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    Can you ladies help me clear some "gossip" going round that in order to make $$$$ you have to do extras when you bring someone in for a private or VIP lap dance?

    Two female friends of mine are supportive of my soon-to-be nite job however, are under false impressions that that's what goes with the territory when you dance.

    Am I wrong to assume that as a general "rule," management doesn't PUSH you into prostitution and if you get involved in the drug scene well, then that's your own business...

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    Default Re: NJ Strip Clubs=Prostitution?

    There are a lot of mitigating circumstances, like what club, what region?

    No one "forces" you into giving extras, but there are clubs that it is next to impossible to earn a living as a clean dancer.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Your best bet in NJ is to try clubs that are gogo. Breathless in Rahway, Fantasies in Keyport... little to no extras going on there.

    However, from my experience in NJ majority of nude clubs have more extras going on, but if you keep it clean you can still make money!

    Although, soon the patrons will catch on and might not want to do VIP's with you if other girls are giving them more bang for there buck. Sad but true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalligirl View Post
    Your best bet in NJ is to try clubs that are gogo. Breathless in Rahway, Fantasies in Keyport... little to no extras going on there.

    However, from my experience in NJ majority of nude clubs have more extras going on, but if you keep it clean you can still make money!

    Although, soon the patrons will catch on and might not want to do VIP's with you if other girls are giving them more bang for there buck. Sad but true.
    i understood that can happen from pouring and pouring over this website...but i guess so long as you feel fine with yourself than anything goes, right?

    i'm going to start at a go-go bar in jersey. heartbreakers, bloomfield. and the most recent review i read on tuscl.com said that the place cleaned itself up. at one point in time, it was an "extras heaven" but maybe it's not anymore. have you been there? the other place i got hired was WET (formerly known as the red shingle) in belleville, nj. and according to tuscl.com they had to clean it up, too.

    whatever. it doesn't matter. the only way to know for sure is to just get up there and shake it, right?

    thank you ladies

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    Nope, never been to heartbreakers. However, if you don't like it, don't give up. There are sooooooo many go go places in New Jersey!

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    I worked in Jersey never did an extra and banked each night.
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    I worked in Jersey never did an extra and banked each night.
    thank you!
    this was the point i was trying to express to my lady friends.

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    I just wanted to ask, are you really coming from Queens? Is the reason u don't dance in Manhattan the same things yr worried about in NJ? Damn it must be a long way to travel, I hope everythings goes well for you sweetie and it's worth it. P.S. I drove up to Red Shingle in Belleville to talk to the guy, and from the outside it looked like such a shithole that I drove away. That neighborhood and the one Titillations is in is VERY working class, altho Titillations seems to be more well-known. But I just can't imagine any big spenders traveling there...have you worked there yet? Update please let us know!

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    I don't know, it's always seemed apparent (to me, anyway) that NJ gogo clubs, as a whole, have more extras and extrasdancers available than nude ones. Anyway, to answer your question- NO you definitely do NOT have to do extras to make money here, but YES you will be hounded by custies every shift to do them and it gets real old real fast...
    Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alaska View Post
    I just wanted to ask, are you really coming from Queens? Is the reason u don't dance in Manhattan the same things yr worried about in NJ? Damn it must be a long way to travel, I hope everythings goes well for you sweetie and it's worth it. P.S. I drove up to Red Shingle in Belleville to talk to the guy, and from the outside it looked like such a shithole that I drove away. That neighborhood and the one Titillations is in is VERY working class, altho Titillations seems to be more well-known. But I just can't imagine any big spenders traveling there...have you worked there yet? Update please let us know!
    yes. but the reason for my decision to work there is that my lucky stars have given me two very wonderful people willing to open up their homes on the weekend so that i may stay and work the weekend shifts. here's hoping that's what ends up being the case

    the red shingle looks like some neighborhood dive but, the inside was seriously very, very classy. and their menu was amazing. i'm going to start at the other place because of all the PRACTICAL reasons (even though at a glance, commuting from queens to jersey is TOTALLY impractical).

    i'm diving into this industry w/ a "baby steps. baby steps" mentality. so dancing at a go-go bar makes sense to me, then the next step...try out the other go go bar that actually has a stage that you're all alone on...then once i've gotten over the FEAR of actually groovin' for the boys...i have absolutely NO PROBLEM taking my clothes off.

    i'm not afraid of customers being perverts...but it may get old like sugartaste said. the clubs in queens were actually pretty cool. especially this one within walking distance from my place. like i said, baby steps

    p.s. thanks for the encouragement. xox

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    Why don't you tell her where you worked, Sophia?

    You can bank in NJ, but most clubs do have girls giving extras, ESPECIALLY the nude clubs. I prefer nude or topless, and in NJ most of the nude places were extremely divey and nasty!! And filled with whores.

    A lot of my female friends up north have the same stigma, and I don't blame them. The clubs are run horribly, look horrible, and horrible to work at! When my man came to visit me he goes "No wonder people in NJ think all strippers are dirty, the clubs look like whore houses". Thank god I'm moving back to the south!!

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    ^What Sophia said.
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    MOST nude clubs in N.J. are LOW MILEAGE = NO EXTRAS !
    The worst i.e "dirtiest" is probably the Playhouse. Stiletto and HOTT 22 have
    ZERO ! GGR is high on contact but very low on extras. Delilah's- Day= some extras;at Night= virtually NONE.

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    Eric, all the clubs you mentioned definately have extras going on in them-- from my personal experience, and from my male friends who have had gotten things very cheap!! The ONLY one that I cannot account for is hott 22.

