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    Default "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    Is that line bullshit? is it real?
    i get into my dances, so i believe it when it's said but i hear it so often that i wonder, am i getting CS and buying it? but really, i want to buy it. does he really like me? or is it all about the money?
    joking aside, please, answer honestly.

    Love it!

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    When I've said this--it is very rare--I've meant it. Generally it means the LD moves were sexy and surprising, but moreso that the dancer seemed to in be in perfect sync with me AND truly enjoying herself. I can count on one hand the times this has happened over the years.

    What about all those other dances? They are nice, too. The dance ends, I smile politely and say, "That was nice. Thanks."

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    I always say something nice after getting a dance...just to be polite if nothing else. There are times when I have given a better than typical compliment if the dance was really great. I hope my normal politeness isn't mistaken for bullshit. I think they can tell the difference.

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    Yes it is until his next " Best dance he ever had " . I think its a toss up but hey take a compliment when its given , maybe the best way to know if it was the best dance was the post financial gain .

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    Him: THAT WAS THE BEST DANCE EVER!!

    Her: Im glad you really liked it, was it really the best ever?

    Him: Yes it was I have never had a dance like that...

    Her: well Im sure your tip will reflect it!



    But in all seriousness, when I say something was the best I have ever had, I gennerally leave a generous tip. I agree with Jay, if he sounds sincere, and you have no reason to believe he isint, well then Believe it!

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    I get it a LOT too. I believe it, because I'm a good fucken stripper!

    Anyway, who cares if it's CS or not? Just take the compliment and love it!!

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    Ahh, I've never had a problem with giving a dancer a little ego boost when she deserves it. If she did a really great job, I'd like her to know it, more specifically know what it was that made it so great. I'd also like her to make a beeline for me the next time I'm in to see her. Of course, I say actions speak louder than words, even sincere ones. Like say, peeling off at least 10 bills from a wad of twenties when were finished.

    This is often counteracted with an expression of affectionate gratitude. A big hug, multiple pecks on the cheek, her work schedule, or sometimes even a phone number. I could write all that off as SS, but whether it is or not, its nice to know I've helped make a gal's night, particularly if the sale was an exceptionally large one for her. What can I say, I like a well deserved ego boost myself.
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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    What does it t you matter if you got paid for it? ....unless you are interested in the person. Remember this is a job not a personal introduction service. And as a job, your performance is most importantly measured by your income.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    ^ it does matter. on the surface i guess i was just curious if it was CS or real. my take was that it was genuinely a really good dance for whomever says it. but for me, it's not JUST about getting paid, i want to make sure the custy enjoyed himself (or herself).. kind of pride myself in being so awesomely great at my job.

    Love it!

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    Come give me a dance and I will let you know. Seriously, some people are just very positive person. They believe everyday they wake up is the best day of their life.

    I usually don't verbally complement lap dances maybe stage moves but not lap dances. I assume if I'm asking for multiple dances then I like what you are doing. If I was you I would just do a mental check to see how many dances customers are buying from you versus other girls (assuming a clean playing field). I usually empty my wallet on the best dances.

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    Whenever I say it, it's absolutely true...at that moment in time. It's not really CS, it's just a temporal recognition of the present circumstances.
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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    I have yet to tell a girl she gave me the best dance I've ever had. I'm not one to frivolously throw a bouquet as absolute as that one around. I guess I'm still searching for that dance.

    It is nice to get a reminder that many girls do take great pride in their work and it wouldn't hurt to offer a positive review when warranted while tipping.

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    Chrissy, it could very well have been true for him. At that moment. Guys do tend to forget stuff though so its possible that he had an equally superior dance last week resulting in a similar complimentary comment. But still, if it made you feel good and helped boost your confidence, its all good.

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    I get that all the time too and I believe it coz of the way it's said and the look on their faces

    I pride myself in what I do too and I put a lot of effort in to make sure that they love it. The fact that they keep handing over money is an indicator that they are telling the truth.

    I also get "that was worth every cent" - I like this one too.

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    I always believe it too. People seem very genuine when they say it you can tell by the body language and reactions, applause, praise, handshakes etc and often they either extend the shows, come back again or recomened their friends get shows too. Without meaning to sound big headed I get it alot, I know Im good at what I do and I know alot of other dancers never really get told this. I am an attention whore and I thrive on it! (-:

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    Could be CS, could be sincere. When I've said it, I've really meant it. And both of us could tell. And it was reflected in the tip or return business. And I've known guys who may say stuff like that, but their tip or business doesn't reflect it. Hope for the former.

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    I get it. I think it's real enough, until the lights come on.



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    heh. nice lena. nice.

    Love it!

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    Fuck that if its the best I've ever had I'm getting seconds... thirds.. fourths you get the drift. Also fuck that about great tips, if it's that damn good I'm gonna be greedy and spend every last fucking penny I got on dances. Hasn't happened yet, but I think actions speak louder than words.
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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    i hear that a lot too, but i think it sounds more sincere sometimes than others. you can usualy tell when they really mean it. heh.

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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    I never, ever said such a thing until last night. I always thanked the dancer and said how much I enjoyed it, even the one time that it really sucked.

    But last night, the lovely dancer I chose sat with me, made interesting and intelligent conversation, cuddled with me, and generally made my night wonderful. I had lots of dances with her, and between times we sat at my table.

    This could have happened because all I have learned here about when and how much to tip, so thanks, ladies. Or maybe it was because the dancer was just nice, who knows. She said that hardly any guy ever tipped extra after the dances and seemed genuinely surprised when I did.

    I not only told her that it was the best dance I've ever had, I told her it was the best night in an SC I'd ever had. And I meant it, too.

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    It's as real as anything else anybody says in a strip club. There was this kid in Dallas who paid me $100 per dance for 3 dances and told me they were the best dances he'd ever had; I tend to think he meant it.

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    I'm egotistical.
    I have NO trouble believing this one.
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    Default Re: "that was the best dance i ever had!"

    You can usually tell if they're just saying it or being sincere. I had a guy about a month ago tell me this, after he got 8 dances, so I believed him. I will admit I was giving him better than average dances and he wasn't trying to touch so it was easy to get close to him.

    I think it does matter a little. It's always nice to get a boost of confidence above and beyond the cash.

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    It matters to me too. I don't want to deliver a crappy service!
    And I always believe it when I hear it. There is no reason for me not to! I know my dances kick ass. As I've said before, they are good because I CARE that they are good.

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