So my BF has a normal 9-5 job. I could go in the clubs during the day and make crap money, but nights are much better. Whenever I want to work nights, he keeps saying you work too much blah blah blah. If I stay home all I do is watch TV while he's on his comp. Wouldn't I rather be making money because I'll be taking two weeks off soon and I want to make sure it's non stressful. It just pisses me off. His job seems to be deciding factor in my work, and I can't work days, I'd never make anything worth while. It pisses me off even more that I've been the sole provider for 5 months (he's been employed for almost 2 months). I always had stress whether or not I was going to make bills and it was all on me. I feel the same way now as well, I can't just chance a mind set. Also from my childhood I was constantly under stress about money (I worked from the age 6) and I talked to him about it last night and he said "you can't always use your past as an excuse". Um when was I? I'm telling why I need to go in on nights and why I can't do days. This is all just making me so upset. He's the type to point out everyones mistakes or faults but none of his known, which he has about 100 to 1 to me. Ugh sorry for the rant but it's really been bugging me. I could just not work like he says and not have money for the weeks off, and teach him a lesson, but I'd only be stressing myself out.



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And tell him which days you're scheduled, and that you're bored staying home watching tv when you're off. Make a date to go out to eat to something for your next day off. 

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