My Hugger () finally caught me at work tonight. It's been about 3 months since I last saw him at the club. He has asked about me on nights I wasn't working, but never showed up while I was there.
I noticed him while I was dancing at another table. He, of course, had planted himself at the table directly behind me and was staring while I danced. Ugh. At first, I planned to make an attempt to avoid him, but by where he was sitting, I was trapped. I decided to just suck it up and tell him how I felt. I was really nice and said something like "It makes me uncomfortable to be held how you like, so if you want, I can find someone else who doesn't mind." He looked like he was going to cry and asked if something had happened and I told him again that being held just makes me uncomfortable. He then asked if he could have some dances, which of course I agreed to. He bought 6 of them. I also reassured him that it wasn't "him" that made me uncomfortable, that I just didn't feel okay being held.
It feels really good that I just told him how I felt and now I don't have to avoid him anymore.


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