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    I have a few semi-regulars that come in to do VIPs with me. I say hi, go about my thing while they settle in. When I come back to "my" customer's table, another girl is there. Fine, I'll do another round on the room and return. The girl is still there.

    The question is: How do I get rid of her?

    More often than not, the customer will track me down and ask me to come over when I have a chance. I tell him that I am not allowed to sit with him until the other dancer leaves. He then says, "Make her leave."

    Lately, I've been doing the bitchy thing and swooping down on the table and running off to the VIP room with the customer. It's not helping my rep. But the other dancers don't have a clue. Seriously, if you've sat with a customer for 30+ minutes and he's bought 2 dances tops, you aren't going to get any more money from him. Move along.

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    When you approach the table say to the customer "Hey hun, sorry about that I'm back!" if the other girl doesn't take the hint just say "look he came into see me thanks for keeping him company but im going to spend some time with him now" thats the road I would take... or just sit and totally cut her out of convo they normally get the picture after a few min. either way there are going to be times when people feel as if you have stepped on their toes dont let it get to you.... Hes one of your customers and asked you to sit with him...Oh Well hehe :-P

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    Are you greeting the customer very familiarly in front of the other girl? I always go up and talk to the guy like I know him in front of the girl. Don't stay too long, but long enough to make her uncomfortable. Then make a point to say that I'll come back when he's available, look her in the eye just for a sec then back at him, then bid him goodbye. They usually leave pretty quickly after that Later on in the night, after you're done with the guy, you can explain to her that he comes in regularly to see you. I never apologize though, just explain it matter of factly.

    Girls need to learn not to sit so friggin long for no money. Morons



    Also, if the guy has already asked you to come over and she still won't leave, then it's perfectly cool for you to tell her he requested your company. Some girls are just stupid - who cares if they don't like it? I'd go right up, greet him warmly, then look at her as if she's an afterthought and say "sorry, he asked me to come over. he comes in to see me."


    If the guy has actually left his seat to track you down, and the girl is waiting for him, just say "ok walk me back to your table" and go with him OR "hey we can sit over here" and pick another spot. Hopefully he isn't married to a certain table You could also try telling him "ya know we can always just go straight to VIP and forget this whole mess" - motioning dismissedly at the other girl waiting pathetically

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    another good way is to leave your drink with you regular! now this can only be done

    (a) if you know he will not spike your drink
    (b) if u dont know this 100% dont actually drink it

    it can be done with alcohol or non alcoholic drinks, it doesnt matter.

    so when u go on stage or whatever, ask him to mind your drink, when u get back u thank him pick up your drink and the other dancer will soon realise whats going on.

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    Now keep in mind, some of these girls are noobs and don't know any better.

    Some are "anchors" and will sit with one guy all night, even for $40 bucks, because they can't/won't hustle. I have no problem getting rid of them.

    But ultimately its the custy's responsiblity to kick out the other girl. That being said, you can always train your cust!

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    One more thing. I won't wait to greet the guy if another girl is there - no doing another round first. I just go right up right then, when *I'm* ready. The quicker you drop the not-so-subtle hints, the better

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    Ehhh. I hate this situation, I feel like a bitch doing the things sugguested, but I do it anyways. Bottom line, the longer you wait for her to leave, the less time ou'll have with your custy in vip!!! So, go, get your $$$$!!!!!!!

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    Thanks, ladies, for your responses. I've been called a "VIP stealer" and been feeling like I've been doing something wrong by taking charge of my own regulars.

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    "Hi there! I'm so sorry I kept you waiting for me. Thanks for keeping him company, (other dancer). So you ready for me now?"

    Who gives a crap what the other dancers say about you? You aren't stealing shit, the customer pays you of his own free will!

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrayStripper View Post
    Thanks, ladies, for your responses. I've been called a "VIP stealer" and been feeling like I've been doing something wrong by taking charge of my own regulars.
    well, we're a bunch of cold-hearted, money-grubbers, so of course we're going to side with you here.

