ok, so there's this one girl in the club, i've posted about her before, that insists on doing things just to get to me. for example, finding out what song i'm dancing to, and if she's on stage before i am dancing to it, moving my stuff from my place (that i've sat in for over a year, she's been working there for a monthish) at the mirror and sitting there herself, coming up to customers that i am sitting with (while i'm sitting with them!) and asking them if they'd like to ditch me and come sit with a "real woman" or trying to sell them a dance, talking crap to my regulars about me, and also getting a very good friend (our husbands are in the same Co in iraq) of mine fired from the club.
this last situation is the one that gets to me the most. we'll call my friend M, and the bitch S. S was going around telling EVERYONE that both myself and M were prostitutes blah blah blah same old story, we didn't really pay attention to her, as anyone in the club would know that it's not true she was telling one of M's regulars that M regularly has sex ON STAGE! lol. ridiculous. this is all just a bunch of crap, but the owner gets wind of it and thinks that M is just causing drama. first of all, M's husband (as well as mine) JUST left for iraq a month ago, and so it kinda hurts her that this girl is saying that she's cheating on her husband. 2nd-S is constantly calling M's house saying that she's a whore and that because she's married she has no right to be dancing and that she hopes that M dies and alot of kind of threatening stuff. so M goes to the owner about it all and the owner says that it's just stupid drama and to not let it get to her. and that M will get fired for starting drama before S will. WTF!?
so wed night, M is on our mini back stage doing a show, and there's a really grabby customer that had been trouble all night for all the dancers. so M asks the waitress to get a bouncer for her really discreetly. the waitress goes up to the closest bouncer and says that M needs him at back stage, the owner overhears and goes up to the bacstage and fires M. the owner says that M is once again causing problems and that S had told her (the owner) that M would do this.
ok, now S is just generally being a bitch to EVERYONE in the club, and the owner yells at M for causing drama? M never said anything to anyone, she was always the come in, make her money and leave type. not a top earner but she held her own. S on the other hand only makes money because she tells lies about other girls, she sells the SC drama! she will tell them, "i'll tell you a secret about THAT dancer if you get a dance" and some guys just feed off of it!
i have talked to the owner about this situation, i AM the top earner in my club, have worked there for over a year without problems and am fairly well liked by everyone except for this girl. but since this girl started working there the owner has gotten on my case. this girl is bringing the whole club down, and making work a hostile enviroment.
i honestly don't care if she dances to songs that i dance to, but to look and see what song i'm dancing to and then dance to it every time?? also to butt in on a convo to tell them that i'm not a "real woman" WITH ME SITTING THERE, and that no body likes me? it's fairly obvious to everyone in teh club, including customers, that i'm the best thing in that club, as is evidenced by my not having time to sit around and do nothing most nights because i'm running either to stage or to do private dances. i'm very rarely on the floor, and no i'm not an extras girl. she's not really messing with my money at all, but she is messing with other girls' money and starting to get some of the "good" girls fired for no reason.
so i can't go to the owner and tell her that it's S that is being the drama causing cunt, but i want to get rid of her. what to do??





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