Results 1 to 17 of 17

Thread: MySpace is the debil

  1. #1
    Chicagoeditor
    Guest

    Default MySpace is the debil

    Do not go poking around looking up names of past girlfriends or, in this case, past crushes. Intelligent people--when did I stop being one of those?--know this.

    The good news? I only peeked for a minute--damn my eyes--before closing the windows and vowing never to return.

  2. #2
    God/dess Corgan's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Southeast Texas
    Posts
    4,735
    Thanks
    10
    Thanked 35 Times in 20 Posts
    My Mood
    Brooding

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    i likes it.

  3. #3
    God/dess Bella21's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2003
    Location
    SoCal
    Posts
    7,772
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 40 Times in 35 Posts

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    Yea um... I'm not going to report the... um... Yea, don't look up past crushes!

    Also... it's embarrasing how upset I get when the site is down...
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

  4. #4
    Featured Member X Evan X's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2006
    Location
    ATL
    Posts
    1,143
    Thanks
    26
    Thanked 18 Times in 13 Posts

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    How the heck can you look up past crushes or old friends? I've been on there since '05 and barely know what I'm doing haha

    -E
    hilarious signature

  5. #5
    God/dess Lysondra's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2005
    Location
    Another Country
    Posts
    18,664
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 148 Times in 100 Posts

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    The site just sucks overall... except for a basic function - which is finding old people you once knew. If it was better designed, had better servers...etc... until then I have a super basic page just for finding people.


    Look like a woman
    Think like a man
    Act like a lady
    Work like a dog

    - My Great Grandmother Bessie's Recipe for Success

  6. #6
    Tart
    Guest

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    I second do NOT go looking for your past ex's

    seeing photos of them smiling happily with the skags they chose to be with other than you...not a good time. sends you right into jilted ex lover mode.

    Okay maybe that was just me. But i learned my less years ago on that site doing that shit.

    I do like looking up girls I once new in Grade school to see that they are all fat and miserable with drunken factory working husbands.

    Makes my heart skip a beat.

  7. #7
    Chicagoeditor
    Guest

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    I second do NOT go looking for your past ex's

    seeing photos of them smiling happily with the skags they chose to be with other than you...not a good time. sends you right into jilted ex lover mode..
    Doh! I should have consulted with you before last night.

  8. #8
    God/dess
    Joined
    Jul 2005
    Posts
    4,704
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 8 Times in 8 Posts

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    I LOVE myspace, but I quit the stalking thing .. lol. I use the term 'stalking' loosely .. I was just curious!

  9. #9
    Veteran Member Hot2Trot's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2005
    Location
    On the Z-axis
    Posts
    627
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Lightbulb Re: MySpace is the debil

    ChicagoEditor, I went through something similar with MySpace .

    This caused me to begin to question the past and the general path my life had taken:

    "What if?"
    "What about?"
    "If only I had..."
    "If only he had..."

    Then I remeber that we broke up, why, how happy I was once I did, how happy I am at this point in my life now and that none of it would have been possible had we stayed together or even still known each other.

    How is anybody "supposed to be together" if they have broken up ? From my understanding, those who are meant to be, are. They don't wish and hope to be, they just are or aren't.

    I figured, he had his chance before I dumped him, he didn't rise to the occassion, and so I broke it.

    No sense in moving backwards ChicagoE - There are millions of women in this world and tons of them who are compatible to you, so nobody should have to compromise themselves in a relationship and nobody should settle for the fragments of a broken tainted memory.

    The memory is a rose-colored illusion; nothing more, nothing less. Had it been "so good," it wouldn't have ended.

    Plus, it really put things in perspective for me that I am way better off and will always be than said MySpacer is, and that I DIDN'T have to be sucked down into the path his life went, which was obviously not in the plan for my life.

    P.S. Every relationship is a learning experience leading you to the love of your life, ChicagoE. Continue doing what you truly love, and True Love will find you.


