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    Angry "I can touch your boobs, right?" while hustling

    Last night was an absolute nightmare! Sure, some custies in the past had asked right up front what they could touch but last night just about every single customer I hustled asked the question. I responded with a vague, "just no inappropriate touching," to which the custy replied, "what does that mean?" Jeez, I really needed to spell it out for them, "no breast or crotch area." Then the dissapointed scumbag would say, "Oh, okay. I think I'll pass then."

    I even justified it by trying to blame it on the club: they don't allow that here, I'll lose my job, I've gotten into trouble before, blah, blah, blah...seriously every stripperweb excuse on the forum. Some of them even had the nerve to tell me that I was wrong and that they knew for a fact that the club doesn't care if there's touching. Most girls do allow custys to touch their boobs but I'm not okay with that and I feel like the custy will always try to push it a little further: biting, sucking, licking, etc. which I'm soooo not down for.

    It was easier in the past because the customer would just ask how much the dance was, I would get the money before starting the dance, and then explain the rules and it didn't matter whether or not they didn't like the no boob touching rule with me because I already had their money

    I'm really at a loss for ideas here ladies. Do I find some way to dodge the question before getting the money in hand or do I really have to just move on? And even then I'm really not sure how to just walk away

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    Default Re: "I can touch your boobs, right?" while hustling

    If most of the girls at this club allow it, you're gonna have to deal with it. Either find a club where the average contact is within your comfort zone or resign yourself to having to constantly explain to customers your limits. I wouldn't go work at a nude club and try to dance in a bikini and I wouldn't work at a contact one and try to keep customers from touching me -- it's better to find somewhere to work where you're comfortable.

    Even so, I have to say I'm surprised that they'll ask -- I mean, don't they already know what goes on in the club? That whole "what do I get" line of questioning almost always points to cheap and/or sex-seeking custies.

    oh, also, this should be moved to Hustle Hut.

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    I feel for ya sista. This too drives me nuts. I usually say somethig like " They are REALLY cracking down in here" or playfully add (as I take their hands off me and pin them up on the booth) "I don't want you to get kicked out of here, I want you to stay right here with me." If he keeps it up I tell him that if the behavior continues then I will have no choice but to stop the dance.
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    Default Re: "I can touch your boobs, right?" while hustling

    If you're afraid they might bite or lick, here's a trick - before you hit the floor, rub your nipples with either tobasco sauce or raw aloe vera juice (bottled from a health food store or staight from the plant). The tobasco sauce, well nuff said, and aloe vera is NASTY as hell! That'll teach em =^)
    And like sunshine said, get their money up front, and when they start getting frisky, just leave. What can they do then?

    On a broader note, it appears that clubs nationally are letting things slide. Look at this perspective - the economy sucks, therefore guys are looking for more bang for their buck. Girls who were used to getting money thrown @ them just for twirling around have realized that their money is cut substantially in half. this is a job where you feed on attention, and if girls are getting ignored and the only way to make up is to lower their standards, then there you go. unlike some of us "just dancers", you've got girls "dating", and not to mention the girls with habits. Do you think they really care that they gotta flash a little pusy here and have their tits grabbed to get what they need to support their habit? Then lets not mention the managers. They know this shits going on, but the way they see it, if the girls doing the xtras are keeping ppl coming in the club, then to hell with the good ones. Its all reversed. Back in the day (b4 I even hit the game), WOMEN had the power and the club didn't put up with any garbage. Hell, most clubs had 6 in rules, if you touched not only would the managers get you, the GIRLS were ready to pounce your ass! Now, the Customers seem to have the control, along with the xtra girls coming out on top. Stripping overall has hit a Nadir Time.

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    Default Re: "I can touch your boobs, right?" while hustling

    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    If most of the girls at this club allow it, you're gonna have to deal with it. Either find a club where the average contact is within your comfort zone or resign yourself to having to constantly explain to customers your limits. I wouldn't go work at a nude club and try to dance in a bikini and I wouldn't work at a contact one and try to keep customers from touching me -- it's better to find somewhere to work where you're comfortable.

    Even so, I have to say I'm surprised that they'll ask -- I mean, don't they already know what goes on in the club? That whole "what do I get" line of questioning almost always points to cheap and/or sex-seeking custies.
    Agreed with all that, especially the last line. I would try to find a different club.

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    Default Re: "I can touch your boobs, right?" while hustling

    Whilst that may be true for the US clubs because prostitution is not legal (or at least decriminialised) it isn't so true for Australia. When someone asks "what do I get" sometimes it is genuine question. Sometimes they play their game. Regardless, I give a short to the point answer depending on the club (whether touching is allowed or not).

