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    Default Ain't That A Kick In The Head / So Upset

    My neck healed far better than expected so I planned to go back to work. I was really excited to get back as i've missed it a great deal and hadn't thought i'd ever be able to.

    I went in and talked to Manager #1 Saturday night, he told me to call Manager #2 and talk to him as he dealt with scheduling.

    I called last night; M2 said he and M1 had spoken and they both thought my time at the club was done. To say the least I was flabergasted.

    I asked why, probably ten times before I got any sort of answer. He said he was trying to be delicate. I asked who's decision it had been, his or M1's, he said it was both of them. I told him to quit dicking me around, the least he owed me was an honest answer. He said they both thought I had let myself go and was past my prime which I assume is code for you're too old. I said if I was too old/fat/ugly than why were 2 girls, both with issues with being too heavy and looks, rehired. He said maybe they had thier quota of fat ugly old girls right now and didn't feel they had room for more.

    Nice eh? I'm part of the fat, ugly, old crowd now apparently.

    I can't begin to explain how betrayed and hurt I feel about the whole fucking thing. I didn't leave on bad terms. I was never reprimanded for my weight or appearance, I wasn't late for my shift more than twice in three years. I didn't smuggle booze or drugs into work, I didn't cause scenes in the dressing room or have crying sprees or any of that shit. Wtf. I THOUGHT I was on friendly terms with them. And what's shittiest; M1 could have just told me flat out on Saturday that they didn't need me or whatever. In addition how could M2 make a call about my appearance when he hasn't even seen me since I left?

    I worked at the same club for three years. It's the ONLY club i've ever worked in. I don't even know how to go about finding a new club and at this point don't even know if I should bother trying.

    The worst part? Even though the hole thing seems hinky I find myself feeling utterly shitty about how I look now and it pisses me off that I would let something logically I feel isn't true to bother me....

    For the record, this is what I look like:




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    Asshole managers. I think you still look super hot!

    Go find another club that would bow down to have you work there. Your old managers obviously need glasses.

    You're still a MILF!!!

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    Find another club. You are at least as in shape if not more so then I am and I never have a problem getting hired. Dress hot and go into another club and ask about hiring....I'm sure you will be fine. These guys are just assholes..dont listen to them.
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    WTF? You're hot.. Don't listen to them, they're just being assholes. Get all dolled up and find another club that will treat you better

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    I love your legs in the black gown. Caliente!!!

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    I don't think you look ugly/old/or fat O.O I just think they look like assholes.

    If it's anything, you're the total opposite of fat and ugly - you have a great body and I know you've had kids (one or two?) from you previous posts - I've never had kids and I struggle with my body. You look great.
    Like Venus said, total MILF.
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    You're all hotly. Find another club. A body like that should be dancing, preferably without clothes.

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    Fuck that shit, asswipe must be blind!!!

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    WHAT??? They are just power tripping assholes. I think you're fucking gorgeous...you look 10x better and more in shape than me and I'm 21. You look beautiful and classy. Besides we know(and everyone on SW will agree) that worthy men(ie spenders) prefer a woman that isnt fucked up, drunk, classy, can hold a conversation and has actually lived life. These managers just lost an asset but thank god its another clubs lucky fucking day. BTW I'm glad you don't live by me cause all my money would dissapear.
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    Um. I'm missing something. You're fucking hot. And I'd tell you if you weren't. You look "older" (as in in not 22), but that should not be a problem. Guys at my club usually prefer older dancers as long as they look good.

    Your booty is up higher than most of the girls at my club. And those legs!

    This is utter bullshit.

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    Fuck them, you don't look too old to dance or out of shape. Their loss is another club's gain. Try another club.






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    And gosh, you have a really pretty face too, on top of that killer MILF body. Honestly, that first pic made me gasp... your eyes, your cheekbones. Damn, woman.

    There are more clubs. I know changing clubs is hard to do but remember, it'll never be as hard as the first time you started, and you lived through that (and succeeded)! Onward and upward. You can do it.