  10. #10
    Featured Member
    Joined
    Jun 2003
    Posts
    998
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 5 Times in 5 Posts

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    I posted on here awhile back when I outed my myspace stalker. I know it was childish, but she checked mine and my boyf's page numerous times daily for weeks. Nothing was changing, no new pics or blogs, etc... and she broke up with him 2 yrs ago.
    I'm having a problem now getting secretly pissed at girls who try to "get a foot in the door" with my new boyfriend. We joke about it, and it normally doesn't bother me. But when they say "if things with your gf don't work out" or "let me know when that gf of yours slips up"....ooh, I get so mad! I guess just because I'd never do that.....maybe in high school, but I doubt even then. These women are 35+.
    He usually comes up with a great reply, like "what kind of man would I be if I bolted at the first sign of a slip", but even then I'm like, babe, now their gonna want to steal you even more:p
    Whew, sorry bout the rant

  11. #11
    Banned LatinaRose's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2005
    Location
    Toronto 4 now...
    Posts
    4,876
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post

    I do like looking up girls I once new in Grade school to see that they are all fat and miserable with drunken factory working husbands.

    Makes my heart skip a beat.
    Yes this is fun. I look up old boys too, but it doesn't really bother me to see who they are with now. I'm willing to bet when they look at my page they feel a little sad tho.

  12. #12
    Veteran Member Danielle_'s Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2006
    Posts
    664
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    I totally agree.

  13. #13
    Chicagoeditor
    Guest

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    Damn. Someone I introduced to the ex gal pal (see OP) told me last night she's chatting with her via MySpace. "When was the last time you talked to her?" "Ummm, I don't talk to her...about 6 months" Awkward.

    Nor do I like the feeling, probably unfounded, that my friend is telling the ex friend anything about me.

    Should I mention to the current friend that I'd appreciate it if she left me out of her conversations with the ex one?

  14. #14
    Featured Member evan_essence's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2004
    Location
    Midwest USA
    Posts
    1,613
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 18 Times in 11 Posts

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    Quote Originally Posted by Chicagoeditor View Post
    Should I mention to the current friend that I'd appreciate it if she left me out of her conversations with the ex one?
    Hahaha. Yeah, right. Like that would do a fat lotta good. You can tell current friend to pretend in front of you that she never has those conversations.

    -Ev

  15. #15
    Chicagoeditor
    Guest

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence View Post
    Hahaha. Yeah, right. Like that would do a fat lotta good. You can tell current friend to pretend in front of you that she never has those conversations.

    -Ev
    Yeah, that's what I thought.

  16. #16
    Veteran Member Hot2Trot's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2005
    Location
    On the Z-axis
    Posts
    627
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Re: MySpace is the debil

    Quote Originally Posted by Chicagoeditor View Post
    Damn. Someone I introduced to the ex gal pal (see OP) told me last night she's chatting with her via MySpace. "When was the last time you talked to her?" "Ummm, I don't talk to her...about 6 months" Awkward.

    Nor do I like the feeling, probably unfounded, that my friend is telling the ex friend anything about me.

    Should I mention to the current friend that I'd appreciate it if she left me out of her conversations with the ex one?


    Chicagoeditor, I can't speak for the terms on which the relationship ended, but in either case, it sounds to me like you have found yourself in a nefarious, yet convenient, position ("Hee hee hee" while trying to contain chuckle)...

    One which affords you the opportunity to subtly "insert" information that benefits your intentions in casual conversation with your friend, then observe for signs indicating whether or not she relayed this information (which benefits you) to the said third party ("Hee hee hee" while wringing hands)...

    Also, it gives you an opportunity to find out how "trustworthy" of a friend your friend really is. It is my belief that you wouldn't need to tell a real friend not to say anything in the first place because a true friend should know that it is inappropraite to betray your confidences, you know what I mean?

    Whether it's reconciliation or closure,

    If you plant it, it will grow;

    Mwuahahahaha! LoL.

    P.S. I am learning about p s y tac tic s so you'll understand my mindframe .

    Not to be a bad influence, I don't want to tell you what to DO, but think about IT;

    !

    .

  17. #17
    Veteran Member datchapin's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2006
    Location
    H-town
    Posts
    260
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re: MySpace is the debil

    Quote Originally Posted by Hot2Trot View Post
    I figured, he had his chance before I dumped him, he didn't rise to the occassion, and so I broke it.

    The more I see, the less I know, the more I like to let it go! - RHCP

Similar Threads

  1. new myspace
    By GYMGIRLYGAL25 in forum Coming Out
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 06-04-2008, 04:52 PM
  2. Saw this on myspace
    By beauty21queen in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 05-09-2008, 09:10 AM
  3. New myspace!!
    By Kaylinn in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 19
    Last Post: 03-22-2008, 10:19 PM
  4. MySpace Help
    By Jenna78 in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 01-19-2007, 07:36 PM
  5. Myspace
    By LaceyLee in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 03-25-2006, 08:44 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •