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    Default Being tipped for your time

    I did a search, I swear...I couldn't narrow it down to anything specific enough ("You are viewing 1-25 of 500 threads").

    I see people on here mention all the time that a dancer should be tipped for time she spends with a (courteous, informed) customer if he takes up a significant amount of her time without buying a dance. I realize it's the dancer's choice if she chooses to remain with a customer to chit-chat, but how does one go about actually bringing up this sort of thing? Is it more of a "if they're good customers they'll compensate you for your time, if not, oh well" type thing?
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    Default Re: Being tipped for your time

    Just drop the hint..."Well i have to get back to work...I really loved chatting with you but I have to make some money...we get told not to sit without being paid by the floor managers..." blame it on a manager so it doesnt seem as if its you... they may say "Oh! here" and slip you some cash if not at least they know, then maybe the next time you come around they'll be more inclined to pay you for your chit chat.
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    Default Re: Being tipped for your time

    Emily had a good post in another thread from a while back:

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    I say something like, "a lot of guys don't like dancing and that's fine....but they also enjoy my company and understand my time is valuable. I'd love to stay and spend time with you, so maybe we can work something like this out so I can stay?"

    Make it sound like you want to be there and aren't just begging for money jsut for sitting there. Then he'll be more likely to want to keep you there.

    if he tells you he doesn't want you to stay, then you can still ask for a tip. But if he hands you a $20 or some amount you don't think is enough, you can say something like, "well, normally I earn $200/hr in the VIP, so I think half that is fair, but this feeds the meter for a little bit!"...or something like that.







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    Default Re: Being tipped for your time

    i believe this depends on the customer entirely..if he is a generous person that realizes she is working and her time is money here. If you ask him for a dance and he reclines the offer you could always ask for a tip do little something or show alittle something.Most times this works and then there are those who just won't tip............hmph! As for me i don't sit with the customer too long 5 mins top..and im gone if he rejects me for a dance.I don't like wasting my time talking for too long when im at work unless there buying dances and giving me money.

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    Default Re: Being tipped for your time

    I always say after a few minutes if they don't want a dance that I have to go try to make some money. Make sure you tell them you're having a great time chatting, but that if you sit too long the dj and management start charging you. tell them that after you sit for X minutes, they charge you for a dance or VIP whichever every so many songs or minutes. You get the idea. Sometimes it works, sometimes you get up when they don't offer and come back in a bit to see if they change their mind.

    Or if they say, "I don't get dances." Say, "Oh... that's fine. You can just tip me for my time. I'm fine with having some more great conversation." (insert dazzling smile here). If they say no, or act astounded by the suggestion. Move on.

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