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    Kaylinn
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    I got hired at Scores last week. I need to work there. Sapphrie is dead. Im not makign money. The money is at Scores. That is where i need to be. But Im afraid to go to a new club. I got comfortable where Im at, and scared to change. I don't even know what there is to be scared of. A club is a club. Lap dances, stage, VIp's, its all the same shit, just a different setting. So Why am I scared. I am hurting my money acting this way. I just keep going back to Sapphire, thinking, well, maybe tongiht it will change, maybe tongiht will be good. Sapphire is hurting more than my money, its hurting my confidance. I cant make money there, and its fucking with my head. I need to get out of there.
    I know I need to be at Scores. I know I will make money at Scores. Why am I sso scared?

    Tonight Im going to Scores. I cant put it off any longer. Im getting my nails done, I'll look hot as hell, perfect hair and makeup.... Im sure once I get there everythign will be fine.
    A change of scenery will do me good.
    Everything will be fine.
    I will make a lot of money.
    I am a very attractive girl. I shouldnt settle at a bad club cause of a silly fear. I can work anywhere I want to. ANy stripper worth her thong goes where the money is.

    Any confidance boosting tips for me? Anything to help me get over my fear of new clubs?

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    Go with a big smile sexy confidence and dont even pay attention to other girls. Go with one thing in mind, making big bucks!

    You can do it.. after you make the initial step of going into the club to work you will go through with it.

    Good luck!! Your hot so you'll clean house

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    Maybe remind yourself that you've got nothing to lose. What's the absolute worst that can happen? If for some reason Scores (or any other club you try) doesn't work out, you can always go back to your current club. Though I would bet something tangible that once you go to scores and get familiar with it, you'll laugh at yourself for even thinking of going back. But it can make things less scary to know that you've got your current club as a "safety net" and you've got nothing to lose.

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    just re-chanel your nervousness into confidence. let me know how it goes

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    ANy stripper worth her thong goes where the money is.
    Hehe. This is part of my mantra. Why settle for crap$ when you KNOW you can and should be making more at a better club? There is NOTHING to be afraid of!!! Get thy fine ass to Scores!!! That's an order!

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    Well..now that Ive been ordered, I guess I don't have a choice.
    I would hate to come on tomorrow and have to tell everyone I wimped out so here I go.....

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    it's easier to be a hot girl in a shitty club, because then it's easy to be the best.

    competition and a more upscale club is intimidating, as well as entering a new environment where you don't know anyone.

    after the first few nights, you'll be fine and will probably love the new environment! plus you'll make good money cuz you're new. you should be excited!
    hits from the boooong

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    I feel for you! I know how it is to feel anxious about change. I have mostly been working at my club since I've started dancing. I seem to do pretty consistantly there money wise..but I've been feeling so irritated with the clientel that has been coming in there..and bored with the whole atmosphere.

    I've tried other clubs suited in my comfort zone but the problem is the payout is so high at the other club and to be honest..I felt like the money was way less consistant. I feel kinda stuck because I am so bored with my club..but I know I can make some money there if I just give it my all...but at the same time I get kinda depressed with the same old same old and I feel like it is affecting my motivation negatively. It so annoying because I feel like I took a chance it didn't work out but I put alot of time, energy into being the best entertainer I can be and I feel like in a way I'm being sold short...oh well...it is a very slow time of the year right now but still...I want to try a change of atmosphere but at the same time...you have to stay where you make money..expecially when all the clubs are slow..it just feels really unfair...I feel so burnt out at my club..I still am ok with the job...just seeing the same dudes at the bar is enough to make me wanna vomit!

    I know you'll do well at Scores...just change your frame of mind towords the whole situation...look at it as an opportunity to meet new people, be in a new enviroment, be the "new" girl, just give it 100% and you will do well.

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    I hope you went. Trying a new club is super fucking hard! It is like starting a new job...there are a million reasons to stress, but once you are there, you are in your element...with a different decor.

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    I went, i saw, and I conquered.
    What was I so afraid of?
    How silly of me to be scared. This night was easy. Cant wait to go back tonight.

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    Kaylinn, I don't know if it helps, but when I opened this thread I thought "Kaylinn? Scared of a new club? Nawww.....she's too hot and confident to be scared of a new club!"

    Go get 'em!

    EDIT: See you went after all. Good job!

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    Good for you hon!

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    I get freaked out the first couple of nights at a new club, too, no matter what. But it's almost always worth it to jump in! Glad it went well for you, and hope you enjoy it there.

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    Corsica, thank you so much, you made my day
    I get serious anxiety over new clubs. I have no idea why either. I went from a small backwoods club in West Virginia with a maximum of 5 girls a night, to the largest club in the world. I moved from Pittsburgh PA to Las Vegas with only the suitcases I could fit on the plane. You'd think Id have no fear right?

    well, Since trying that club out went so well, I decided to keep going out of my comfort level and checking out another new club. Maybe I will just work somewhere different every day this week, and then decide which one I like best.
    I think this change of scenery is good for me, as well as stepping out of my comfort zone.

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    Told ya!!!

    I think it IS a good idea to get hired and bounce around between as many clubs as you can in LV. Money seems to float around so much and so inconsistently there, if you don't put all your eggs in one basket you should profit more.

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    ^ Very true!

    But also, I'd do a week at each club, not just one night. Over the course of a week a club can very a lot.

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    I think it IS a good idea to get hired and bounce around between as many clubs as you can in LV. Money seems to float around so much and so inconsistently there, if you don't put all your eggs in one basket you should profit more.
    That's completly true, and that is exactly the advice I give to anyone wanting to come to vegas, but I could never seem to follow my own advice.

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    Ugh, I'll be in Vegas next week and I feel super nervous about trying somewhere new. I just do not feel like going back to Rhino. I was actually gonna try Sapphire, but after reading this, maybe not. My favorite (and only) gown is in AZ, so I'd either have to get it sent to me or buy a new one before I try Scores. Just thinking about it is making me nervous!! Can you wear a catsuit-type outfit at Scores?

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