    I try not to be obnoxious about it because it can bite you in the ass, but at the same time, she's probably sitting there knowing full well that he wants you and hoping to steal him away. She's not exactly playing nice either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    One more thing. I won't wait to greet the guy if another girl is there - no doing another round first. I just go right up right then, when *I'm* ready. The quicker you drop the not-so-subtle hints, the better
    See, I need to learn to be better at that. I'm always the polite stripper *sigh* I want to get some nerve and just approach a guy who I know will want a dance from me, and politely tell the girl to step aside. Maybe I'll try this tonight.







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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    "Hi there! I'm so sorry I kept you waiting for me. Thanks for keeping him company, (other dancer). So you ready for me now?"
    This right here is the ticket. The dancers at my club have a habit of saying this to polite tell the girl sitting with him to hit the road. Any decent girl will take the hint and say, "Alrighty. You two have fun! <wink>" Dumb and/or conniving bitches may stay, but fuck 'em.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    I try not to be obnoxious about it because it can bite you in the ass, but at the same time, she's probably sitting there knowing full well that he wants you and hoping to steal him away. She's not exactly playing nice either.
    Yep. Happens all the time, and then *she* gets the nerve to accuse *you* of being the cut-throat bitch

    Anyway, who gives a shit what these girls think? Worrying too much about that will just cost you money.

    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    See, I need to learn to be better at that. I'm always the polite stripper *sigh* I want to get some nerve and just approach a guy who I know will want a dance from me, and politely tell the girl to step aside. Maybe I'll try this tonight.
    We're not talking about just any ol' dude you *think* might want a dance from you - we're talking about *regulars*.

    I'm not saying to go up and interrupt when a girl is with just any dude you think might want you. I'm saying to do it when some other girl is with a *regular* of yours. Big difference. If you do that shit with just any dude you think might want a dance from you, then you are crossing the line and it will bite you in the ass eventually.

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    I think that you have to ask your regular to not let other girls sit down with him. Or ask him to wave you over when you walk by. Although you see him as a regular, he is just another customer to other dancers, and they are free to hustle him as they wish if no one is sitting with him. It's up to him who he sits with and who he spends his money on.

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    I agree with what everyone has said so far. One thing I'd like to add to this that I've noticed is customers many times are cowards when it comes to telling a dancer they don't want her there. They'll sit there, talk with her, even sometimes pretend to lead her on when the whole time they want to get rid of her. I can't tell you how many times a customer has said to me "Can't you get rid of her so we can hang out?" Depending on the situation, sometimes I've said something and sometimes I haven't, it depends on the situation. I have explained to customers that a dancer would rather them tell her right then and there that they're not interested instead of trying to be "polite" to her. So to give her the benefit of the doubt, it's possible he's whispering sweet nothings in her ear, saying he'll go to VIP with her, or spent x amount of money on her when he's got full intention of spending it all on you. It's happened to me before, I've been with customers who I thought for sure we were going to VIP and come to find out, they wanted someone else. I think the best way to handle it is by approaching him and saying what everyone has already suggested.

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    If its your customer screw the other girl. Just sit down and if you can sit between them sit where you can block her.
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    As encouragement to ya'll that are hesitant to reclaim your guys (I'm one coincidentally), be aware that sometimes honest mistakes happen and the girl won't get bent outta shape over it. E.g Last Sunday I came outta the CR and swept the main floor, moved in on a guy sitting alone and chatted a bit. Was just about to make my pitch when another dancer comes and sits too, saying something to the guy like 'that was such fun upstairs, be sure and come see me again soon, ect ect'. So I gathered that he was spoken for and on his way out, his girl must've just been on an ill-timed bathroom break when I moved in. I bowed out immediately and gracefully, no hard feelings.

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    if you know he's going to be there for awhile, and your club has a set line-up of girls (assuming that there are no more than 15 girls on that line-up), i would see when the specific girl sitting with him is going up on stage, and then move in. it's fair game.

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