    Stiletto Nanuet however, there was none. The mgmt. is very laid back and cool. Their office door is always open, and theres always girls chilling in there watching the cameras with them. I believe that is one of the best clubs in the tri-state to make money at (if you want to avoid the NYC situation)

    Does EVERY girl trick/extra? No. I have worked all over in FL, SC, NY, NJ and NJ by far is the worst state to work in, if you want to dance nude. Thats just me though!

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    Kalli- Extras that amount to PROSTITUTION ? Not at Hott 22- there's NO 2-waycontact. Not at Stiletto in Carlstadt. Not even in the VIP. There's contact at GGR. Quite a lot in fact but it's not a brothel. DD's Day-depends on the dancer. At night it's almost Puritanical.

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    <shrug> you say tomato, I say tamata.

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    Oh, and yes, extras that amount to prostitution. Blow jobs, hand jobs, FS sometimes. Especially at GGR and DD (even at night). But I don't want to turn this into an agrument. thats why I say tomato, etc etc. hey, i LIKE ggr, but it is what it is.

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    I have always heard good things from fellow dancers about GGR and DD so I am surprised to see someone here say that major extras go on there. Maybe I have just been retired too long and am out of the loop?

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    In my experience, A LOT of dancers prefer GGR over Delilahs. Every girl who I have met in the NJ cirquit who has worked at DD cannot stand it. Extras, coke head owner, unfair treatment. I only lasted 2 days there. The rampant extras that went on was unbelievable. The # of times I was propsitioned was unbelieveable.

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    Kalli- Number 1- I'm a regular at DD's and 2. KNOW a lot of the dancers there inside and OUTSIDE the club and 3. I know Nick. You obviously seem to have some sort of agenda against N.J. clubs in general and DD's in particular. Most N.J. clubs do NOT have extras as YOU define them. They just don't. Some do. GGR does NOT ! Contact yes. A little rub a dub dub- no doubt but fs, bj's and hj's ?No way. As I've said DD's Day shift is notoriously ahem "liberal" but it's strictly an individual thing and varies from dancer to dancer and depends on WHO the custie is. At night it's a different world. Much tamer and much stricter. Any girl that dances there will tell you that.
    As for Nick, he's a changed man. Why, I don't know, but for more than a year now he's mellowed out and is much less arbitrary and capricious. He no longer goes off over nothing and he's not even there as much as he used to be. Afaik he doesn't use drugs and btw, he's NOT the owner.

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    You may know a LOT of dancers, but you don't know them ALL.

    Even the dancers you KNOW, how do you know they don't give extras?

    As for the cokehead guy (I don't know if its Nick), I was warned by waitress who worked there:

    "Don't worry about him, he comes in here and may start screaming and cursing everybody off but just ignore him". Then one day I had to call out sick, and somebody cursed me out because of it, I decided this is not my cup of tea.

    Tabytha in the other thread "why nj sucks" also talked about how its over run w/ extras.

    And I work at a club now that has just as much friction as GGR if not more!! I KNOW what EXTRAS are. And, I'm sorry, hand jobs over the pants are given a LOT at GGR, I've seen it. Thats not grinding, its a hand job over the pants for 5 minutes. Paper thin nylon pants. And my friends that work there on a consistent basis, know girls who trick. <shrug> It really doesn't matter to me, I just KNOW ITS THERE, I don't deny it.

    I'm not making this up, I don't have anything against NJ clubs (nude) clubs except for what they are. However, never been to Hott 22 so can't say anything bad about it.

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    Kalli, I concur with you. If I were a newbie, I would tend to listen to veteran dancers rather than a regular customer who probably has his own agenda in that he doesn't want it to get around that his club of choice has extras and gets busted and the extras stop.

    Eric, could it be that you are just NOT being offered these extras or just don't associate with those that do? Or that these girls know you're a regular and don't want to lose their jobs because you are "in" with the owners?

    Don't you think that there is a shred of possibility here? You can't know everything and, as a customer, you more than likely don't...regular or not.

    I'm not trying to be mean here, but all of us can't be wrong. Extras are rampant in NJ, whether you know about it or not.

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    Eric, just wondering how regular is regular...you list yrself as living in NYC, isn't Perth Amboy just a little bit far???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tabytha View Post
    Kalli, I concur with you. If I were a newbie, I would tend to listen to veteran dancers rather than a regular customer who probably has his own agenda in that he doesn't want it to get around that his club of choice has extras and gets busted and the extras stop.

    Eric, could it be that you are just NOT being offered these extras or just don't associate with those that do? Or that these girls know you're a regular and don't want to lose their jobs because you are "in" with the owners?

    Don't you think that there is a shred of possibility here? You can't know everything and, as a customer, you more than likely don't...regular or not.

    I'm not trying to be mean here, but all of us can't be wrong. Extras are rampant in NJ, whether you know about it or not.

    You are right!! I was in NJ a couple weeks ago, and I watched more than one girl give out hj's in the lapdance rooms. It wasn't a fluke either, it was SOP. *I* was the bad person because my dances weren't good enough. Uh, last time I checked, giving out hj's was not part of my job. Extras happen on a regular basis, at least where I was at in NJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    You are right!! I was in NJ a couple weeks ago, and I watched more than one girl give out hj's in the lapdance rooms. It wasn't a fluke either, it was SOP. *I* was the bad person because my dances weren't good enough. Uh, last time I checked, giving out hj's was not part of my job. Extras happen on a regular basis, at least where I was at in NJ.
    Wow, I'm sorry to hear about your bad experience here.

    That's ridiculous that they would do that in front of a travelling feature. Or that management would allow it either.

    They must not care if they get future feature bookings. Most features that I've ever worked with were pretty straight edged about those things.

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