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    i am really starting to loathe the women that either go there to please thier man, or just hang out.

    money has been kinda crappy at our club lately. honestly.

    these girls come in with "designer" bags (i say that because, if they were real, they wouldn't be sitting there with water and not tipping) and talk shit on us dancers. they act like they are big pimpin but do NOTHING!!!

    i was in the back about to give a dance, when rage against the machine came on (<3) and during my dance, i noticed that no one was tipping the girl on stage. This one table, however, made up of 3 women and 2 men, were acting up and singing the song. i really hated that they would give the SONG more attention than they would the girl. how RUDE. I mean, it happens to all of us i'm sure, but if you like the song that much, TIP!

    and i hate when people request songs and DONT tip. or, if they do tip, it's a freaking dollar!

    but seriously... i hate girls in the club that act like they are above us.

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    The club I'm at now attracts a lot of girls, young girls at that. It pisses me off to no end. I wish I could work at a club that doesn't allow women but what club is going to turn away the cover charge that women bring in? I don't know what to tell you other then they are losers and we are cool and just ignore them.:-/

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    I remember one time I was waitressing these 3 female customers were in the bathroom hanging out (wtf? lol,) and I went in to use the stall and there was a dancer coming out of the dressing room (connected to the bathroom) as I went in. She said hi or something to the customers and they were all friendly back, but as soon as the door swung shut after she left all they could talk about was "all her nasty cellulite." Now this girl was the sweetest ever, nothing but nice to everybody, and she didn't have that much cellulite, honestly. I thought she was hot.

    I went out and washed my hands, and had to bite my tongue to keep from going off on them about how they'd never have the balls to do what she did, and how one of their asses could knock out our biggest bouncer in one fell swoop heh. They prolly made shitty comments about me after I left too, but I'm glad I kept my mouth shut, since that was the night another waitress got attacked by another rude female customer and she knocked the bitch right out. One lawsuit a night was prolly enough for my manager.

    Anyways, I'm getting off topic. They come in with their man and wanna act all cute and above the girls but as soon as they get the chance they're running their mouths... insecurity R' Us. If it makes you feel that way and you're not having fun, just let him go out with his boys and STAY HOME.

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    It's girly cattiness. Karma comes back and does bite you in the ass though. If I have something nasty to say about a girl, I just usually keep it to myself because I know I'm not perfect either.

    It's probably because those girls are too insecure to strip.
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    Girls suck!... well no id say 30% of them do. There are some girls who cheer the loudest, and clap the hardest. There are the ones who really see it as more of an art form and they are just amazed that we are ordinary girls too. then there are the bad apples.They do think they are better than us. They are jealous that we can walk around in our g-strings and not be confidant... secretly they admire us.

    If im onstage and get attitude from a girl ill embarrass her. If its that shes laughing at me, a snide comment, even a sideways look, i will watch her like a hawk for the rest of my stage. If shes with a guy, i intentionally give him some extra attention to make her jealous. Then when shes got her angry/bitchy face on, ill go say something like you dont look like your having much fun, everyone else seems to be having a good time. Turn that frown upsidedown.

    Usually when i show them that im not scared of them, they back down. Im the one onstage and my foot is at the same level that her head is.... so, be nice!

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    I kill them with kindness. Women find it difficult to say rude things about you if you shower them with compliments. I have actually heard a girl saying rude things about me, but turned it into a private dance sale by stopping, chatting and complimenting. If she's with a guy, I'll say "Wow, thanks for bringing this beautiful girl with you to the club!". It's more daunting to approach groups of women, but I force myself to, and say "Damn! All these hot women in one place, what's the occasion?" It usually works! Bank on the bitches!

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    I had a chick in our club a few weeks ago who talked shit about EVERY girl in the place, dancer or customer. Long story short, a 30 man brawls started over her mouth. Bitch got her ass fed to her by another dancer and a female custy. I got the birds eye view from stage as it broke out during my last song.