    Touching Allowed: You will get to feel my soft soft skin and supple breasts and fine ass! :devil grin:

    Touch Not Allowed: Me on you and all over you. Running my hands over you body.... best for me to show you than describe it really.......


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    Whilst that may be true for the US clubs because prostitution is not legal (or at least decriminialised) it isn't so true for Australia. When someone asks "what do I get" sometimes it is genuine question. Sometimes they play their game. Regardless, I give a short to the point answer depending on the club (whether touching is allowed or not).

    Touching Allowed: You will get to feel my soft soft skin and supple breasts and fine ass! :devil grin:

    Touch Not Allowed: Me on you and all over you. Running my hands over you body.... best for me to show you than describe it really.......
    Wow. From what I've read on here about SC's in Australia...that's just one more thing to toss on the giant pile of "reasons I adore Australia and can't wait to study there." Seriously, I know no club (or country!) is perfect, but compared to most US clubs, Australian clubs sound like heaven. Picaresque+Melbourne+student visa+dancing over there==LOVE.

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    Default Re: "I can touch your boobs, right?" while hustling

    A line I used back when I worked at a no-contact club:

    Customer: Can I touch your breasts?

    Me: No, but I can. *doing so, with an evil grin*

    Sometimes it worked.

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    Usually when I'm hustling and talking up the champagne room, I'll say "During lap dances you have to put your hands above your head and you can't touch. In the champagne room you can touch." Alot of times the guys just leave it at that, thinking whatever they want to think. Then when we get into the room, I make the rules more clear "You can touch everywhere but between my legs, and you can't use your mouth at all." (or whatever) Usually if I say that sternly, they follow the rules. I agree that certain questions guys ask make it obvious they are looking for extras, and generally if I get that vibe I'll just cut the conversation off. Even if a guy like that is willing to spend money, it's just not worth it.

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    Thank you all for some really great ideas! I will definitely be using these lines tommorow night.

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    Ginnygirl, your name makes me laugh! My mother calls a vagina a ginny, so your name, in essence, is VaginaGirl

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    heh, last night some fat guy said to me:
    "Yo, i can touch your boobs right?"
    and my reply:
    "No, but you can touch your own man-boobs while i touch mine!"

    he didn't get the dance. i dont like guys who begin sentences with "yo" anyways. i don't respond well to "yo"! fucktards!

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    Quote Originally Posted by norcalgirl View Post
    Last night was an absolute nightmare! Sure, some custies in the past had asked right up front what they could touch but last night just about every single customer I hustled asked the question. I responded with a vague, "just no inappropriate touching," to which the custy replied, "what does that mean?" Jeez, I really needed to spell it out for them, "no breast or crotch area." Then the dissapointed scumbag would say, "Oh, okay. I think I'll pass then."

    I even justified it by trying to blame it on the club: they don't allow that here, I'll lose my job, I've gotten into trouble before, blah, blah, blah...seriously every stripperweb excuse on the forum. Some of them even had the nerve to tell me that I was wrong and that they knew for a fact that the club doesn't care if there's touching. Most girls do allow custys to touch their boobs but I'm not okay with that and I feel like the custy will always try to push it a little further: biting, sucking, licking, etc. which I'm soooo not down for.

    It was easier in the past because the customer would just ask how much the dance was, I would get the money before starting the dance, and then explain the rules and it didn't matter whether or not they didn't like the no boob touching rule with me because I already had their money

    I'm really at a loss for ideas here ladies. Do I find some way to dodge the question before getting the money in hand or do I really have to just move on? And even then I'm really not sure how to just walk away
    are you dancing in a nude club? try topless... they really can't touch your boobs there and you really would get in trouble and probably lose your job... in my state anyways (california) look into that, I just switched and topless is so much more restricting, you may like that better!

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    tell him that he can touch you when you can kick him in the groin 50 times and make him impotent (that is if he isn't already)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    heh, last night some fat guy said to me:
    "Yo, i can touch your boobs right?"
    and my reply:
    "No, but you can touch your own man-boobs while i touch mine!"

    he didn't get the dance. i dont like guys who begin sentences with "yo" anyways. i don't respond well to "yo"! fucktards!
    LMAO I can just imagine his face. What did he say after you said that?







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    I hardly ever have trouble with this, not sure why. I tell them upfront not to touch my breasts, crotch, or crack, and if they begin to get near those areas I dance defensively. If they go straight for the grab I stop the dance and make them pay for it anyway.
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