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    Hey girls,
    Ok so Im going for my first audition ever on monday and Im petrified! This is something Ive been wanting to do for a while now and I finally have the independence I need to pursue the things I want in life. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips or words of encouragement for a first timer? Anything will help, basically I just need soem help getting pumped up

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    Don't take it too seriously, just try to actually enjoy it.
    I was so nervous on my first night that I nearly chickened out of going. But now I am soooooooooo glad I had the courage to do it. You will be so proud of yourself when you do and you can come back to SW and tell us all about it.
    It's not nearly as scary as you think it will be - at least that's what I found.

    Good luck

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    Channel Stuart Smalley girl- you're good/smart/sexy enough, and dangit, people will LOVE you!

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    go for it you are going to do awsome. I am in the same postion expect i am a vetern dancer returning to the stage I am very nervous to it will be okay.

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    When your nervous, just take a deep breath and know you can ace it....its a uh uh uh feeling at first but youll persevere....good luck!

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    Practice your routine/moves at home a bunch of times in front of the mirror. Find out if you can pick your song for the audition and if you can, pick one you really love, as this will take a lot of the edge off and make you get into your performance. Being nervous is totally fine and normal. I've been dancing for almost 10 years now, and still get nervous from time to time. Just have fun and be confident and don't forget to smile!

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    And if you get the chance let a number of the customers know it's your first time dancing.

    Knowing that it's the first time you've stripped in public does something to the male psyche.

    Even if you're slightly clumsy, it'll add to the thrill for them.

    It won't a case of "that dancer's clumsy" - it'll be a case of "hey, she's not going through the motions like the other girls - she's stripping for the first time".

    Sometimes being new works in your favour.

    Good luck...

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    Everyone is nervous their first time up on that stage! The songs seem to play forever. I brought a girlfriend with me and she came up at sat at the stage during my audition. Having her there made all the difference, I could look at a familiar face and it made me smile & much less nervous. Try to make eye contact with as many people as possible in the crowd and SMILE, it will make you seem at ease even if your not.....
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    dont worry! its way worst than u think it is! lol.

    its like when yer up there...ull just feel great energy and sexified...and wen yer clothes come off..it will feel so natural!

    even if u still feel nervous yer first couple of days or week..dont worry. your NEW! it takes every1 2 ease up. i mean, i still get nervous when i first go on stage. u jus have to be CONFIDENT...n remeber that the men are fighting over yer attention..u dotn need their "approval"....THEY need yours! n if sum guy talks down 2 u..dont take it personal. ur jus some "stripper" to them..they dont know u on a personal level so dont take it personal

    but yeah its really empowering when u get over the fears...the fears usually melt away without u noticing

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    I recommend giving a lot of lap dances with men to loosen up....forget about the stage.

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