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    Default He was never there. Please help me forget him!!

    My bf broke up with me a couple months back. He cheated, and I never saw it coming (d-e-n-i-a-l) and I left. But, I miss him EVERY DAY.

    I keep hearing thru mutual friends that his band Finally got signed, etc. All these good things are happening, and he really has moved on and couldn't care less about me. I'm trying so hard to forget him. He hasn't bothered to call or anything, which breaks my heart.

    I see he wants nothing to do with me, and i never meant anything much to him cause he just ditched me but i think of him Every day. Any suggestions of how to just move on? I keep telling myself, "maybe he wants me to message him". How can someone just move on and never look back? We spent so much great time together...

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    Default Re: He was never there. Please help me forget him!!

    You need to get angry. That is helpful in progressing to the next stage in getting over him. Dwell for a few minutes on how much he hurt you. Think about what a lowlife he must have been to think so little of you. It sounds like he was very self centered, and broke your heart in the end.

    When thoughts start creeping into your head about how he was nice to you or whatever, add in that he was a cheater. Write down all the awful things that have happened because you met him. How he hurt you so profoundly and then later marches off on his merry way like it was nothing.

    After you're pissed off, then I'll help you plot "mental revenge". That is my favorite part of breaking up, plotting mental revenge (never plot actual revenge...just fantasize about it).


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    Just move on...easier said than done i know but i only had 1 g/f my whole life (we lasted 3 years and i loved her) that cheated on me. I gave her a second chance and she did it again and thats when i said goodbye. It was really hard but it got easier with time...just dont have revenge or hatred on your mind. Be positive and look forward to what the future has in store for you.

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    Default Re: He was never there. Please help me forget him!!

    Get a life.

    Do something - find an interest or hobby you neglected or have been neglecting and do it. Or do something new... learn something new... meet new people.

    GET OUT THERE


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    Living well is the best revenge, as they say. Be nice to yourself, pamper yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatGrrl View Post
    My bf broke up with me a couple months back. He cheated, and I never saw it coming (d-e-n-i-a-l) and I left. But, I miss him EVERY DAY.

    I keep hearing thru mutual friends that his band Finally got signed, etc. All these good things are happening, and he really has moved on and couldn't care less about me. I'm trying so hard to forget him. He hasn't bothered to call or anything, which breaks my heart.

    I see he wants nothing to do with me, and i never meant anything much to him cause he just ditched me but i think of him Every day. Any suggestions of how to just move on? I keep telling myself, "maybe he wants me to message him". How can someone just move on and never look back? We spent so much great time together...
    You are remembering and missing the ideal him, not the one that cheated on you and broke up with you.

    The one that you should keep in your head is the asshat who hurt you. Thats pretty much who the real one of him is now. The guy you fell in love with is long gone, destroyed by himself.

    I went through this sort of thing with my divorce. It was hard not to think of her as the one that I married and have great times togther over, and not the selfish self absorbed "retreat from reality" person that she was in the end. But, the more I kept that reality in my head (and that was what she turned into), it was easier to deal with it.

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    Go get a fantastic booty call and make the man scream like a little girl!

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