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    Default Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    I don't know if anyone on here will admit that they regularly proposition dancers for sex, but I would really like to know: While some guys are genuinely looking for a prostitute, I get the feeling that asking me to blow you and/or come back to your hotel room is just banter for some of you guys. Own up -- you just like to see the expression on my face when you ask, right?

    (Just thinking about this after last night, when I danced for a guy who kept asking me to show him my pussy. I'd giggle and say no, and he'd look pleased and buy another dance. We went on like this for about an hour. I have the feeling that seeing me act shocked and say no was as big a thrill for him as seeing my cooter would have been.)

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    I don't proposition dancers or anything like that. But it is DEFINITELY best to err on the safe side and assume that they really do mean it. Especially when it's in regards to MEN and SEX.....

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    I think there is a good point made by this thread. I think some guys genuinely say it just to be rude and insulting - they are often the same ones who dont even have $20 for a dance let alone whatever the going rate is for sex with a prostitute.

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    I never say anything like that, but my guess is that if some guy is passing it off as banter, he's serious when he asks and just trying to pass it off as a joke after he gets turned down.

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    Take the body of guys that actually DO proposition dancers. Deduct those that don't use a computer. Deduct those who don't participate in Internet forums. Deduct those who haven't found stripperweb because they are bogged down in a.s.p.d. Deduct those who hide out on the blue side and never come "upstairs".
    Deduct those who aren't callous enough to admit to such behavior in front of dancers on THEIR forum.

    I figure you got one or two guys left. Now, let's see if they see this thread...

    -gen

    P.S. I don't do it. I've been tempted but what if she said, yes. I know it is nigh impossible but if it happened, I'd be stuck. I couldn't do it because Mrs. Gen would carve me like a butchered calf. (mmmm...veal.) I couldn't NOT do it, because it is the Holy Grail. I'd be stuck. So, best not to go there...plus, it would ruin my whole kiss-up "cool customer" image.
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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    Where I work I get asked that alot. Sometimes they are generally very curious as to what goes on in the back behind the lobby door. Other times they really think it (ie sex/suck n fuck) is going to happen.

    For me it depends on how they say it and if they are reaching for their wallet . I read the body language and tone of voice when they say it. Sometimes I just fuck with them when I'm bored. GCG I have used your line for sex (the 1 million dollars one) with a straight face. I LOVE the reaction!!

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    The General is, as usual, absolutely right. I'd be carved alive, and it wouldn't be veal. More like minced meat.

    But then my intention in going to the SC is not to get laid, but to have a safe erotic encounter. Otherwise I'd spend my money elsewhere.

    Which is not to say that I don't wish to see and haven't seen some of the dancers OTC. But it isn't for sex. It's for the thrill, the conversation, the companionship, and the acceptance. Not that I haven't thought about the possibility of sex. I am human, and I am a man, and I am alive and reasonably healthy. But I'm pretty clear what the consequences would be.

    And I'm clearly not in the other non-self-selecting populations that the General mentioned in his reply.

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    I'm actually pretty shy. I'd be embarassed to ask a dancer for sex. In fact, I've had a few proposition me and I was too embarassed to take them up on it. I must admit, one of my ATFs escorts on the side and I have spent a couple very enjoyable evenings with her but only after I had known her for 4 or 5 months and spent quite a bit of time with her at the club. I'm sure the girls get propositioned all the time and are probably tired of hearing it. If you're looking for sex, find a hooker. Hell, there are legal brothels about an hour from Vgeas and it's probably cheaper than a night at the strip club,

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    What's kind of amusing is when after a few songs and the dancer has me all hot and bothered, something stupid just comes out of my mouth in the heat of the moment, ..."so how often do you gals get propositiioned?"....that would imply that I'd like how extensive the menu is, even though that wasn't my intention.

