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    ok, so there's this one girl in the club, i've posted about her before, that insists on doing things just to get to me. for example, finding out what song i'm dancing to, and if she's on stage before i am dancing to it, moving my stuff from my place (that i've sat in for over a year, she's been working there for a monthish) at the mirror and sitting there herself, coming up to customers that i am sitting with (while i'm sitting with them!) and asking them if they'd like to ditch me and come sit with a "real woman" or trying to sell them a dance, talking crap to my regulars about me, and also getting a very good friend (our husbands are in the same Co in iraq) of mine fired from the club.

    this last situation is the one that gets to me the most. we'll call my friend M, and the bitch S. S was going around telling EVERYONE that both myself and M were prostitutes blah blah blah same old story, we didn't really pay attention to her, as anyone in the club would know that it's not true she was telling one of M's regulars that M regularly has sex ON STAGE! lol. ridiculous. this is all just a bunch of crap, but the owner gets wind of it and thinks that M is just causing drama. first of all, M's husband (as well as mine) JUST left for iraq a month ago, and so it kinda hurts her that this girl is saying that she's cheating on her husband. 2nd-S is constantly calling M's house saying that she's a whore and that because she's married she has no right to be dancing and that she hopes that M dies and alot of kind of threatening stuff. so M goes to the owner about it all and the owner says that it's just stupid drama and to not let it get to her. and that M will get fired for starting drama before S will. WTF!?

    so wed night, M is on our mini back stage doing a show, and there's a really grabby customer that had been trouble all night for all the dancers. so M asks the waitress to get a bouncer for her really discreetly. the waitress goes up to the closest bouncer and says that M needs him at back stage, the owner overhears and goes up to the bacstage and fires M. the owner says that M is once again causing problems and that S had told her (the owner) that M would do this.

    ok, now S is just generally being a bitch to EVERYONE in the club, and the owner yells at M for causing drama? M never said anything to anyone, she was always the come in, make her money and leave type. not a top earner but she held her own. S on the other hand only makes money because she tells lies about other girls, she sells the SC drama! she will tell them, "i'll tell you a secret about THAT dancer if you get a dance" and some guys just feed off of it!

    i have talked to the owner about this situation, i AM the top earner in my club, have worked there for over a year without problems and am fairly well liked by everyone except for this girl. but since this girl started working there the owner has gotten on my case. this girl is bringing the whole club down, and making work a hostile enviroment.

    i honestly don't care if she dances to songs that i dance to, but to look and see what song i'm dancing to and then dance to it every time?? also to butt in on a convo to tell them that i'm not a "real woman" WITH ME SITTING THERE, and that no body likes me? it's fairly obvious to everyone in teh club, including customers, that i'm the best thing in that club, as is evidenced by my not having time to sit around and do nothing most nights because i'm running either to stage or to do private dances. i'm very rarely on the floor, and no i'm not an extras girl. she's not really messing with my money at all, but she is messing with other girls' money and starting to get some of the "good" girls fired for no reason.

    so i can't go to the owner and tell her that it's S that is being the drama causing cunt, but i want to get rid of her. what to do??
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    hit her where it hurts. she is obviously a very jealous, insecure little girl and maybe you should work out a way to rub her face in that fact that she will never amount to anything. she is obviously used to being abused and shat upon so she plays dirty to get her way because she has never learned how to rely on self confidence and obviously hates herself. its nasty to psychologically beat on someone like that, but what else can you do?
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    o yeah, i forgot to add, she's also known for her outrageous lies, so why would the owner believe her?? her story is that she's either 19 or 26 (she's told both to girls itc) and that she has a 12 year old son (that even her best friend and roommate hasn't seen) that lives with her. but wait, she also has a 4 year old daughter (that is invisible??) and she was born in san antonio, california, and detroit.
    damn, that's talent!

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    i would round up the girls who have a problem with her.. which sounds like it'd probably be quite a few if her behavior is really bad, and individually start complaining to management abiout random stuff.. give her a taste of her own medicine...and since you're the top earner, you probably have a lot of regulars, i would have them complain to management about this girls rude behavior...

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    S. is mentally ill. At this point where she is calling M.'s house and making threatening phone calls, you can go to the police and have her prosecuted, plus sued for damages from her actions.

    The sad part is even an *ahem* blanket party wouldn't fix S.'s wagon....She sounds as if she is mentally ill & nothing but medication will change that.

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    ^^^^Haha...WHAT IS YOUR MAJOR MALFUNCTION?!?!?!

