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    I ask these questions to the women in you, not the dancer. I don't frequent SCs too often... I guess this is my place to try and figure out women's behavior.

    Tonight I went out with some friends and this girl kept grabbing my bicept. She kept cupping my arm. I've had guys and girls do this before, but I don't know why people do it. After a couple of times it was like she was checking me out with her hands or something. What was strange to me was the amount of times she did it. After awhile I was like, "woah, you keep grab'n me I'm going to have to charge you." She was really touchy feely. She did the same w/ my stomach too after I tucked in the front of my shirt and she like bent down and looked at my tummy.

    After awhile I got a little uncomfortable. lol I guess she was trying to flirt or something, but after awhile I found it strange or almost fake.

    ideas anyone... Bueller... anyone... anyone?

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    yeah, flirting....I do that subconsciously all the time because I'm so used to doing it at work. Makes guys feel studly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    yeah, flirting....I do that subconsciously all the time because I'm so used to doing it at work. Makes guys feel studly.
    I totally agree w/ Emily. Women know that stroking guys' egos is the real way to their hearts .. or wallet perhaps, lol.

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    Was this a stripper in a strip club doing this?

    I don't know, it's not something I would do outside of work, and most days not at work. Maybe you have a nice body and she was copping cheap feel.

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    Maybe she was rolling on E?

    I'd only do this to someone I was familiar with..I was raised with strict ideas about personal space.

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    Happens to me all the time, in the clubs and out of them.

    It will happen more frequently if the girl is trying to work you, which if you were in a stripclub is extremely likely.
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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine View Post
    Maybe she was rolling on E?
    Or drunk...

    Dude, did you get her number?
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    Maybe you're hot & she was horny.

    We used to do this promotion - Sailor Sundays - at this club I worked at in Chicago. (There's a Navy base about 45 min away.) I loved it!!! Getting paid to dance for muscular, adorable 20 year olds..... so much fun. I would be all over them, admiring & feeling their biceps & abs. Maybe cause I didn't have a boyfriend at the time & wasn't getting laid too often....

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    I have this habit of slapping people on the arms and chest when I speak to them. Sometimes I get to enthusiastic, a la Elaine from Seinfeld. But its not flirtining, as my brother recently got pissed off because I kept smacking his new tattoo while we talked.
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    Maybe she is a cannibal trying to figure out how long she would need to roast you for optimum tenderness?


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    dude. she was flirting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine View Post
    Maybe she was rolling on E?


    I thought about her being on drugs too...or maybe she was just drunk? But that's not to excuse the possibility that she thought you were hot! Or wanted to stroke your ego. Some dancers get close to a customer to show they are not afraid to be close to them during a dance or VIP.
    I will personally touch a guy's shoulder, knee or arm to close a gap of sorts, to show that I wouldn't mind touching him more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    I have this habit of slapping people on the arms and chest when I speak to them. Sometimes I get to enthusiastic, a la Elaine from Seinfeld. But its not flirtining, as my brother recently got pissed off because I kept smacking his new tattoo while we talked.
    haha i kept doing that to this guy and kept forgetting he had a new tattoo.. oops.

    i feel guys arms a lot, though, i always ask them to make a muscle for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    I have this habit of slapping people on the arms and chest when I speak to them. Sometimes I get to enthusiastic, a la Elaine from Seinfeld. But its not flirtining, as my brother recently got pissed off because I kept smacking his new tattoo while we talked.
    GET OUT!!!
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    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
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    haha i guess i left an important piece of info out. she is not a stripper and it was not at the SC. I did equate it with stripper behavior though. lol. thats why i thought it was wierd and had a feeling it was fake.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    I totally agree w/ Emily. Women know that stroking guys' egos is the real way to their hearts .. or wallet perhaps, lol.
    haha exactly what i was thinking about...I'm not a social moron.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post

    Dude, did you get her number?
    She has mine. We kissed that night. I still have an overwelhming feeling she is a female player. lol. Thats cool an all, but fake people suck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    yeah, flirting....I do that subconsciously all the time because I'm so used to doing it at work. Makes guys feel studly.
    yea if it seems natural it does and incorporated into the exchange. What I'm talking about here was way over the top.

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    sounds flirty to me! i'm a touchy feely person..i've had to learn not to touch everyone though. i grab around my husbands bicep..it's so big and juicy and makes me feel secure in a way to reach under and hold it....that sounded naughty huh?? lolol





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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    I have this habit of slapping people on the arms and chest when I speak to them. Sometimes I get to enthusiastic, a la Elaine from Seinfeld. But its not flirtining, as my brother recently got pissed off because I kept smacking his new tattoo while we talked.
    I noticed that. I didn't think it was flirting, though--I thought you were teasing me about the 'hitting the bag' thing, lol...
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    Quote Originally Posted by sleepyboy View Post
    Tonight I went out with some friends and this girl kept grabbing my bicept. She kept cupping my arm. I've had guys and girls do this before, but I don't know why people do it.
    Okay, if I ever do that to you in a social setting divorced from strippering, just f**k me right there on the nearest hard surface. If you don't get the obviousness of that message, I can't help ya.

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    I wish it were so. Miss D has been attending the kung fu/kick boxing place for months. Her biceps feel really solid now. It comes up in conversation once in a while and when it does she always cocks her arm and makes me feel it. After my ooh ahhh exclamatory response she asks me to reciprocate and show her mine. I do of course and after a squeeze she says "Oh, you fucker (she talks that way) you've been working out too and didn't tell me". Since I haven't worked out since 1960, I assume some well intended SS.

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    I've come to a conclussion on this... I have seen this girl twice since this has happened. I saw her Thursday night. I went out with my good guy friend, his girlfriend, her friend, and this girl. I will give her the name Mary for privacy reasons. Mary is one of my good guy friends, friends. I met her through him.

    Anyways... We all went out as a group to a salsa club. The whole night the vibe was high energy and fun all night. I joked and entertained the two single girls most of the night, while dancing with them and a few other girls. At some point I could tell the friend of the GF started to take an interest in me. I didn't think much of it because I was pretty much out that night to have fun and just have a good time.

    At 2 we ended up going to an after hours latin club that played good music and sold drinks past the normal 2 A.M. The night continued the same everyone dancing with everyone, laughing, joking, and having fun. The GF's friend, after a night of laughing at all my jokes, started to become appealing to me (this is w/o alcohol, I do not drink). A good laugh and smile on someone who is genuinely laughing at my jokes really does allot for attraction. The attraction ended up escalating, and we ended up kissing/ making out.

    I think Mary might have seen this or us holding hands or her leaning into me with my arm around her, because she was visibly not having a good time after that. Girls are more perceptive with that kinda thing, so I'm pretty sure she knew what was going. Mary eventually gave the order for us to leave.

    Ok... here is my male observation of what I think the deal is. With girls I meet I am used to at some point being the attention getter. I'm used to girls sorta/kinda chasing me. Does that makes sense? At some point I feel like a girl kinda becomes "gooey" and lets her feelings out there.

    I feel like Mary is the type of girl that doesn't really let it out there when she likes a guy. I am the same way though... I don't usually let my intent be that visible until I am 100 on it. I think she is used to being chased, and for the most part I don't give myself up that easily. Who knows... O well. We will see what happens.

    P.S. I do like "Mary". She is cool as hell, and hot too! I changed my default pic on myspace so u guys get faces with the story. Just click the siggie.

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