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    Default All signs point to no!

    I swore I would never do it again, but I am dating a guy I met at work. Here are his stats: 37, cute, successful, never been married or had kids. In my past experiences, all these qualities mean the guy is a player. As a result, I am being very guarded and he can definitely see that. He actually does seem like a generally nice guy but I can't help but not trust him. Sometimes I feel like I am his trophy girl and other times he can be very sweet and caring. So should I just keep dating him to find out his intentions? I feel like I am not even giving him a fighting chance because my trust in men is almost non-existent as is.
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    Default Re: All signs point to no!

    What do you mean, you feel like his trophy girl? What exactly does he do to make you feel that way?
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    Default Re: All signs point to no!

    Quote Originally Posted by danni0316 View Post
    Here are his stats: 37, cute, successful, never been married or had kids.
    Well, that was my husband, and then at 38 he was all of the above but married to me. Give him a chance! Sounds a hell of a lot better than 37, twice divorced, with kids by three different mothers.

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    Default Re: All signs point to no!

    yea this could be way worse. he could be asking you to buy new rims for his car
    so really, take it at face value, and don't judge too quickly because you met him at work. yea, most guys we meet at work are bad and no-no's for us to date IRL but if he's not a SC goer often, and it was just by chance he was there, it could very well be fate. i agree with susan, give him a chance!

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    Well, perhaps he got all of the "playin" out of his system, he IS pushing 40.
    I'm dating a 39 yr old I met at the club. He's been married once and only has step children. His wife passed away a couple years ago
    Stay guarded though, it never hurts. I still am.

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    Default Re: All signs point to no!

    Give it a go. If you don't you may regret it later on. Life is about living it .. taking risks... and being able to experience it all... even the pain and hurt and not so nice side of life. If you keep going on about life not trusting people and especially men you have a very lonely boring existance indeed.



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