a shithole - I would get out NOW before it gets worse. Because it WILL get worse.

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    That girl would get her ass beat at my club.
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    Yeah, go to another club!!!! If they're going to tell everyone when they're hired there's no contact allowed whatsoever then they need to stick to that and not turn their head because they're short on girls! That's a cop out excuse to just not deal with it. It's not hard to get girls to work in a club, they just don't feel like dealing with it or maybe this whore is greasing a lot of the managers palms so since they're getting paid to turn the other way, they will. It happens a lot!!!! A bouncer, manager, whoever gets tipped a big amount either by the customer and/or the dancer to pretend nothings going on, it pisses me off!!!!

    Remember, either way this girl will pay for it sooner or later, it will come back to haunt her, Karma can be a real bitch!!!!

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    When it comes down to this situation, where one girl is providing extras, and management has no plans to fire them, you must either provide the same services she provides, or find another club. And for 100 dollars a day I sure as heck wouldn't be providing what she provides. I would tell management that if they're going to allow that behavior just because they're short on girls, then they'll continue to be short on girls cause you're quitting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday View Post
    That girl would get her ass beat at my club.
    I was thinking about the Vigilante stripper justice that seems to rule in most of the Oregon clubs, too!


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