    I've seen more than a few gals get that "Criminey, here we go again" look of semi-disgust on their face, sometimes followed by relief when they realize that I was just an inquisitive, socially awkward idiot whose brain would like its blood back so he can speak cognitively again.
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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    Tell you a story - last night like 3 guys phrased as such
    "do you have sex?"
    which I, the first time, took as an actual (albeit confusing) question - like he was asking if I was a virgin, or something, and responded with "well, yes...of course I... oh! No! Definitely not!"
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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    It's the "if you throw enough BS at the wall something will stick" theory. Anyone with the balls to ask has the balls to ask often. I've never understood the logic of pissing off a girl that you are having a good time with by asking her for sex. My experience has been that the girls who offer OTC will figure out a way to let you know about it.
    Frankly, it's so damn easy to find paid sex with a beautiful woman I can't understand why these guys insist on the "trial and error" method.

    Of course, if these studs are looking for free sex that's a whole different but no less mostly futile thought process.
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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    C'mon guys! So many of you look at a stripclub as an institute of sex. It's not your fault you don't understand that most strippers don't fuck for money. Stupid mistake! I mean we're half naked rubbing on your dick, you'd assume we'd do more for more money right?? So just fess up!

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    What Yoda said. It's just not that difficult.
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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk View Post
    Sometimes I just fuck with them when I'm bored. GCG I have used your line for sex (the 1 million dollars one) with a straight face. I LOVE the reaction!!
    I've up-ed it. I now say to them with a straight face -- The cost is $11 million dollars and I need half of that up-front as a non-refundable deposit in cash. Hey, If I'm going to do it for money I might as well do it once and be able to live off the proceeds for the rest of my life *cheeky smile*

    I find that the guys who proposition for sex are either being rude, wanting a reaction of some sort or being genuine (rare). Some just confuse the whole stripper does NOT equal whore thing. *sigh*

    The internet isn't used as much here in Australia. People still just go by word-of-mouth and/or just wandering around as such.


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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    No I am not - but only proposition them if the vibes are right and I am seriously looking for some fun otc. Once that target is acquired I am not afraid to proposition them at all. Many times I have them proposition me to do it right there in the club (3 different Houston area clubs in the last 6 months). Consequently propositioning them can be a moot issue. I do believe a lot of escorts dance to recruit clients and not all dancers will see a customer otc.

    My advice to a customer - try to get to know the gal. Stay away from the prima donnas everyone wants. I usually pick out an average but attractive gal and walk up to her "Hi, I am Parker, saw you across the room, you look really fine in that outfit - if your available can I get some dances from you?" Once you get dances with her, see what she will let you do and take it from there....

    While on business in LA last week I had a great time at a club in Torrance. There was one girl I wanted to proposition but she seemed borderline as having OTC potential. I went there two nites - but just getting a feel for the place. It is a bikini club with $15 dances. One gal offered me 3 dances for $30 - I ended up doing about $200 worth of dances with her as she was a 21 yr old blonde cutie. Got to feel her up real good but got the impression your blowing in the wind to get her otc. I had some mgt bozo try to sell me on buying the VIP deal - one thing that sucks about this club is the VIP seating area (tables in red - you have to buy $100 bottle of champagne - rip off). Mgt also watches you like a hawk in the LD area - pisses me off (I got flagged for kissing a gal on the neck and feeling her tits - same guy who was trying to sell me the ripoff vip deal).

    Just stick to your gut instinct on propositioning a gal - the average gal usually has more potential - she's going to have a tough time competing with the big tittie blonde gals. What you don't want to do is piss the gal off or brag. I give them my business card with my stage name and phone. When they call me is when I will proposition them assuming I don't have enough on the otc roster. However if I have really good vibes with one I will proposition her right there in the club assuming I really want her.

    Finally, don't be afraid to ask her. The worst I have had happen is one walking away in a huff. The smarter ones will politely brush it off and then try to get more dances. I have a gal I see a lot itc I had propositioned in the past and we have a good friendship. She knows I see gals otc and I like the itc fun with her - lap dances, her blonde hair and size d big tits. When she had her boob job I was one of first guys to feel them and give my opinion. I learned more about fake tits from her than anyone as I had a lot of curiiosity like what do they feel like and do gals still get stimulation there. She loves for me to feel them too - its more $$$$ for her.
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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    I work in a club that is 75 % mexican custys... I get it ALL the time. It gets so old and is disrespectful... I bet half of them are illegal and just don't know better cuz that's how it is in meh-he- co

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    Quote Originally Posted by beautifulxxdisaster View Post
    I work in a club that is 75 % mexican custys... I get it ALL the time. It gets so old and is disrespectful... I bet half of them are illegal and just don't know better cuz that's how it is in meh-he- co
    I hear the same thing from Brazilian dancers. In Brazil most of the clubs ar either whore houses or fronts for take-out joints. The Brazilian guys assume it's the same thing in the US. Most of the Brazilian dancers I know won't go near either Brazilian or Mexican guys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo View Post
    While some guys are genuinely looking for a prostitute, I get the feeling that asking me to blow you and/or come back to your hotel room is just banter for some of you guys. Own up -- you just like to see the expression on my face when you ask, right?