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    i really like the girl patrons who ask questions about what the life of a stripper is like, and act all interested in dancing. it just shows that many women think about doing it, and aren't looking down at us.

    i knew a couple WAITRESSES who acted like they were better than dancers! one of the waitresses at my old club said, "i don't take my clothes off, i'm better than that, i'm better than everyone here." i guess that is the attitude that bitchy female customers have. the most bitchy female customer was this tiny little blonde girl with big boobs, she was with a group of guys and kept yelling at them when they tried to talk to me or make noise during my stage shows. she said something about me being "blah" with no boobs. i will admit, this girl was actually prettier than me, but i'm just doing my job so she should fuck off. anyone who goes in a strip club to insult the dancers appearance is a moron. i was doing better than most girls that night, even with my lack of boobs!

    some female customers are totally cool and down to earth, even if they are there just to please their husbands. they still respect the dancers and say stuff like, "it must take courage to go up there and dance naked, i could never do it, i admire what you do". i guess it really depends on the person's opinion of strippers. i think most girls think they are better than strippers, assuming that we're "slutty" or whatever.

    i proceed with caution when i see female customers, or just try to ignore them unless they talk to me.
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    yeah its annoying especially when they try to draw attention to themselves. I love when they start giving their guys lapdances when they are wasted. They are jealous they secretly wish that they could be on that stage dancing, and getting the attention that we command. I truly believe that is why they act "better" than us

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    I pretty much agree with everything that Lux said.....heh.......seriously...

    A loooooooooooong....long...very long...time ago. I was afraid of strip clubs. Mainly, I was actually afraid of letting my man go to them(you know that whole pesky insecure girl thing)... then one day...It just snapped..and I realized...

    Dancers are doing a job. They are not there to steal your man. They're there to sell a fantasy and entertain.. oh and of course to DO THEIR JOB.

    AND....Most dancers are attractive ladies..if not some of the most..... hypnotizing women in the world(pole tricks get me..hehe..that and fluidity) ..... SO WHY WOULDN'T YOU WANT TO LOOK?? AND WHY WOULDN'T YOU WANT TO DROP YOUR DOLLARS?

    Ok I confess I became completely starstruck by a local dancer here in Portland. She's still my idol.

    The last time I was out at a club with my girlfriends..we all happened to be sitting at the rack... having a good time... and suddenly my girlfriend leans over and points out to me a group of girls who've come in and are giving the dancer on stage a SCATHING look... her comment to me was ... "They just don't get it."

    My reply.. "No, they get it. And they hate it." .... It's all insecurity. So they think....(and you all know this) if they show up and hang out... and steal attention that they can prove they're better than the dancers. When secretly they WISH they were dancers. Honestly, I really wish that security would do a better job of kicking these girls out. They're doing nothing but causing trouble.

    I've seen drunk girls practically GRAB dancers and not get tossed out. However, I've seen guys just make the wrong comment and they're gone! I think there should be no diffrence because of gender... if you're not tipping..you're gone. If you're causing a scene.. you're gone. Why play favorites?

    Heh... or you can just do like one of my other favorite dancers.........

    Once upon a time ... my girlfriend and I were seated at the rack...we were talking to the dancer and having a good time...oh and we were tipping...so in return the dancer on stage was only giving US the show. Then..out of nowhere....this large group of girls with ONE guy sits down at the rack across from us. The guy they are with puts up $1 for the whole group(there was probably 6 of them) .... the dancer was pissed. Soo.... she decided to show off one of her special "tricks"....... she walks over to the rack... reaches down to the floor and bounces her booty against the rail. Heh... beer is spilled all over the girls...and on her way back up she flips her long black hair in their faces. She then strides fiercly over to my friend and I...... and she says...... and I quote............

    "I don't care if YOU have a PUSSY. It still costs a dollar to see mine."

    Hehe...awww....we giggled. Oh, and the girls left. Obviously.

    Anyways..I've only had a few female customers.... my club doesn't really bring in the ladies(unless they're dancers. hehe...) ..... all four of them were polite. And one group were even friends with the bartender(leading me to believe they'd be ultra catty) Howeve they were nice enough to tip me a few fives. Yay fives! Hehe..Soo... I haven't had to deal with any real cattiness yet.

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    Last night this couple came in and everytime a girl would go up and try to talk to them the wife would freak out. A girl went to try to sell them her feature and the woman screamed at her "get away from us we don't want anything!" No one could talk to them, she kept freaking out on anyone that tried. It was funny because these two girls went up to them and one of the girls asked him why they were there (while his wife was next to him), and the other answered while she looked the wife in the eyes and said "that's because his wife can't please him." Classic.

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    When I got to strip clubs with my (female) friends we always make sure to tip, keep nasty comments to ourselves and act like respectable gentlemen customers would.

    When we go to the stage to tip a girl we like, she gives us the same treatment she would a guy. Usually it's a booty shake, face in boobs - HOW DO STRIPPERS GET THEIR BOOBS TO SMELL SO GOOD?!
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    i agree with the drunk girls lapdancing thier men... i think it's tacky. GET AN APPLICATION IF YOU WANT TO LAPDANCE!

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    ^^^ I've even had that happen at certain clubs stage-side (not away from the stage.. right there.. in the first few rows of seats). ARGH!