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    Your best shot is to get the customers to complain..as many as possible. Don't have them mention you or M but just the bitch. have them threaten to take there business elswhere and tell other men not to go...whatever they say just the fact that they are complaining is enough. the owner isn't going to kick out paying customers for starting 'drama'. A possibility to consider is crazy bitch is fucking the owner and maybe that's why he is taking her side over sane top earning girls who have been there longer. If that is true then she will have a short shelf life anyway.

    That or the classic well placed foot in front of her walking path...oopsie
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    she couldn't possibly be fucking the owner... the owner is a 50 something year old korean lady. haha...

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    ^^^^Hey, old Korean ladies need love, too.

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    Oohhhh fuck this bitch!! You gotta stop her now before it really gets out of hand. She got your friend fired for no reason, is calling her house and threatening her and she is trying to fuck with your money??
    I'm a really nice and understanding person, but I don't take kindly to any of the above bullshit. When I'm provoked, I become an Evil Cunt (hence the avatar). I would make it my mission to squash her like the mosquito she is. Feel sorry for her or not, she's like the rat carrying the plague. Get rid of her! She will not stop and she will never feel remorse!

    Having your custys complain to the manager may or may not work to your advantage. In fact, it could work against you if the manager knows or suspects that these guys are all your regulars. She is obviously a little unjust in her thinking herself, so you might get fired for "causing drama" in that instance. She also may or may not listen to the customers either. For some reason, she has a strange bias towards "S" from what I've read. If you don't think you can cast her in a bad light to the manager, she'll probably need to be dealt with more harshly. Use your judgement.

    I'm not suggesting that you do anything illegal, but it would be a real shame if she happened to piss off the wrong person one day. That person is liable to throw her outfits and shoes into the garbage, or dump a glass of urine/open container of spoiled maggoty seafood into her work bag. Perhaps that person who was wronged might even put sugar in her gas tank or itching powder in her g-strings....and wouldn't it totally suck for her if someone decided to send a whole lot of awful custys her way explaining how she gives sloppy and cheap BJs?

    Good luck!

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    why don't you just ugnore her.Don't let this petty stuff affect you. Focus on your job and you and that's it.Don't retaliate to her if she does crazy stuff....just don't give this any thought or energy...........honestly why are you entertaining those thoughts? she is winning here when you dwell and react to her negativity.......it's up to you the out come of this situation....don't keep feeding into it cause it keeps growing.

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    angel, i totally agree with you that i SHOULD be able to ignore her and eventually the bitch will stop. but that is what my friend did, and she got fired. M tried the whole "killing it with kindness" thing, and is even on the DR videos being nice to her. but still got fired for 'causing drama.'
    i've thought about retaliating, alexxa, but as i just mentioned we have cameras in the DR, hallways, and VIP. not outside though... i hadn't thought about her car, i'm not sure if she has one, though.
    i've had a few customers complain about her, but i dont think that it is helping anything. a few of my regulars are very big spenders (about a grand each week, not just to me, but to the club as well) and she repeatedly harasses them, even after they ask her to leave them alone. they complained, but i don't think that anything came of it.

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    Isn't there another club in town?

    You and all the other girls being harassed go to the owner together and tell her it's either that girl or you, and that your high spending regular customers will be following you.

    Then do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blayze View Post
    angel, i totally agree with you that i SHOULD be able to ignore her and eventually the bitch will stop. but that is what my friend did, and she got fired. M tried the whole "killing it with kindness" thing, and is even on the DR videos being nice to her. but still got fired for 'causing drama.'
    i've thought about retaliating, alexxa, but as i just mentioned we have cameras in the DR, hallways, and VIP. not outside though... i hadn't thought about her car, i'm not sure if she has one, though.
    i've had a few customers complain about her, but i dont think that it is helping anything. a few of my regulars are very big spenders (about a grand each week, not just to me, but to the club as well) and she repeatedly harasses them, even after they ask her to leave them alone. they complained, but i don't think that anything came of it.
    Then it seems like your best option is to have those guys threaten the managment with taking their money elsewhere if something is not done about "S" harassing them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blayze View Post
    o yeah, i forgot to add, she's also known for her outrageous lies, so why would the owner believe her?? her story is that she's either 19 or 26 (she's told both to girls itc) and that she has a 12 year old son (that even her best friend and roommate hasn't seen) that lives with her. but wait, she also has a 4 year old daughter (that is invisible??) and she was born in san antonio, california, and detroit.
    damn, that's talent!
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