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    Angry Customer fondling himself...

    Yep, so last night I had this creep trying to play with himself during a lap dance. Eww. I give a great lap dance, with plenty of contact (this is LA), but I refuse to dance while he rubs one out. He kept trying even after I told him to quit it.

    How do you girls deal with this shit? I am very patient and continued to give him a good dance just as long as he kept his hand off it. Of course I didn't get tipped So now I'm thinking they get one warning only, and then I call off the dance if they try it again.
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    As long as he's not fondling ME I say 'go with God my friend'.

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    No other responses huh? I'm guessing this must be the normal here then
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    I'd probably end the dance if he kept doing it when I told him not to. He bought a dance from me, not a peep show (I don't have anything against peep shows btw).

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    Default Re: Customer fondling himself...

    well some guy tried doing this to me, and i kept saying, seductively, "but i want to be on top of you sooooooo bad, you have to move your hand, tho"

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    ^^ Thats a good one. When I did lappies and this happened I would get up and turn around and stare at them like they are stupid but only if they did it again after I told them nicely to no do that.
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    People try to fondle themselves pretty often in my club. I just tell them that they can't, and point out the cameras. That usually gets them to stop. Even if your club doesn't have cameras in the lap dance area, you can lie and say that it does.

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    I don't think it's normal.

    We would throw the fucker right out if it happened in my present club, but then the dancers aren't allowed to touch the guys' crotches with anything or any body part, either--which is the best policy I have ever seen in any club.

    Even in my last club, in which HJs and BJs were very common, I never heard of it--but then, obviously, it might have been unnecessary with about half the dancers there.

    What I hate hearing about is the guys' openly adjusting their dicks before the dance even begins, for maximum stimulation. This is so far removed from any vestige of class or style on the part of the customer that I cannot fathom it. And it goes on in some high-contact 'upscale' clubs. Things like this make my feeling that so many of them are like a different species even stronger.
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    Airdance begins immediately. Politely ask them to put it away. If they don't walk away and have him kicked out. Make sure you get paid first!

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    Gross and lame! There is this one dude who comes into my club with a hole cut in his jeans pocket... and while the girl air dances he puts his hand in his pocket and is "discreetely" jerking off...

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    One warning then the dance is OVER!

    Granted, one advantage to working in an environment where they are allowed to touch you is that they are too busy fondling your boobs and butt that they don't fondle themselves.

    I've generally found the fondling of one-self (by a customer) in clubs where there is no touching allowed (I can touch you, you can't touch me) and in those clubs I give the customer one warning and if I find him doing it still after that warning I will stop the dance.

    Thankfully all the dances are pre-paid here in Australia so I never have to worry about loosing out on money.

    Granted, some girls are more leniant with these 'fondlers' than others.


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    Quote Originally Posted by KatGrrl View Post
    Gross and lame! There is this one dude who comes into my club with a hole cut in his jeans pocket... and while the girl air dances he puts his hand in his pocket and is "discreetely" jerking off...
    Hahaha pocket whackers! So nasty, geezus if its an air dance just get some porn and do it at home. Save the girl from being traumatized.
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    I remember one time this happened to me I told the guy to put it away. I didn't start dancing again for him until he did and then I gave a half-assed dance. When the dance was over I asked for my money and he was all like I won't do it again. Like hell are you getting another dance dude. I spent 5 minutes arguing with him about paying me. I ended up getting my $20 in the end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatGrrl View Post
    Gross and lame! There is this one dude who comes into my club with a hole cut in his jeans pocket... and while the girl air dances he puts his hand in his pocket and is "discreetely" jerking off...
    That is pathetic.
    In Australia I've thrown drinks in thier laps for touching themselves. I was scared it was going to be the norm here. It's just too creepy. I'm not paid anywhere near enough to watch them masturbate.
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    This is so not normal. Since I hope you get money before each and every dance, say "well I have your money if you can't comply with myrules then you will have to leave and the dance ends now." Then have him kicked out and keep the money.

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    I found the clubs in LA to be very gropey/ grindy, but I didn't see any one taking matters into his own hands.

    When customers do that I will usually tell them to stop, and if they refuse, I leave the dance. It isn't worth the $20 to me.


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    I just straight coudn't do it if there was a chick looking at me. That's Bizarre. No wonder you chicks make so much money, the crap you put up with.

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    Now, one thing, if a guy says "I can see this getting painfull, can i adjust?" Is that okay? It's not that big of a deal, but i have a larger penis than most and while it's flaccid i don't really think about it. Once it starts getting hard all bunched up in my pants it can hurt. It's okay for a guy to adjust it through his pants right, as long as he lets the chick know?

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    Unfortunately, this kind of crap is not all that uncommon here. Usually they are too busy grabbing at me, so the JO thing is less frequent. I wouldn't be shocked if it happened though. Then again it depends on the rules of the club. If he's getting a regular dance, I stop and tell them that I won't continue until he stops. In a VIP, he can rub himself through his pants. I will absolutely refuse to dance for anyone who takes it OUT of his pants though. I had this happen a few times and I back away until it's clothed again. NO WAY am I going to risk getting anything on me via naked PL weener.
    I've also had guys just try to take their pants down and leave their underwear exposed. I stop dancing at that point too. I am definitely not getting paid enough to deal with that shit.

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    Oh lordy, if that is the norm in LA I'm glad I skipped working in that town. If that had happened at any of my clubs I would have had the guy removed the very moment he continued to do it after told it was not acceptable.

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    Now, to be clear, i'm not talking 'bout messin with it continually, i'm talking about moving it so that it points up. It can really hurt in some situations.

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    He didn't have it out, he wan't adjusting and it was on a 2 for 1 special. Innappropriate. He even said "what, I can't touch myself?" No, you cheap bastard.
    His friend paid for the dance, and tipped me. I'm guessing he's seen him try this before!
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    ....standing up, screaming, backing away and then pointing at it for 60 seconds is a good penis deflator.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    [re: "readjusting" before the LD] This is so far removed from any vestige of class or style on the part of the customer that I cannot fathom it.
    Well said.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    This is so far removed from any vestige of class or style on the part of the customer that I cannot fathom it.
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