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    ^^^^^
    Last night I had an ugly couple sitting at my stage pashing - gross get a room!

    The other week another fugly couple snuck into our private dance area and the BF was sucking her tits! Dirty bastards.

    The thing I have noticed about girls who come into the club is that the better looking they are, they cooler about being there and less catty they are and the fatter or uglier they are, the worse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by logan820 View Post
    yeah its annoying especially when they try to draw attention to themselves. I love when they start giving their guys lapdances when they are wasted. They are jealous they secretly wish that they could be on that stage dancing, and getting the attention that we command. I truly believe that is why they act "better" than us
    I was at a club recently where a couple of drunk girls were carrying on and dancing and groping eachother in one of the horse-shoe tables. The bouncer came over and told them to stop but then the DJ *sigh* said somehting to the effect of "Welll it looks like we;ve got some crazy horny girls out in the crowd tonight. We should get them up on the stage guys, what do you say?" I just groaned and rolled my eyes... why would he be encouraging them? Isn't his job supposed to be to get TIPPING customers to go up. Anyway some guy sitting across the club (my hero) just yelled out "No that is a HORRIBLE idea!! I came here to see strippers not random drunken sluts!" hehe that made me giggle.

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    We had some women in the other night. It was a slow night, two days after the amateur contest and this women would not stop dancing. Mr.C kept saying "amateur night was WEDNESDAY night." Dumb idiots didn't take the hint. They were not sitting at the tip rail they were sitting in the cheap ass rolly seats not getting dances not tipping. The woman was dancing like a moron too.

    I always end up getting rude looks/comments from girls. I figure my delicious boobs incite lots of jealousy in them, so I say whatever. And ignore them.

    I like your story kaiarose, someone needed to put a bitch in her place.

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    One night there was a group of three guys and two women in, kind of middle-aged, obviously two married couple and a male friend. Everyone except one of the women was having a good time and being friendly. The cranky bitch was giving all the dancers nasty looks and saying rude things, and was clearly trying to get the other woman to do the same. So I came over and started complimenting the not-bitchy one and telling her I wanted to do naughty things to her (which was complete bullshit, but that's beside the point). She got all giggly, smiley, and blushy and was clearly instantly won over to the whole strip club experience. Ohhh, the look on the bitchy one's face. It was priceless! Not only had I made sure that the other woman wouldn't agree with her, thus leaving her alone in her little world of bad attitude, but she didn't get any compliments at all. I don't think she had a very good night. Don't piss off the strippers, bitch!
    Oh, and the garnish to my satisfaction was that one of the husbands in the group bought the single guy a lap dance from me, in spite of the bitchy chick's protests.

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    I agree about the ugly girls being the biggest bitches. It is always the fat ones that come in and talk all kinds of shit. I'm sorry if I sound like a big bitch here, but it is true. i am so SO sick of female customers. If you want to come in and enjoy yourself, great! but seriously, why do they come when they obviously don't want to be there? ARGH.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    i agree with the drunk girls lapdancing thier men... i think it's tacky. GET AN APPLICATION IF YOU WANT TO LAPDANCE!
    The bouncer should go and charge them a house fee!

    Just like you can't just go to the mall and start doing business w/o first paying your rent, women should not be allowed to randomly start lap dancing in strip clubs w/o paying a house fee like all the other dancers!


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Every so often there will be a group that just comes in for who knows what reason to eyeball the dancers....I just laugh at them when I see them looking my way with the shit-smelling look on their faces.

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    You cant really do anything about this. If they get obnoxious you could tell management but I wouldnt if it was a slow night or small club.

    The bottom line is you deal with what you have for customers. Learn to deal with each type of patron. Ignore the ones you cant deal with even if its their fault.
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    it's true that there isnt anything we can do, but its rude for them to treat us badly or like they're any better.

    but then again, the guys do it too... not all, but you know some of them do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Last night this couple came in and everytime a girl would go up and try to talk to them the wife would freak out. A girl went to try to sell them her feature and the woman screamed at her "get away from us we don't want anything!" No one could talk to them, she kept freaking out on anyone that tried. It was funny because these two girls went up to them and one of the girls asked him why they were there (while his wife was next to him), and the other answered while she looked the wife in the eyes and said "that's because his wife can't please him." Classic.
    LMAO!

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    Last night I encountered this again. There was a hockey game, so after the game the girls came in w/ their b/f's.. So annoying. They weren't even tipping the bartender for drinks! One of them wanted to get up on stage, and the manager was like no. I guess she does this at other clubs in the area. They were all givin dirty looks, and sitting there like princesses. I was just glad my boss shot her down!

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