    Yep, you're on to them. As a matter of fact, the very first guy to ask a woman to dance around a pole dressed in only leather chaps and a cowboy hat, was, in fact, "just fucking" with her. Well, imagine his surprise. He never expected her to actually do it. Anyway, he immediately branded her a tramp, whore, and a slut and proceeded to visit her every Saturday night for the following 10 years.

    And, that explains the dichotomous relationship that the world has with strippers.
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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    I can not believe guys who would make a gal an offer $$$$ to meet otc and then not be serious; shows a total lack of respect for the girl.

    If I make a gal an offer, it is not serious banter. I am very picky who I make an offer to - the vibes really have to be right.
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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    There are DEFINITELY guys that do ask for the shock of it. I'm thinking of one guy at the very first club I've ever worked at that did this. He used to spend a LOT of money tipping the girls $50's on stage all night. He would proposition each one as she came over to thank him for the big tip, she'd get offended and storm away. I think he thought it was high comedy.

    So one day I said "Yes" to his offer. Here is how the conversation went:
    Cust: "So, do you want to make a lot of money, you know, later?"
    Me: "How much money? I like to make money."
    C: "How about $500 for sex?"
    Me: "Okay. Where do you want to meet?"
    C: "I'm wanting to get really crazy. Maybe some spanking and anal."
    Me: "Okay, what time and where do you want to meet?"
    C: Ponders for a moment, "Hmmm, maybe I can only afford $400 today. Is that still okay?"
    Me: Big grin, "Sure! that is still great money. When and where, Willis?"
    C: Trying to look disappointed, hands me another $50 and says "Well, I'm too drunk today. Maybe another time. Thanks."

    After that he tried his line on a couple of other girls. All of us started telling him yes after a while, just because it was so damn funny. (he was a regular of the bar. I would NOT have done this with a total stranger)

    I've actually gotten into the habit of saying yes to totally preposterous questions like that. When the cheap young guys come in I'll say yes to their offers of partying after in such a way that they know I'm not serious.

    C: Hey, wanna come to a party afterhours?
    Me: Okay.
    C: No, really.
    Me: Really? okay.
    C: For real?
    Me: Sure, I'll meet your there!
    C: But you don't know where it is.
    Me: Oh, I'm sure I'll find it.



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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    It's sad, but I get asked this at every club I am booked at. Some guys don't get that even though I do movies and magazines, I don't want to go 'have some fun' with them after work. About half of them are serious, the other half just want to see what I'll say. I normally giggle and tell them I can't do that, and then change the subject. If they keep pushing, I tell them it's a million bucks, paid upfront, and that normally shuts them up.

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    ^ You do realize that one of these days, in the right place, and under the right circumstances, you could find a taker at that price. It's very unlikely to be in an SC, of course.

    At least Demi Moore had Robert Redford. You could sure as hell do worse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post
    ^ You do realize that one of these days, in the right place, and under the right circumstances, you could find a taker at that price. It's very unlikely to be in an SC, of course.

    At least Demi Moore had Robert Redford. You could sure as hell do worse.
    Yeah, I know someday I may have to eat my words, but until then I like watching the faces guys make when I tell them it's a million bucks to sleep with me.

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    Default Re: Come on. You're just fucking with me, right?

    Can I just interject a sec with a really dumb question? I like the million dollar reply, but, if the guy askin happened to be a cop it would technically be your ass right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    I've actually gotten into the habit of saying yes to totally preposterous questions like that. When the cheap young guys come in I'll say yes to their offers of partying after in such a way that they know I'm not serious.
    I do this, too, on occasion -- agree immediately with a huge, over-enthusiastic grin. Works just as well as saying no.

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