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    So there is this girl I work with at another place. She got fired from one of the places I work at for cussing this chic out and causing drama basically. Shes super hot like barbie girl playboy type.

    Her current live in bf came into the modeling studio last night and I ended up doing a show with me because the other girl didn't want to. Money is money and will be happier in my pocket - eh. He ended up buying a pretty hot show from me and was pretty nice in general at that. He wasn't weird or even asked for sex.

    I don't think I want to tell her. She's kinda crazy. She's had restraining orders put on her because she threw a brick inside a bf's car once and keyed a different bf's car that totaled in at 3,000 worth of damage. We've worked together but we were never friends and I didn't not like her. It was neutral and someone to talk to as the day ticked by.

    I don't think I should tell her for a few reasons that she might flip out on her bf and ruin things. He makes good money and she doesn't like to work. Know what I mean? What do you guys think?
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    I wouldn't tell her. What goes on at my work doesn't come home with me. It's not your business what he does in their relationship. That's just how I would feel about it. She might think you were bragging or putting her down, and you DID do the job so it's a little late, right?
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    Don't tell her!!

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    some things are best left unsaid.... she sounds like the type to go psycho on you... she might key your car too... that would suck...

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    the only thing is, he might tell her. so you're kind of in a loose loose. if you tell her, you're screwed. If you don't tell her, he might. Then she'll think there's something you're hiding, or maybe she'll think something happened seeing that you didnt tell her..

    Ugh. Don't you love work drama
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    Quote Originally Posted by absolutbliss View Post
    the only thing is, he might tell her. so you're kind of in a loose loose. if you tell her, you're screwed. If you don't tell her, he might. Then she'll think there's something you're hiding, or maybe she'll think something happened seeing that you didnt tell her..

    Ugh. Don't you love work drama
    ewww. if if came up like that, i would just say " i didn't want to get in the middle of it, and i thought i was doing the right thing" but i know what your saying, its kinda a sticky situation anyway.... its not like you were having sex with the guy.. its all business anyways.

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    Why would you tell her? You know this girl is a loose cannon already do you really need to light the fuse? It will just make her mad, jealous, and insecure. Keep it to yourself, and act like it never happened.

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    If her current boyfriend is at all wise with her past behavior, he won't tell her unless he likes crazy behavior and car keying.

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    You said you and her were by no means friends, so you have no obligation to tell her anything. If he tells her, then its his nuts in the sling.

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    I wouldnt say anything... how awkward though!

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    Don't say a word. You "didn't recognize him."

    This is so not worth your time.

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    Don't tell her. If you didn't feel "guilty" enough to refuse doing a show for him, why feel "guilty" enough to tell her about it? HE bought the show - you did your job. End of story. I am quite sure this isn't the first or last time he pays a stripper for entertainment while being in a relationship with her.

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    Don't tell her. If he tells her and she says something to you, be like "oh that was your boyfriend?"



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    Ok good I was just wondering if I should because it's a chic thing but it happened in the club so its not a SC thing instead. I didn't do anything wrong; just did my job. We laughed, smiled and he left. Yea, I won't be telling her for sure now.

    He's been known to go to places like mine not on a regular basis but he knows of them and has been before. She knows this but doesn't think he goes anymore.
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    Default Re: Her bf saw me

    Madmaxine I agree, you "didn't recognize him" say you were really drunk or something.

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    Totally don't tell her. If she's that crazy, he probably won't either. If he DOES it's not like you work with her so you had the opportunity to either. He's probably gotten shows from other girls there before and this is the first you've heard about it.
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