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    Default Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    Can someone answer me that one please? I mean come on. I get customers all the time who tell me I'm to cute to be in a place like this, therefore they don't buy dances. Some ugly chick can walk over and they hop at the chance.

    I had a customer the other night who in conversation told me that he almost didn't buy a dance because he thought I was to confident. He told me I smile alot, hold my head up high, and just have "this look" Ok, so ummm when was this supposed to be a bad thing? You would not believe how many customers tell me I intimidate them. It's not by conversation because I'm a sweetheart, but it's through looks.

    It's like dam, you can't win for losing. If you're pretty walking around and smilin you look like your to good. If you're pretty and walking around w/o a smile on your face then people assume your a snob.







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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    I think those guys still have the normal club mentality of not approaching girls that are out of their league. Where in the magical world of the SC they can buy the hottest girl in the clubs time. But some guys don't realise that.

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    ^^I was just going to say that. Some guys don't realize they need to switch mentalities just like the dancer when your in the strip club. Hell, that should be part of the fun for guys in getting the hottest chick in the club to fawn all over you!

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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    I think that goes under "you can't win'em all." You just have to try to win as many as you can, right?
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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    Quote Originally Posted by pinkpvc View Post
    I think those guys still have the normal club mentality of not approaching girls that are out of their league. Where in the magical world of the SC they can buy the hottest girl in the clubs time. But some guys don't realise that.
    That's a good point.
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    If you're getting that consistently and frequently, you probably need to find a better club. That kind of shit seems to breed in some clubs more than others, and I do NOT do well in clubs where that attitude is prevalent.

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    ^^Not to much B, but it's happening enough for me to write a thread about it lol. I dunno, it's like I get alot of guys who check me out, look shy and look away. When I approach them they look even more shocked that I came around to talk/dance with them. Alot of them say, "I know you'd never go out with me" It's kinda like they want the most "normal" looking girls because maybe there is a possibility that the girl next door could date them. I dunno hell...

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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    It's so funny that you asked this cuz I was thinking the same fucking thing. Okay, I know I'm pretty cute. However there's this girl I work with who isn't really that cute at all. BUT she can talk. She could sell ice to a fucking eskimo. I, on the other hand only know how to talk all flirty. I'm not good at the conversational part of this job. Unfortunately, I work at a small club in Wisconsin and the expectation is that you sit with a customer and converse with him. I swear alot of the time you can me the hottest bitch in the place but if you can't hold a great conversation then you're SOL.

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    A hot girl with great convo skills can even be second to an ugly girl who barely speaks English. I've seen that way too many times. Customers are baffling at times *sigh*

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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    I agree w/ the guys don't want to approach the girls who are out of there league thing. Guys are weird sometimes.
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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    I guess I thought strip clubs were for those guys who felt that this was the only was the only way they could get a smokin hot chick to be all over them. Damn, if you want to talk call your mama!

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    Quote Originally Posted by vidadiva View Post
    A hot girl with great convo skills can even be second to an ugly girl who barely speaks English. I've seen that way too many times. Customers are baffling at times *sigh*
    Dude, I have great convo skills! I'm educated, and can carry a conversation longer than 5min ya know! Sheesh!







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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    Did you ever see that show "Sons and Daughters"? There's this line where one of the female characters says, "I'm pretty in Cincinnati. I'm not pretty in a general sense."

    Perhaps they like the chicks who are pretty in Cincinnati.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    Did you ever see that show "Sons and Daughters"? There's this line where one of the female characters says, "I'm pretty in Cincinnati. I'm not pretty in a general sense."

    Perhaps they like the chicks who are pretty in Cincinnati.
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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    Maybe you need to be at a different club. There's a thread in Customer conversation that relates to your question: "men prefer imperfections."

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    I'd rather be the hot dancer. More options. Those guys just don't want to pay you for a dance, or are broke.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo View Post
    Maybe you need to be at a different club. There's a thread in Customer conversation that relates to your question: "men prefer imperfections."
    I stole this quote from the ^^^ thread:
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    She is 100% right, at least for Australia anyway.

    I prefer looking at perfect 10 models on stage, but I would never get a VIP dance with one of them. I'd much prefer to get a private dance with someone I believe I could realisitcally get in real life. I especially hate the stereotypical perfect 10 model, the blonde, tall, long legs, big boobs, lots of make-up and really prissy type of chick.
    ^ This is exactly what customers have been telling me. Not that direct but hell I can figure it out.







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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    I think many guys will buy from the less attractive girl in the club thinking that she will provide extras to compensate for her lack of sex appeal as compared to the bettter looking dancers.

    Personally I feel it is in most dancers best interest to be more on the average or middle of the road as compared to the other dancers at any particular club rather than the hottest or the least attractive.

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    The guys like that just don't want to spend any money, and many will only spend money on girls they feel are available. In other words they want to feel they have a chance with you before they spend money. or they want to feel that you date or will give them sexual favors in a lap dance.

    Many guys like a high maintenance cover girl face type of dancer and will spend money on her, but most of them are well kept and sort of cosmopolitan themselves. And still those guys want to feel they have a chance with you socially as well.

    How many clean cut, older, stylish looking men have spent decent money on you in your dancing career and didn't want anyone else? It goes both ways.

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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    Heh--maybe they think that they themselves are not very attractive, and they will look less like PLs if they have the unattractive girl on their lap.

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    Default Re: Is it easier to be the Ugly Stripper or the Hot one? [mild rant]

    Quote Originally Posted by T-10 View Post
    I think many guys will buy from the less attractive girl in the club thinking that she will provide extras to compensate for her lack of sex appeal as compared to the better looking dancers.

    Personally I feel it is in most dancers best interest to be more on the average or middle of the road as compared to the other dancers at any particular club rather than the hottest or the least attractive.
    Ditto. They figure that the hot girl won't put out.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    If you're getting that consistently and frequently, you probably need to find a better club. That kind of shit seems to breed in some clubs more than others, and I do NOT do well in clubs where that attitude is prevalent.
    You took the words right out of my mouth. The gorgeous girls at my club do just fine, and the mid-range ones do ok too, but I would say that gorgeous wins this game when you are in the right club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vidadiva View Post
    A hot girl with great convo skills can even be second to an ugly girl who barely speaks English. I've seen that way too many times. Customers are baffling at times *sigh*
    thats me in my club. often second. to the point i jump up and smile wen i over hear a custy asking "are you English?" Im like, YES! I speak English! Choose Me, choose me!
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    Quote Originally Posted by logan820 View Post
    I agree w/ the guys don't want to approach the girls who are out of there league thing. Guys are weird sometimes.
    Conversation wins each time
    the problem is, wen youre the hot girl going to the guy who knows hes out of your league and youre selling your dance, he breaks out with the, youre only paying me attention for my money talk and im like, FUXAKE!

    you cant win.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 21stcenturyfox View Post
    the problem is, wen youre the hot girl going to the guy who knows hes out of your league and youre selling your dance, he breaks out with the, youre only paying me attention for my money talk and im like, FUXAKE!

    you cant win.
    Isn't that the damn truth! Yet another reason to try to be middle of the road in the looks department and let some other advantage like humor or great stage show be the thing that makes you stand out as compared to other dancers.

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