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    You don't look fat OR old! I would kill for your body!

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    Default Re: Ain't That A Kick In The Head / So Upset

    And I forgot to add(sorry but this post really steamed me) if you were obviously making money then you belonged there. Don't worry the guys are still going to want to give you thier wallets no matter what club you're at.
    Emiliana



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    I'm realistic. I know i'm not "young" but i'm not fucking old either (i'm 35). And they have someone, recently hired, who is 42. Add in the two girls who were re-hired that are overweight (one is flat out fat, i'm talking she's gained a good 40lbs + since last time I saw her) and not pretty in the face at all and I just don't get it. I have three kids so I know my body isn't perfect but I make an effort to look decent.

    I seriously think the weight/age thing was just an excuse. Apprently someone doesn't like me or something which breaks my fucking heart because I honestly LIKED the managers. I really liked them....

    I am so upset. My feelings are so hurt and it's so stupid.



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    Wow. If your fat, I'm obese.

    Go to another club. And don't ever expect a club to have any loyalty.



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    Its obvious that there were other issues because your looks are not one. You are beautiful and toned. They are crazy, just brush it off and go somewhere else. Big hug.
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    I've been rejected by club managers & I look like a teenaged wahine (exotic looking)...IMO they gave you the bluntest-sounding rejection because they know how to play on female insecurity so you would disappear quietly...& I've never met a manager I liked, I never consider ANYONE who takes a cut of my pay for NOTHING a pal. (At least the Mob busts heads for "protection money"...)

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    believe it or not, this isn't uncommon<-- I know it sounds crazy.
    This has happened to two of my friends at diff. clubs. Basically the managers were weeding out anyone they didn't both agree on or who the dancers they were sleeping with didn't like. Both girls were bigger, but not bigger or older than a few dancers that had been there for a while and even had missing teeth. Plus, both girls always made tip out and never had complaints from custies (if anything they had a aquired a few big ones that spent pretty good money on them).
    I think someone (dancer or manager) decided they didn't like you and it had nothing to do with your looks or attiitude.
    Sounds like you just need to say screw 'em and realize that any club that treats theire money-makers that way doesn't deserve you.
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    plus: had to add, where did this "fat" comment come from? Either you know how to hide it w/ a camera (ha ha) or this guy is the biggest jerk out there.
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    Your body is in great shape and you're hotter than the average stripper. I'd find a new club. You don't deserve that shit.

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    Ya, I don't get it. I was away for about 6-7 months with my neck injury and size wise i'm the same as before I left. I always got along with folks, or so I thought.
    *shrug*

    Keep in mind I worked there for 3 years. You woulda thought if they didn't like me they would have tossed me out awhile ago.



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    Maybe the club is getting dirty and ur too classy. I hear Cadillac put up curtains in the lapdance booths- they're all competing with Cheaters. God I would really hate if that club is gettin' all dirty now- none of this makes sense though. I'm so sorry
    But like everyone else has said- You are HOT! And you will find another club that will appreciate having you!!!

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    VG, you can kill this if you need to, but I just had to chime in here, having seen Sirona at work, and more importantly, having seen what's recently passed for dancers at that club--increasingly drug-addled anorexics and Chubby Club girls.

    I hear Cadillac put up curtains in the lapdance booths- they're all competing with Cheaters.
    True--was there myself recently, and dancers' offerings without curtains (the open couch area) were pretty encompassing.

    Guys at my club usually prefer older dancers as long as they look good.
    Truth. More mature dancers generally have a certain ease around men vis a vis their more nubile counterparts.
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    Are you kidding me? WTF is wrong with them? By NO MEANS do you fall into that category thats for sure. I can not believe that they would even go there.
    Wow...

    Screw them. Find another place and forget them. You deffffff should not feel bad about how you look. You are NOT fat, old, etc...

    I am just as shocked as you are!!!

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